As the saying goes,
The most difficult debt in the world is the debt of favors, the most difficult to repay is the grace of parents.
Nowadays, many people feel that as long as they are bent on making more money, they will be able to repay their parents for their many years of nurturing.
Unbeknownst to me, elderly parents, afraid of not money, but afraid of the following "three things":
A
Lost health
A mention of getting older, many people think of "".
When it comes to getting older, many people think of "frailty", and this seems to be the rule of thumb.
It's true to say that when you're young, you're always looking to make money at all costs, and you're always looking to make a fortune by spending your life.
Only when you are old do you understand that the body is the capital of the revolution, it is not so simple to say.
I have an uncle in my hometown, suffering from liver disease for many years, although he does not smoke, but from a young age, he likes to drink and eat meat, who can not persuade.
The first time I saw this, it was a very good thing that I was able to get a good look at it, and it was a very good thing that I was able to get a good look at it.
Originally, some years ago, the business has saved a little savings, because of medical treatment and medicine hard to spend all, but also owed a lot of foreign debt.
The most common words on his lips are: "My life is my own, you can't control it."
The most common words on his lips are: "My life is my own, you can't control it.
So the older he gets, the worse he gets, the more he gets sick, the more he loses his ability to take care of himself, and the more he can't even recognize his own children.
Really, if a person does not even have health, not only do they not see hope for the rest of their lives, but also bring endless pain to their loved ones.
Mr. Tao Hsing-chi once exhorted the world: "People who neglect their health are joking with their own lives."
You know, At a certain age, a healthy and happy life is the biggest blessing of life.
As long as you are healthy, you can go wherever you want and make every day full of happiness.
Two
Obligation to the children
As we all know, the parents of the children, like a umbrella in the rain, since the beginning of the wind and rain for us.
Even when they are old, they are afraid that they are useless.
Looking at the children's busy life, they took the initiative to take care of the children's heavy responsibility, everything is cautious, they are not comfortable, but always pretend to be relaxed.
Listening to a friend tell a personal experience,
After getting married he settled in the city where he worked, the child was born, the mother worried that he and his wife were too busy, they offered to come over to help.
At first, life was good, the family did their jobs and lived a good life.
Her mother was more than happy to do what she could to feel the happiness of being needed by her son.
Until one day, the friend suddenly asked his mother: "Did you forget to give your child a drink of Banlangen?"
At that time, the flu was very fierce, and the old man felt that he did not take good care of his grandson, but his friend did not mean it at all.
After that, the old man was like a different person, sensitive and nervous, and the psychological burden was getting heavier and heavier, and finally led to depression.
Really, in this world, parents are the ones who don't want to be rewarded, and desperately want to protect their children from too much.
The TV series "Happy Family" has such a clip,
The young and talented son disliked his father's lack of ability to completely cut off the relationship, the old father also held back tears and apologized:
"It's my father's inability to apologize, I'm sorry for you!"
Half a lifetime of hard work, just to let the children live better, until the old still have to pay for their own "incompetence", really very heartbreaking!
Elderly parents, not afraid of death, the only fear is owed to their children.
I really hope that the world's children, can not forget the parents, shelter them, as they once sheltered us as well.
Three
Loneliness
There is a park near my neighborhood, and the people who frequent it most are the elderly.
In the morning, when the sky is bright, you can see the back of an old man in no hurry, and occasionally you can hear the sound of opera on the radio;
In the afternoon, it is even more crowded, there are singing, there are square dancing, and more are sitting in a chair, a hand holding a cane staring laxly into the distance ... ...
Sometimes I can't help but wonder what it would be like to live to be 70 or 80 years old.
I once heard an old neighbor say that his daily life is waiting, no initiative, no fun to speak of, accompanied by his only loneliness.
"There are not many friends and family around, not even a person who speaks from the heart."
Young people are busy with their own careers, middle-aged people are even more tired of running around for the family, the children also have their own fun, only the old people, can only keep their own empty house.
Some people always say that life should return to the ordinary.
But the old parents, the most afraid of is not no money, but to raise children all their lives, but also their own lonely old.
As the saying goes, "All good things come first".
Parents are old and need not much, what we can give, is far less than the parents pay one million percent.
So, while your parents are still here, love them and accompany them with your heart.
Don't always think that listening to your parents is annoying, and don't say that you're tired of going home, they're alive and well, and that's the biggest asset for us.
You should know that life comes and goes, and the day is not long.
Time is going, they are getting older and older, I do not know which day will leave, do not wait until the loss of catching up,
Finally, I wish all the world's parents can be healthy and long life!
In the end, I wish all parents a long and healthy life.