Wife how to do your husband love you more
1, love with all your heart, in order to reap the benefits of sincere
Want to make your husband love you more, many times not by doing what plans, think of what can be done, that love is not enough to last. From now on, from the inside of his heart as the world's closest relatives, never leave, care about him, care about him, considerate of him. When you do, you will find that your attitude towards your husband will change, and that is an involuntary kind of action! Your husband will naturally feel it too! And he will return your love even more. Love, in itself, is mutual, not to ask, not a give and take!
2, the normal heart treat, naturally experience true love
For love is too nervous or too perfect, will lead to the loss of more, the usual mind is also very important, do not bother to pay love too much gain or loss, the normal heart, do a good job as a woman should do. Learn to keep house, learn to filial piety, learn to be considerate, learn to care. Life is all in your hands, happy life slowly go, happy taste slowly taste! Learn to give men a little space, do not everything is centered on yourself, all the time let him around you!
3, mutual respect for each other's differences
Men and women think differently about their feelings, men tend to be rational, women tend to be emotional. It is impossible to make each other fully understand their own thinking, so most of the time are to adapt to each other, respect and tolerance of these differences. According to data, more than 50% of marriages are unhappy. One of the reasons for this: useless, but heartbreaking criticism. To maintain a happy and joyful family life, remember: don't criticize. Also, communication between husband and wife is important! It is important to find a way of communicating that works for both of you; communicate honestly and straightforwardly; and remember, if emotions arise, stop them to avoid harm. It is also important to learn to listen, which takes considerable maturity. Listening represents patience, openness and a sincere desire to understand the other person, all of which are part of a mature personality. Conversely, it's much easier to talk to yourself and disrespect others.
Ways to make your husband love you more
Four if:
One, to have health. A person's physical health is the first place, without a healthy body, everything can not begin. Regardless of how others treat themselves, they can not treat themselves and hurt themselves. To pay attention to diet, adhere to the exercise, have a good body is to do a good job of the basis of all other things. Mental health, not blindly compare, life encountered in the unfortunate or annoying, change can be changed, can not change things to learn to accept and adapt, things frankly, contentment, full of optimism, self-confidence, open-mindedness, so that their own strong is the magic weapon you overcome all the difficulties.
Second, to have a career. After marriage, women must have their own business, no matter how big or small. Especially after giving birth to a child, after breastfeeding as soon as possible to create the conditions to work, do not do housewives, otherwise you pay a lot of money, the husband seems to be deserved, think you will be the same as the nanny. There is no cause, you can not show the value of your existence, let people feel that you are eating free food, rely on the husband life.
Third, to have friends. To have their own circle of friends, more leisure time to go out and meet with friends, can not just around the husband a person turn. Whether same-sex or opposite-sex, there must be a confidant, to have a person who understands you and holds you. In your loss, she will give you the strength to get back on your feet; in your complacency, will share your happiness, but also will point out the crisis you face, to avoid you getting carried away. Many people who go to the extreme, is not a real friend, if there is a real friend at the critical moment to listen to her, help her unravel the knot, life may be another kind of ending. A person, if there is not a confidant, there is not a trustworthy person, then you should not complain about others are not sincere, to reflect on themselves.
Fourth, to have hobbies. Have hobbies, life will be rich, will have friends, encounter frustration and failure, in order to effectively turn attention. Have a positive hobby, such as singing, dancing, yoga, excursions, etc., it will also bring you self-confidence, bring you happy, when you face a status, identity than your strong time, you remember that you have a better than her, inferiority complex will naturally subside. A positive hobby can bring you happiness for a long time, increase your body's positive energy, and make you full of confidence and passion.
The four don'ts are:
One, don't nag. A nagging woman, the whole family is a nightmare, when the tired husband back home, they fall into the clueless complaining, when he wants to do the most, is to cover his head and rushed out of the house to go.
Second, do not be selfish and mean. You accept your husband, you have to accept his family, love the house. Honor his parents, is one of the best emotional investment. Honor your parents. Many women will complain that their husbands are too filial to their parents, imagine, a person if even their parents are not filial, to repay the gift of nurturing can not do, how will you be good to you?
Third, do not compare everywhere. Since you accepted him, choose him, do not always feel aggrieved, do not take their husband's "shortcomings" and other people's husband's "strengths" than. This than down, will be compared to their own husbands are useless. Moreover, this is not fair, every family has its own problems, just you are far away, can not see other people's troubles, you see only the bright side of others.
Fourth, do not be too strong. To know how to meet the husband's sense of conquest, the relationship between husband and wife does have a lot of learning in it. "Men want their wives in bed is a slut, under the bed is a lady, down to the kitchen, up to the hall". That's pretty much the truth. Make him strong, make him confident, make him study you for the rest of his life while you give him the feeling of always being conquered by him. In this way, your husband will feel that you are the charming woman and he is the real man. Life can make a gentle woman lose her patience and a beautiful woman become unkempt, but the husband will often not pay for you in all this, he will think that it is you who have changed and not him. A woman should never take her husband as your all, let alone as your personal property, or you will lose the love of your husband. Many women are always accustomed to show their unattractive side to their husbands, and often board a face to the husband to pick and choose, men work all day, back home hope to get a woman's tender care rather than accusations, do not always say those unloved words to your husband, in life to be a pragmatist, useless words do not have to say, useless things do not do.
