The first paycheck, more often than not, is not much. After all, the beginning of the workplace, "value" is not high; some are still in the apprenticeship period, the boss to pay wages is only "meaning". Although the number of small, but the first, there is always a very special meaning.
One point of labor, one point of harvest. The first paycheck, to a greater or lesser extent, is a reward for hard work in the workplace. Many people feel the significance of labor and the value of work for the first time, and feel that they are "very good". In addition, not when the family does not know the firewood and rice expensive, some people began to think more about the firewood, rice, oil and salt of the trivialities of life, began to understand the parents are not easy, and began to learn to live a life of careful budgeting ...... from the school to the community, from the classroom to study to the tea, rice, oil and salt, to get the first paycheck of your career, means that you are away from a real meaning of self-reliance people, and then One step closer. Congratulations.
So, how should I spend it? A little more ceremoniously. What exactly is the precise definition of ritualistic? Many people can't say, because it's never been a uniform standard. But life does need a little sense of ceremony. Like the Little Prince says, make one day different from other days, make one moment different from other moments. Get the first paycheck, some people will give their parents a big red packet, some people will open the shopping cart to buy a cell phone for mom and dad, and some will prepare a small gift for the benefactors ...... In fact, it is not important to send what is important is the emotion contained in it.
To repay parents, "who said inch grass heart, to repay the three spring sunshine" "sheep have kneeling milk grace, crows have to feed the righteousness"...... our culture has been grateful to return the The tradition of thankfulness to our parents has always been a part of our culture. And filial piety or to assume the family responsibility, is reflected in daily life, manifested in a tiny details. Beginning to work, get the first paycheck, means that "wings hard", since then there is a relatively stable source of economic resources - this is not only an important point in their own lives, for parents is also a big day. For example, a friend used her first month's salary to enroll her mother in a travel tour. She said that looking at the photos of her mom and dozens of square dancers waving silk scarves as they embarked on the journey made her happier than if she had traveled herself. The first paycheck spent on loved ones, watching them scold you for "spending money recklessly" while expressing their joy, watching them meet "old pals" can't help but brag about it, their hearts that kind of small pride, small pride, it's really worthwhile for you to experience a little bit.
Of course, it wouldn't hurt to treat yourself. You can ask your colleagues to eat a meal, you can buy the long desired skirt in the window of the mall to go home, you can buy a bunch of flowers, watch a movie, you can make a diary of the day to make the next "small goal"...... water is sounding, people are excited to be ambitious. With the first paycheck to reward themselves, to motivate themselves, and to experience the rewards of hard work, there is nothing wrong.
"Knowing the responsibility, the beginning of a great man; the responsibility of the line, the end of a great man." Starting from the first paycheck, you have to learn to be more mature and self-reliant, to start learning how to manage your money, and to slowly take on the responsibility of your family. So, a little more ceremonial, necessary.