Some people choose to solve problems with their partners, some choose to ask for advice from people around them, and some choose to ask for help from TV programs.
After all, the authorities are obsessed, and it is a good idea to objectively analyze the problems and make pertinent suggestions through experts and many "people who have been there".
The love battle of Tianjin Satellite TV is such a program. Since its launch on 20 10, Battle of Love has helped countless people to solve the emotional problems of marriage and love, and also made the audience in front of the TV find a different perspective.
"Battle of Love" put the trivia of love and marriage on the stage and made a program comparable to "If You Are the One", and the contribution of the staff can be said to be indispensable.
For example, Zhao Chuan, the host, skillfully solved many thorny problems with his carefulness, patience and ability to consider many aspects.
The fans of the program are all over all ages, and everyone appreciates Zhao Chuan's delicate thoughts.
However, Zhao Chuan, an "expert on emotional marriage" in front of the stage, has actually been divorced twice and married three times.
Many people think that Zhao Chuan doesn't even know his own life, and it's ridiculous to solve problems for others.
Some people think that it is because of Zhao Chuan's rich experience that he can solve this problem better.
Today, let's see how Zhao Chuan became an "emotional expert".
Zhao Chuan was born in Chengdu, 1972. His mother is a dancer, and his father is a literary and art soldier. He switched to a song and dance troupe.
Zhao Chuan has a sister who is ten years older than him. Originally, his parents had everything, and they didn't plan to have a second child.
After an unexpected pregnancy, the mother does not intend to keep the child. Finally, under the persuasion of relatives, Zhao Chuan was able to get a ticket to this world.
Zhao Chuan was stubborn when he was a child, and his practical jokes never stopped. Because my sister is cute since childhood, in contrast, parents have a headache at the sight of their youngest son.
Other people prefer boys to girls, but their family is the opposite. My sister was taken care of like the apple of her eye, while Zhao Chuan was set free.
Because his parents usually don't care much about him, Zhao Chuan is too lazy to study and concentrate on being a naughty boy.
After the senior high school entrance examination, Zhao Chuan attracted the attention of parents for the first time. He likes to play at ordinary times, but he doesn't study, so his grades can't be seen at all
Who knows that after the results of the senior high school entrance examination came out, he was admitted to high school. Although it is a very ordinary school, it is enough to surprise parents.
What is even more surprising is that this naughty boy, who is worried about ghosts, has become the teacher's favorite student after he entered high school.
The Chinese teacher found Zhao Chuan's writing style very good. It goes without saying that his usual compositions, even those on the monthly exam paper, are very fluent, fascinating and have a certain depth in such a short time.
Zhao Chuan's composition doesn't look like it was written by a teenage high school student, both in style and content.
The Chinese teacher was afraid of burying the child's talent, so he sent Zhao Chuan's composition to contribute.
Sure enough, Zhao Chuan's composition was published in the magazine. At that time, Zhao Chuan became the pride of the school, and his classmates cast envious eyes on him.
Zhao Chuan took the magazine home, turned to the page where he wrote the article, and put it on the dining table. Parents couldn't believe their eyes when they looked at their son's name printed in the author's column.
Zhao Chuan not only writes well, but also has a good image. Perhaps it is because both parents are high-value literary and art workers, and Zhao Chuan inherited them.
He is 1.83 meters tall, white and handsome. Because he has been a naughty child since he was a child, there are no words such as shyness and shyness in his dictionary. He is a natural social expert.
So the teacher recommended him to take part in the speech contest. The teachers looked at him with loving and expectant eyes: the child can write and speak, and the future is limitless.
Sure enough, Zhao Chuan, who returned home in triumph, became the man of the hour in the school. Teachers are proud to have taught him, and even parents who have never been optimistic about him have begun to show off their sons in the unit intentionally or unintentionally.
Although Zhao Chuan published another article and won an award, he didn't drift at all. On the contrary, he studies harder.
After the college entrance examination, he was admitted to Zhejiang Media College, majoring in broadcasting, and became alumni with celebrities such as Dani and others.
Four years of college life is fleeting. When I graduated to the society, because Zhao Chuan's parents didn't want their children to stay too far away, they found an internship opportunity for Zhao Chuan in a TV station through their connections.
After all, he is already an "emotional expert" in the next three marriages, and the emotional drama is about to begin.
During her internship, Zhao Chuan met a female colleague. At first, he dared not pursue it. He told his thoughts to people around him and mobilized the masses.
Jay Chou's lyrics don't say: Love comes too fast like a tornado.
Zhao Chuan didn't fall in love for long, but just after the internship, they got married by lightning.
However, tornadoes always swept away at the same time, and so did this marriage.
Falling in love is easier than getting along. After marriage, they are busy with their own careers and spend little time together. In addition, it was originally a flash marriage, and the emotional foundation was not deep. Two people who gathered less and left more began to quarrel frequently.
Quarrel, cold war, and then divorce.
It is "lightning speed" from beginning to end. This vigorous marriage was evaluated by Zhao Chuan as "a problem with its own foundation"
Perhaps from the beginning, the two people didn't understand that the "top" in love is very different from the "* * * bald head" in marriage.
The first marriage came and went in a hurry and didn't take Zhao Chuan much time.
After the divorce, Zhao Chuan chose to develop in the north. He quit his job in the TV station, bid farewell to his parents and started a life of drifting north.
In those few years in Beijing, Zhao Chuan's work developed in a mediocre way, and the highlight of her student days is now short of electricity, which can't illuminate the future at all.
