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When it was time to get off work, the women twisted their bags and rushed out of the office at a speed of 100 meters and hurried home.
Where is the man? At this moment, they are still working slowly. Waiting for the first wave of people to get off work, they got up and left the office and looked around in the corridor to see what they were looking for and what they expected. Soon, the left-behind men got together in piles and discussed the eternal topic: what to do tonight?
They walked into the same bar tacitly, drinking, chatting and bragging until the dead of night.
Why don't these people want to go home? After many investigations and interviews, the nine-tailed fox found three fatal reasons.
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Reason one: empty nest feeling
Those middle-aged men and children, like full-fledged birds, have already spread their wings. Women are either busy making money or dancing square dance. Home is just a house without warmth and temperature. The warmth of the past is gone, leaving only the taste of loneliness. What are you doing at home? Might as well spend money to get drunk.
Reason two: the boring other half
Women who have no self and growth often annoy men. This kind of woman is most likely to fall into a man's mood. Men don't laugh. If they laugh too much, women will worry too much: he must be abnormal recently and so happy. Are there foxes outside? He can't cry, men cry, and women blame themselves for their incompetence on the one hand, and despise men and look down on them on the other; Men should not be too enthusiastic, otherwise they will be considered to have done something wrong and want to make up for it; Men should not be too negligent, otherwise they will be considered cold-blooded and unable to become warm men. In short, it's not good for a man not to be left or right, or to coax his wife. There are small quarrels and big quarrels every day. See the boss's face at work and the wife's face at home. I had to bend down to pick up three barrels of rice. However, wives are different from adults, so stay away. To escape, drink.
Reason 3: release stress and have fun.
Men care about state affairs (in the eyes of women, it has nothing to do with him) and never care about housework. Men are worried about complicated interpersonal relationships and complicated affairs. There are old people and young people at home. The double pressures of work and family sometimes make them breathless. Men can never compare with women in releasing stress. A woman's mind is simple and clear, she looks at problems linearly, never complicates things, and it is relatively easy to deal with problems. Therefore, women will never understand the pressure of men.
Relatively speaking, people of the same sex can understand each other better. After three rounds of wine, everyone was drunk. People and things that you don't usually like, and the unbearable psychological pressure are all spread out on the wine table, allowing them to ridicule, ridicule and spit at will. The same slot was sprayed by them over and over again until they vented their anger and calmed their feelings. If there are women or mistresses in the bar, they will also brag and brush their sense of existence; Or as a joke, show a little evil that is inconvenient to release when you are awake. Many troubles have vanished in this dish.
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In a stable marriage, women are independent and intelligent. They usually have their own careers. When men are at home, they will be given "homework": do some housework or arrange some fitness programs. These things will neither bore men nor bore them. When men don't go home, women have their own things to do and don't care if men "party" outside.
They have a strong heart and absolute self-confidence: men will miss the women at home. When their bad emotions are released, they will love their women more. So, what does it matter if a man chooses to go home after work? Woman, just be yourself.