The old couple, in a piece to stay for many years, once the passion has long been the life of the firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea instead of the pulse of the love, once the love after many years of precipitation, has turned into a kind of affection, affection is the further sublimation of the love, each other should be more cherished and cared for.
The pursuit of the elderly couple is an unswerving companionship, if you are well is sunny, if you do not leave me will not give up, the two sides to understand each other, mutual tolerance, do not overdo the pursuit of romantic feelings, learn to seek happiness in the ordinary, in the ordinary life in the refinement of the love, the two can cultivate the *** with the same hobbies, and to seek the joy of life, ignite the passion of their own lives, all the old married couple, the best thing is that they are not in the same situation, but they are not in the same situation. All old married couple, it is best not to quarrel, something to discuss, after so many years of experience, we should be mature and calm, not like a child, not in line with the wishes of the heart to quarrel, quarrel to quarrel to the feelings of noisy.
Older couples, feelings to the fatigue stage, the two sides should be maintained, usually a piece of the park to go for a walk, go to the movies, festivals, you can give each other gifts, looking for a long-lost passion, so that the love of each other to keep fresh.
Hundred years to repair the same boat ferry, a thousand years to repair the *** pillow sleep. Older couples, together through thick and thin for decades, who has not had a bump, occasionally dry a battle, is also a normal phenomenon. As for how to make life more passionate, so that the day more colorful, tasty, I summarized 8 points for your reference, I hope to help you:
1, each other more companionship, more care
Companionship, is the longest confession, care, is the warmest language. Since the child is not at home for many years, the two can be said to be dependent on each other, you can go for a walk together in the morning, after a walk, you can find a small restaurant to go to breakfast together, you can embrace each other when you go to bed at night to say good night, if the other side of the body itchy you take the initiative to give him (her) scratch, if the other side of the disease, you have to take the initiative to give him (her) pouring water to take the medicine, the small things in these lives, as long as you do a good job, the other side will certainly feedback on the The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
2, nothing to go out to see
The two of us take the time to go to see more of the outside world, in an unfamiliar environment, looking for a familiar feeling, in the process of traveling, each other to take some pictures, can be sent to the children to see, but also can be sent to the circle of friends to bask in the sun.
3, memories of happy times together
When two people are bored, it is best to intentionally or unintentionally recall some of the happy things in the past, sometimes, the same thing you say 10,000 times the other side will not mind you annoying.
4. Mutual tolerance and understanding
The older the person, the more should be tolerated and understood, even if the other side of the wrong thing, do not complain, learn to laugh it off.
5, have something to say
Now, there are a lot of couples do not speak properly, for example, the woman said, "I bought you a dress." The man said, "Use you to buy ah, you go back, I do not want!" Another example, the man says, "Let's go out for dinner." The woman replies, "How much money do you have? The man of the day who day to day restaurant ah.
In ordinary life, many couples do not pay attention to the way of speaking and tone, so that the other heart is not happy.
6, do not ask for too much
There is nothing wrong with the quality of life, but do not ask for too much, are this age, can make do, the more requests, the more disappointment.
7, cultivate their own hobbies
Cultivate more hobbies, such as planting flowers, raising grass ah, read ah. As long as the heart is full, the day will have flavor.
8, in life to seek happiness
Life is happy everywhere, we need to learn to find happiness, do not stare at some things a day, you pick faults, the other side is certainly not happy, you also angry, of course, the day is not savory!
The above 8 points, as long as you do a good job, happiness and joy will always be with you!
People old gas specializing in the old want to become immortal, the old are old to talk about passion, there is no danger of good.
When you are old and not sick, you are lucky to have sound limbs.
The young couple old companion, there is a talk around, from time to time to do a battle is also very normal.
A husband and wife, a lifetime of integration period, the two sides of the temperament character, also almost worn.
When I was young, I was short-tempered and did a lot of things that didn't make sense, but now that I'm old, it's time to call it quits.