The capital also brings together elites from all over the country and even the world. At that time, Zhao Chuan could not see the future at all.
In this gloomy day, Zhao Chuan went to see an art exhibition on her day off. Maybe he wants to relax and cultivate his sentiment. He enjoyed every painting in the exhibition carefully.
His eyes stopped until he saw a girl full of fairy tales in the exhibition hall.
This girl, on the other hand, is completely different. Her skirt is full of fragrance and has a strong sense of literature and art.
Zhao Chuan, the president, stepped forward to talk directly and learned that the girl was a painter. After the two kept contact with each other, Zhao Chuan began to pursue painters.
Zhao Chuan is tall, clean and gentle. With her extraordinary writing style and expressive force, she captured the hearts of female artists.
The following process is deja vu: they got married less than three months after meeting for the first time.
Well, yes. For ten years, Zhao Chuan was not afraid of ropes at all, but he was very brave and got married again.
This time, they get along well. The female painter not only gave Zhao Chuan a child, but also gave Zhao Chuan the most important advice in his life: to be a host.
Following the advice of the painter's wife, Zhao Chuan started a new chapter in his career on Inner Mongolia Satellite TV.
After becoming a host, he has hosted many programs in Beijing TV Station, Hebei TV Station and Shandong TV Station.
At this time, Zhao Chuan's career has gradually improved, and the momentum is booming.
At this time, Zhao Chuan divorced again.
As for the reasons for divorce, after many years, Zhao Chuan still has a lingering fear when he mentioned it on the program: "I have grown up when I am mature, but I still can't forgive her."
This sneaky way of speaking can only make everyone think of "forgiveness". After all, Zhao Chuan is too busy with his career to care about his family. This is also in line with the situation at that time and Zhao Chuan's dissatisfaction when he mentioned this matter.
Anyway, the second marriage is over.
Later, Zhao Chuan took over the program "Love Battle" of Tianjin Satellite TV, and his career was in full swing.
Through the adjustment in the program, Zhao Chuan's emotional intelligence, IQ, and generous attitude towards life are appreciated by the audience.
Zhao Chuan in Love Wars, like Murphy in If You Are the One, is the soul of this program.
Many viewers watch this program to listen to Zhao Chuan's views and how he juggles with contradictory political parties.
Zhao Chuan, who has a fan base, is still emotionally empty.
On a business trip, he took a fancy to a beautiful young stewardess on the plane. He quietly told his colleagues around him.
My colleague is also a social ox. He called the stewardess directly and said, "Do you know who he is?"
The stewardess said Zhao Chuan's name. It turns out that the stewardess's mother is a die-hard fan of Zhao Chuan, and would rather not dance square dance than miss every issue of Battle of Love.
With this relationship, it is easier for my colleagues to help me. My colleague asked Zhao Chuan to invite a stewardess to dinner and asked the stewardess to call.
Is this beginning familiar? Still the same formula, still the bridge-colleagues help chase girls.
Just like her first marriage, Zhao Chuan took the initiative to contact the stewardess to display her talent, eloquence and celebrity effect.
Three times five divided by two, Zhao Chuan successfully held hands with the female guests.
This time, the two did not get married for an instant, but spent some time together. However, this may not be Zhao Chuan's original intention, but he wants to record programs everywhere and his stewardess girlfriend wants to fly everywhere. Even if they want to get married, they won't have time to get along.
However, Zhao Chuan remained true to his true colors. Compared with the previous two marriages, it is not a flash marriage. However, after being in love for a long time, he still proposed marriage.
However, the result was opposed by her mother-in-law. The stewardess fell in love with the boss, but her mother was sober.
The older the wiser. Even if the old lady is an idol, she can tell two yuan from three yuan. She inquired and learned that Zhao Chuan was older than her daughter 16 years old and had been divorced twice.
In order to coax his girlfriend's parents, Zhao Chuan made another big move: he wrote a 3,000-word essay with the same logic as Li Lianglei. There is deep love between the lines, and my promise to my parents-in-law is childlike.
Where have parents-in-law seen such a tearful article? I was immediately moved into a mess. 16 years old age difference, two marriages, I completely forgot.
So Zhao Chuan got a marriage certificate for the third time and married a beautiful young stewardess sister in his hometown.
After getting married, the two still kept their original appearance and went their own way. However, Zhao Chuan, who had two rich experiences, thought of saving for a rainy day.
Zhao Chuan is not satisfied that his wife has no time to accompany herself and take care of the family. The first marriage was like this, and the second marriage changed color.
Zhao Chuanyue thinks more and more angry. He just laid his cards on the table to his wife: "I and my job, you choose one."
The stewardess's wife thought about it. She is serious about marriage.
So the airline lost a stewardess, and Zhao Chuan had a housewife at home.
This marriage has come to the present, and Zhao Chuan has withdrawn from the stage of love war.
He chose not to defend the love of others, but stood on the stage of his own life to defend his marriage and family.
Nowadays, Zhao Chuan often plays the role of "bosom brother" on social platforms, helping netizens to answer questions about love and marriage.
However, there have been different opinions on whether experienced Zhao Chuan is suitable for such a job.
However, secretly poking and accusing the ex-wife in the program doesn't look like an atmospheric practice.
But judging from Zhao Chuan's experience, when he was young, he got married as soon as he fell in love, which led to those unstable and unforgivable foundations.
Now maybe he is mature, maybe this wife is the most in line with his imagination, and this marriage finally makes him feel the happiness of family.
I hope this time, Zhao Chuan's love is not defended, but a protracted war!