If it were you, how would you choose?

I think you should choose the first boyfriend, perhaps because you have been together for too long, know each other too well, so there is no feeling when you first fell in love, and there is no passion, but these are all can be slowly made later, the most important point is that he is very filial to your parents, in such a society has not much, he also traveled a long way to your home, sincerely raise the issue shows that He cares about you and respects you, you will be very happy together and will get along well with your parents. The second boyfriend is too stingy is everyone can not tolerate, not there is such a saying, "for you to spend money for the man does not necessarily love you, but not for you to spend money for the man must not love you" You may not need him to buy anything for you, but this is, after all, he is a love for you ah, from the attitude of his elders to see that he is very likely to future with the Your parents will not get along, and even with this will not take care of care of your parents, and you are three years older than him, you wait for him a few years after he dumped you, you are older, and then look for a boyfriend will be very difficult, and he with this will not have anything to lose ah, don't because of a moment's love, and lose their own life's happiness oh! This is just my own thoughts and opinions, the most important or your choice ah!