In the trouble to go on, there is no good, the old man gas momentum decline, gas a good or bad, left a person, can be a real crime.
People often say, filial piety children, not as good as a dewy couple, children in good, is two generations, can not just keep around.
Couples are not the same, fighting, angry, but also a pot to eat, a roof to live.
As the saying goes, the husband and wife are capable of the same forest birds, the great difficulties fly separately, this is the line of tolerance for young couples.
Couples once old, where to fly, want to fly, can not fly, there is no place to go, no one wants, can only keep each other.
People are old, to a certain age, where there is no passion, to have passion, you go to find some yellow video to see, the passion is there.
I've never heard of, people look for passion in old age, old age is to take good care of the body, exercise the body, there is no disease, do not enter the hospital, not hospitalized, that is, Wanxing.
People are old, know the heat, know the cold, eat and pay attention, do not eat out of the disease, with a disease, life-threatening.
People are old, healthy and healthy, do not drag children, their own peace and quiet, spend the rest of their lives.
The old couple should have very little passion, and a lot of couples simply do not have much emotion to speak of, why the passion! There are a lot of couples who are just making do for their children!
My in-laws is a typical example, before really barely make do, more than 50 years old, has been sleeping in separate beds, young people are not much communication, now let alone!
In addition to eating in a pot, almost everything is done separately!
In addition to eating in the same pot, almost everything is done separately, the money is deposited in each, clothes, quilt ah, and so on, are each washed each!
The two of them have been in the same place for a long time, and they have been in the same place for a long time, and they have been in the same place for a long time, and they have been in the same place for a long time, and they have been in the same place for a long time, and they have been in the same place for a long time!
A lot of times when we are not there, they start to quarrel, every quarrel father-in-law will call us, said mother-in-law and how how!
In fact, a lot of times it is the father-in-law who causes the quarrels, because he really has no feelings for the mother-in-law, and his attitude towards her is too cold! The only reason that comes together is the kids! These father-in-law said once before!
In real life, there are a lot of like father-in-law them, the previous era, in order to get married as early as possible to have children, many couples simply do not understand the hastily married!
It's not that their behavior is not good, just two people do not understand the people living together, many of them do not have the same personality or habits are not the same!
Older couples, the general passion has receded, every day around the wood, rice, oil, salt, vinegar and tea, how many monthly deposits. In fact, the ordinary is the most true, can withstand the baptism of the ordinary years, is also a kind of ordinary great! Every day can contribute to the family, every day with a loved one, every day can be happy and well-being, is not a kind of happiness? As for the couple's passion, that's a young man's business, right? The old couple's life although the passion has receded, but do the following points, the day is also can live a flavorful, prosperous!
1, every day to love a little smile, someone may say smile with what? I can eat and drink? I would say that the smile is a useless gift. Some things you look at useless is actually useful. For example: air, air is not eatable, not drinkable, can not be used as money, but you can leave the air how long? Smile is the same, look at the useless, in fact, have great use! Smile like a beautiful flower can delight the heart, smile like warm sunshine can warm people's feelings, smile is the best gift without spending money! Smiling often between an old couple can raise the temperature of the relationship! It eases tensions. Smile in interpersonal relationships like spring rain, silent, thus, watering the flowers of love!
2, learn the appropriate "flower heart". Here the "flower heart" refers to spend effort to do things. Do care about each other, for example: each other sick, how to care for each other, how to consider each other, how to take care of each other. For example: the other side of the family need help, especially in-laws (husband, mother-in-law), should be unhesitatingly do their best to help, the other side will be touched, on the warming of the relationship is very helpful! Learn to take the trouble to improve themselves, remember in the movie "Goldilocks" there is a line that says: "not the same people can not go together"! What it says is that you need to be a good match! So the gap between the two sides can't be too big. So enhance their own culture and knowledge, enhance their appearance temperament, enhance their ability to deal with the literati ...
