When we reach middle age, our children are slowly growing up and have entered puberty, they don't need our meticulous care, and sometimes they resent our nagging and have a sense of distance from us. We have always been busy every day for the children, suddenly all of a sudden so free, suddenly have a kind of empty feeling. Just like the old man who has just retired, he is at a loss in the face of this loneliness.
In fact, whether a person is alone or not, it all depends on their own life for a variety of arrangements. If you simply put your own hopes, all your own everything to the child. Once the child is out of our control, free to fly in the sky when we look at the child left us back, it is inevitable to feel lonely.
After we reach middle age, we should feel happy that we can finally detach ourselves from the tedious work of taking care of our children. We can finally be ourselves and live for ourselves for a few more years. To do something we love.
In my imagination, in my middle age, I would have more time to embroider the dozens of cross-stitches I've tunnelled. I don't have to look at the time to pick up and drop off my kids, tutor them, or feel a headache for their daily noise. I will have more and more finished cross stitches and fewer and fewer cross stitch kits. Every time I put my finished product out there it will be filled with a sense of accomplishment.
After one reaches middle age, one will have a calmer mood, relax and sit down to read a book of one's favorite. With the main character in the book with the joy and sorrow. Read more, you can rest assured that the hands of the code, with their own words to comfort a wounded heart, with the text in the vast network world to find and their own **** the same hobby friends.
When a person has a plan for his life, I think any age will not feel lonely.