The second measure, the attention transfer method. To use this trick well, you need agile reaction ability and active execution, and you need to know people. Attention resources are limited. If you can take the lead, you can urge the other party to turn their attention to yourself, and the chances of urging marriage will be much less. For example, an uncle or aunt asked, Ah, my daughter is so old, I wonder if she has found it? Aunt, have a drink. Where does your child work? Uncle, where did your child buy the house? How much is it per square meter? We should always pay attention to throwing sensitive topics such as square dance, pension, marriage, work, mortgage and second child to each other in order to take the initiative in the anti-marriage struggle. Let Uncle menstruation show off, or spit out a few words to enhance interaction, rather than a sad reminder of the four-star practical index.
The third measure is to be reasonable. Once upon a time, I had a friend who tried to reason with his parents when they urged him to get married. Now he has enteritis because his whole intestine is green. This story tells us, drink again. When we are not discussing the issue of accelerating marriage, we should maintain a strong desire for survival, be reasonable and do what we can. * * * Being affectionate doesn't mean being reasonable, * * * Being affectionate means putting yourself in others' shoes. For example, your parents say that you are so old and you haven't found a partner. Alas, what can you do? Mom, I know you are in a hurry, but I am ugly and really hard to find. I know how you feel. I'm as anxious as you are, really, but I don't have a house or a car. It's no use worrying. In a word, proper affection can not only reduce the times of parents urging marriage, but also promote the harmony of family relations. For example, parents will close their eyes to comfort you, but you are not ugly. The practical index of this trick is 4.5 stars.