3, learn to think differently, learn to equate. There is no love in the world for no reason, there is no hate for no reason, learn to stand in each other's point of view when it comes to things to think about, may be open-minded, may be more tolerant. The other side for their own pay, we do not take it for granted, should be grateful to him (her), know to appreciate, know how to repay.
Nalan Seide has a word cloud "if life is only like the first see, why the sad painting fan of the autumn wind", yes, when you can meet with love, from the encounter with the good! So, love needs a good emotion, a good mood, a good behavior, a good look, a good temperament, but also need a good mind! Let us with the good company, so that love blossomed beautiful flowers, the old man and wife, can also be good, long time together, walk a good life!
Although the old couple have passionate times have passed, but also to create passion, find passion, feel the passion, with passion to promote the continuation of later life.
First, make the image young and passionate.
Although it is an old married couple, but also in the dress code to pursue fashion, to dress decently generous and beautiful. Couples can watch each other, as far as possible to young and beautiful dress themselves. Can wear bright and colorful clothing, you can also wear red and green, you can also describe the eyebrow wipe lipstick, give each other a surprise. In their own feel young and beautiful at the same time, the long-lost passion will come back. Especially to more contact with young people, experience their youthfulness, burning passion, so that they are also passionate.
Second, to find passion in life.
Between the old couple, we must say more praise to each other, encourage each other to say, say more praise words, will add to the intimacy between husband and wife, it is easier to produce passion. If you dress up today, you look really beautiful, you wear this dress looks really young spirit, you are not old and so on. You can also do some physical contact, occasionally pat the shoulder, hug each other. Can also *** with the review of the romantic moments of youth, can produce passion, full of longing for the pursuit of life. You can also tell each other a funny story, sing a song and so on.
Third, in helping each other to produce passion.
For example, the old man and wife *** with the market, buy food to buy food, *** with the selection of tasting vegetables and fruits, *** with the bargaining, so that from time to time by some of the phenomenon teased with a laugh, passion immediately filled with the whole body, the life of the interest, and even let you can not help but hum a song to the life of the sense of well-being comes out.
Fourth, to create passion.
Just as couples enjoy themselves, often go looking to create passionate romance. Older couples can *** with the square dance, *** with the appreciation of the sky to see the moon, *** with the flowers to see the scenery. One is to experience and feel the beauty of nature, the second is from the creation of passion, so that life is full of passion, will laugh at life, grateful to society, will create a passionate life in old age.
In short, the old man and wife, the old age should also live with passion, to create passion, find passion, feel the passion. Let the colorful life full of passion. Will make our later life full of fun and happiness.
The old husband and old wife in old age, a lifetime of love and sunset red.
Hunger begets sustenance, hardship begets hope, distance begets passion, disgust comes from the tired heart, cold war and personality, prescription separation! The first thing you need to do is to look at who is taking the initiative.
In the countryside, the old couple planted vegetable gardens, raising a few chickens hungry, feeding two sheep, mountainous areas can also raise a small donkey to get the car. The first thing you need to do is to get a little donkey to pull the car, and you don't have to refuel the car, and the traffic police don't check for any kind of evidence. In the city couples go to the park after dinner to dance in the square, in the home to raise a few pots of flowers, fish and other enrichment in old age!
"Teenage couples in old age with", decades of mutual love, love slowly transformed into affection.
The child is big enough to fly away from home, and really settled down to feel that life is dull and tasteless, and quiet enough to hear the heartbeat. In fact, the flavor of life with your companion has nothing to do, just you do not have the motivation to pursue life.
You may eat and wear carefree, may have a spacious room, there are enough savings, but you look at the lack of your spirit, how long you did not read, how long did not care about the country's affairs, how long you did not talk with your wife, think about the future, reminiscent of the past? You can walk together to visit friends and relatives, you can get together with friends, you can go to the bazaar in company, and soon you will remember the past bits and pieces, you will cherish the peace and comfort now.
A proper change of lifestyle, the right time to create some romance, to add some spice to life, you will soon find that the passion of life is still there, everything is never far away.