In the past, it was said that if a man caught one in "eating, drinking, whoring and gambling", it would be enough to lose his family. Now, with the development of society and the improvement of people's living standards, he can't spend much money on eating and drinking, but whoring and gambling are a bottomless pit. If a man catches one, it will be enough to make him lose his family. Below. A friend I knew a long time ago started in iron ore business, and then expanded to material trade, engineering construction and catering. In the 198s and 199s, he earned more than 1, yuan a month. With the rapid expansion of his career and the increase of social activities, he gradually got into the habit of whoring. At first, he found a hostess at social activities, and later he specifically inquired where beautiful women went to whoring. At that time, this friend was thirty-two years old, and his child was in elementary school. His wife was in charge of his restaurant, and she tried to persuade him of these problems, but he just turned a deaf ear and his wife didn't have time to stare at him, so he had to do it.
In the end, he went from looking for a young lady to chasing a woman with "taste", and when he meets a satisfactory one, he will keep it for a while. He is not only romantic, but also generous, and is deeply favored by prostitutes. Sometimes there are more than a dozen women around him. As the saying goes, he is addicted to womanizing, his business is getting less and less, and his excellent business is getting worse and worse. His daughter-in-law began to feel that the situation was serious, so she asked her own people and elders to persuade him to let her brother supervise him. As a result, in 1999, the old man put all the company's money on his bank card and left with a beautiful woman.
He spent more than ten years in a city in the south, working, buying and selling, and working as a contractor, but he never found a decent way. In the fifth year, that beautiful woman climbed a new branch and left him mercilessly. His spare money was getting less and less, and he had no face to come back, so he had to work. In 214, he was seriously ill, and he couldn't stand it. He called his younger brother and his family took him back. Last year, I met him once. Now, he is nearly sixty years old. He works as a security vigil in an enterprise. His daughter-in-law has left him, and his son denies him. Now he is living on his meager income.
tell me another example of gambling. A distant cousin of mine lives in the suburbs. In 1985, he contracted more than 3 mu of land in the village to plant seedlings. By the eighth year, he could earn more than 1, yuan every year. Although he was busy, his life was always good. By 212, land acquisition for urban construction occupied his nursery, and he received more than 8 million yuan in compensation. From then on, he lived a happy life with money and leisure.
This cousin has a son, who is in his thirties and drives a taxi for a living. When he has nothing to do, he plays cards and blows a cow with his friends. After a long time, he starts to play with his friends. At first, he plays with a few or dozens of dollars. When he has money at home, he goes to the teahouse and chess room, and the amount of money ranges from tens to hundreds, thousands and tens of thousands. At most, he loses hundreds of thousands a night.
My son won't tell his family about playing with money. At first, he lost and won. Later, when he lost more and more, he began to borrow money everywhere to turn over his losses. As a result, the hole became bigger and bigger, and his car and house were taken out. When he owed more than two million yuan to others, no one would lend him any more money, and debtors came to the door. Only then did his family know that he owed so much money. His father had already taken a fancy to a villa, with a down payment of 1 million, and calculated that more than 5 million people could live in it, and the rest of the money was barely enough for their own pension. Knowing that my son had made such a big hole, I had to turn out the villa, pay off the account for my son, redeem the house and car, and reluctantly bought a set of buildings with more than 1 flats for the elderly. This incident broke his heart, and under the witness of relatives and clansmen, he completely clarified the relationship with his son: except for the taxi, other property had nothing to do with his son, and the old couple did not need his son to support him. Now his son is still driving his taxi, and his daughter-in-law has no fixed job. With a son and a daughter, the family of four is living a tight life.
people say: whoring is a bottomless pit, and gambling is a gamble. The above two examples are just trivial cases of whoring and gambling in real life. There are many examples of whoring and gambling in history. Some emperors lost their lives in lust, while others lost their lives in gambling. Therefore, whoring and gambling are the bad habits of men who consume the most money and lose their families. Please remember to quit!
my daughter, my husband has no other hobbies, so he likes running. Because he explained that he was in poor health since he was a child, on the one hand, in order to exercise his health, he could be better and better, on the other hand, he had to adjust himself because of too much work pressure. He has also tried to iron or something, but he may feel that it is more important to have a healthy inner body than to practice big. He came into contact with the sport of running four or five years ago, but if you think he just runs by himself, it's wrong. There is a national sport called marathon, and all the contestants have to sign up and draw lots to decide whether they can run, so how important time is for them. I have calculated an account for him before. He needs three or four other pairs of running shoes every year to keep up with his running, because a pair of shoes has a life span, some shoes end in 3 kilometers, and some shoes are worthless in 6 kilometers. A slightly better running shoe costs about 1, yuan, and the annual cost is 4, yuan. The rest of the running equipment is clothes and shorts in summer and gloves and hats in winter, which is not enough. The cost of buying equipment is almost 1 thousand less. If you have to pay for the round trip, food, shelter and transportation, the cost of an off-site marathon ranges from 3, to more than 2,. Why is there still 2,? Because there will be marathons abroad, it is an honor for them to be invited. Of course, no one will refuse such a good exercise opportunity. So what will basically happen in our family is that I will ask him why he wants to buy shoes and clothes. Compared with smoking and drinking, this hobby is naturally good. It's not a big deal compared with liking car watches. But I can only say that for the first time, I know that healthy exercise will also produce high consumption.
fishing! Fishing! Fishing! You have to say it three times before you can get over it.