Let your husband love you more 20 get along with tricks
1, the husband is to love, not to gas. To love your husband is to love yourself.
2, the husband wants to eat an apple immediately when you go to wash. Experience has shown that the result of pushing around is not only hurtful but also consumes the time and energy to wash the apple.
3, order food to clearly say what you want to eat. Lest after the point who do not love to eat or only one party love to eat after the muttering.
4, never say break up or divorce when you quarrel, lest you can't get down afterwards.
5, try not to use food as a gift, so as not to forget after eating.
6, try to be less angry and more tears when quarreling.
7, be sure to remember your husband's birthday (solar and lunar) and make sure you are the first to say happy birthday to your husband.
8, to develop the habit of seeing your husband on the smile, especially when you come home from work and open the door.
9, need to accompany the husband and the husband can not be accompanied by the time to imagine that they are the wife of the defender of the country, tell him: you are busy, I can do.
10, softly coaxing when pay attention to play the female characteristics.
11, deliberately kiss him when he is half-asleep and half-awake and help him cover up.
12, in his bragging about his time to pretend to worship him, and show the future of the happy life full of hope.
13, in you watch TV or DVD, see the story of the marriage life is very sad, think of your husband to you when you are not around to give him a phone call, in the case of the side, on his body to cry for a while, and said, we do not want to be like that, okay?
14, in the husband to you after the courtesies to show a particularly excited look, and said a "husband you are the best for me!" To encourage.
15, occasionally with a careless tone of voice to the husband said such as a male colleague just came to ask you to go to the coffee, and you want to buy him a T-shirt because of the refusal of the matter.
16, since he has chosen and he **** degree of life, do not fantasize about changing him, can change only themselves. Education is futile, probation is feasible. If it still does not work, prepare a retreat before falling out with him.
17, with his money fitness to buy clothes and cosmetics. In his eyes at least you are more than enough at every age. And this is easy to do if you are willing to fix it. Men are happy to pay for their wives' beauty.
18, when you are bored to find something good for you to do, it does not matter if you spend more money. Remember not to choose to chat with men, once the red herrings, the best result is that you are often caught in the dilemma of going and not going on a date.
19, the shortcomings of the husband to look at it in two. There are no absolute disadvantages and advantages in the world. If he is lazy, then he will have more time off; if he has no money, then he will be less likely to cheat; if he looks ugly, there will be less likely to be a third party; if he is not motivated, he will focus all his attention on you.
20, the man is working and studying and thinking, do not try to let the husband's attention to shift to you. Because they are running around for the **** same home, the only thing you can do at this time is to give him the space of serenity.
How to do so that your husband can not leave you
1, tolerate the small shortcomings of men
Everyone has their own shortcomings, men are the same, although the woman's expectations of their own husbands are very high, but can not let him do anything so perfect, if only some small shortcomings, women should choose to understand and tolerate the shortcomings of the man, although you want to let him correct, but think about yourself! Let him correct, but think about their own perfect? No one is a little shortcomings are not, of course, these shortcomings of the man's own heart is also clear, if you are bent on letting him go to correct, will only make the man more disgusted, if you choose to tolerate, the man's heart will feel very warm, feel that there is such an understanding of their own wives, but also more willing to pay for the family.
2, know how to be gentle at the right time
Women's tenderness is the most irresistible to men, because men look very strong on the surface, in fact, the inner heart is very fragile, they have to face a lot of pressure, which are hurting them physically and mentally, and they need someone to care for, someone to take care of, and not all the situation is a man to take care of the woman, the man needs to be gentle, if you show your gentle side, and if you are a woman, you will not be able to take care of your wife. You show their gentle side, men are easy to heart, even if there is something annoying, see their wives so gentle, the mood can be good half, and then find a gentle and understanding of their wives is not easy, if you can do this, I believe it is difficult for men to leave you.
3, do not take the man with others than
This can be said to be the bottom line of the man, if you always take their husbands with others than, will find that the husband is really nothing, because there are too many capable of men, can never be compared to other men, and in the heart of the man, since you chose him, he should be tolerated all the things he does, not all day to complain about him, and what to do! Not good, if you exist such a mentality, even if the man is again capable, will be compared to others, even if he has some advantages exist, you can not see at all. If the man has shortcomings, you should choose to understand, more to encourage him, the man's psyche will feel warmer, and can not leave you.
4, give each other face
Face is very important to men, even if it is no longer capable of men, they also need to face, after all, is a man, no matter how much he is afraid of you at home, how to make sacrifices for you, will not be willing to let the outside world, so the woman must know, in the case of outsiders must let the man is very dignified, and do not be when in the presence of The situation of outsiders to say men's shortcomings, so that men can not get off the stage.
5, love the man's parents
Everyone puts their own parents look very important, in the heart has an unusual position, in the man filial piety to their parents at the same time, he hopes that their wives are also good to their parents, the woman should take the man's parents as their own family members to deal with, so that the man will be very pleased to feel that they have found the world's best wife, how can he bear to give up his wife? How can he bear to give up.