Don’t be impetuous.
It is normal for people who have just graduated from university to be new to the workplace, lack capital and experience, and have no time or money to go home during the holidays and cannot take care of their parents. But there is no need to feel ashamed of your parents. Your parents are less than 60 years old and in their prime. They don’t need you to take care of them, and no one expects you to be able to help your hometown, build bridges and pave roads, and benefit your hometown right away.
After you have worked for 5 to 8 years and have gained experience, qualifications and connections, your income will rise steadily and you will gain a firm foothold in the workplace. At this time, your parents will be around 60 years old, so it is time to spend more money. Spend some time and energy taking care of your family. At least, for a veteran with 10 years of experience, buying high-priced train tickets or air tickets is not a big deal.
In short, when you work full-time until you are 35 years old, taking care of your parents will not be a difficult problem no matter what. Nowadays, video, voice communication and picture sharing are very easy. As long as you are willing, you can know the current situation of your family every day:)
For asking this, I personally think I am still impetuous, looking at my peers The rare and rare successful people drool, and they hope in their hearts that they can quickly stand out and reach the top of their lives; when they encounter setbacks, they instantly feel sorry for themselves.
The longer the long-term investment, the more profitable it will be. But there are not many people with long-term vision and patience. But if you can't endure even the first three or five years, you're really going to go down the road of accomplishing nothing.