Couple's life is very important for every family. This relationship is a fundamental factor in maintaining family harmony and so on. If the couple's life is not harmonious, then the happiness of the family will not be particularly high. Although it is important, but as we grow older, such a relationship is more and more people do not want to maintain, how many couples walking around on the loose, walking around more and more cold and passionless.
40 years old, to the middle-aged men and women for the "married life" desire is completely opposite, women want their husbands to have more time to accompany, more expression of love; and men hope that their wives are best not to manage their own, to give themselves more private space; the idea of the two belongs to a backward-looking The two men's ideas are in opposition to each other, so there will be a crack in their relationship after a long time.
One such woman spoke her mind and it really hurt!
She and her husband have only one daughter, and in our opinion should be a particularly happy family. In a first-tier city house and car have, husband and wife 2 people, although that salary is not the kind of particularly high, but 2 people's monthly average salary totaled about 16,000, and the company welfare treatment is not bad. But the seemingly luxurious appearance, it turns out to be a husband and wife 2 people have been sleeping in separate beds for about 5 years.
The child is more than 5 years old, that is to say, since the birth of the child, they seem to have been sleeping in separate beds, and there is no conjugal life, the husband and wife will always quarrel, no big point of things to quarrel. The man is basically the kind of guy who goes out with his buddies every Friday night for an all-nighter. The couple belongs to the kind that can't talk, and when they do, they will fight, and want to go back to their previous relationship, which feels impossible anymore.
So for the woman "husband and wife life" more let its desire, especially in the middle age, they are more hope that the husband for the marriage of loyalty, as the child grows up, hope that there is more time for two people world, the husband can be more love expression, let life is full of surprises.