My husband has been addicted to fishing since he was a teenager, and he can be regarded as a veritable old-timer in his fishing circle. How can I put it? His fishing level is not so good. Being an "air force" is a common occurrence, but he must go out fishing early every weekend. The most annoying thing is that sometimes he can only be found by the river on New Year's Day.
The old guy was relatively restrained before he retired, and he never delayed his work because of his hobbies. At that time, the cost of fishing was not high. The fishing rod was made by himself, and he dug earthworms when he had nothing to do. I remember that since he changed the FRP fishing rod, he began to tinker with equipment. In 1989, he spent more than 1, yuan to buy a Honda CG125 motorcycle, so it was regarded as goodbye to that Phoenix 28 bicycle! At that time, we were still young. It was quite cool for a family of three to ride motorcycles for an outing and visit relatives on weekends. There were never enough fish at home, and we sent fish and shrimps to our children's grandfathers every once in a while. I often think that a man must have some hobbies. He doesn't smoke, drink or play mahjong, which is much better than those who soak in the ballroom all day and play mahjong all night. Our family can afford to spend a little money on some equipment. In his words, we have eaten all the fish in these years.
In 21, the benefits of his company were not good, and my husband basically entered a semi-retirement state, which gave him a lot of time. That's when he started playing Luya, and it got out of hand. It was not until half a year later that I realized that playing Luya fishing was just for fun, paying attention to fishing techniques and protecting the ecology. He took all the food and drinks with him and came back empty-handed in the middle of the night, even if he didn't catch any fish.
what is a man's hobby or interest that burns the most money? I think it's fishing, or more precisely, "fishing by boat." It's been almost ten years now, and my husband's retirement salary is basically spent on this hobby. From playing Luya, he changed his motorcycle to an off-road vehicle, 36 days a year, either fishing or looking for punctuation. At first, he always thought that Luya equipment was a one-time investment, but it could not withstand frequent upgrading. From a small point of view, he had three big boxes for fishing lines and Luya bait, and all kinds of nylon lines, carbon lines and PE lines were estimated to circle the earth half a circle, and Luya bait was even counted. Everything is available, ranging from a dozen dollars to several hundred dollars. As long as there are good ones, you will buy them even if you don't eat or drink. Luya poles and fishing boats are face-saving projects. They were used in the first few years, and now you have to take at least three or four sets of poles when you go out. The cheap ones are one or two thousand dollars, and the expensive ones seem to be more than six thousand dollars. But every time you ask him, they say they are not expensive, but they are bought for tens of dollars. Recently, I bought a Luya business boat together with fishing friends, and asked how much it was second-hand. I think the old guy may be crazy.
Many people often say, "Taiwan fishing destroys life, and Luya is poor for three generations". I think it is true. The money spent on playing Luya is tangible, and the most hateful thing is that some money is spent inexplicably. These men can be on the road all year round. In their words, it is "heroes don't ask about the source, Luya doesn't ask about punctuation", and they are still so interested when "playing turtle" has become the norm. Every year, provincial and national Luya competitions are a must-see, and they have also participated in lucky years. It is said that the best results have entered the top 5, and others have joined others at their own expense. What I want to say is that the old guy has been fishing for decades, and his face is getting thicker and thicker, and people are getting poorer and poorer.
Mr. Zhao, from his hometown, not only spent all his money for hobbies, but finally put his life on the line!
Lao Zhao used to be the stationmaster of the seed station in the town, and his father was a local famous herbalist. Most young people nowadays don't know that besides Chinese medicine and western medicine, there is actually a kind of medical practitioner, who is called a grass doctor by the common people.
The biggest feature of herbalists is that all the herbs used to treat people are collected by themselves, and few prescriptions are made, mainly single herbs, and few prescriptions are made.
In the old society, most herbalists had no culture, and some even didn't know a word. Through family heirloom or teacher's instruction, with long-term accumulated experience, they treat poor people with medicines and earn some meager income to support their families.
under the influence of his father, Lao Zhao has developed a strong interest in herbal medicine since childhood. After long-term exposure, Lao Zhao was able to distinguish many Chinese herbal medicines when he was young, and he was familiar with the medicinal properties and mastered the processing technology of many Chinese herbal medicines. More importantly, when my father is not at home, I can see a doctor and take medicine for patients who come to the door for help alone.
after graduating from technical secondary school, Lao Zhao has been working in the seed station, working diligently all his life. After work, I often help my old father to go up the mountain to collect medicine, sun medicine and make medicine.
After the death of Lao Zhao's father, many people around him came to seek medical advice. They are all neighbors, so it's hard to shut them out, so Lao Zhao has to take time to see a doctor. Because of the good curative effect, low fees and long time, Lao Zhao gradually inherited his father's reputation and won the love of the villagers!
In the past, the villagers called the old pedant who taught private schools and the doctor who sat in the drugstore Mr. to show their respect. With the growth of age, it is an affirmation of his medical skills and medical ethics. The villagers also used this title on Lao Zhao, just like calling his father, calling him Mr.
After retirement, Mr. Zhao suddenly had enough time. For his hobby and in return for the support and love of the villagers, Mr. Zhao opened a special clinic at home to serve the villagers wholeheartedly.
because there are too many famous people who come to see a doctor, it's very lively now. Not only the villagers nearby, but also people from other provinces come here. At that time, people came and went on the way to Mr. Wang's house.
a tree attracts wind, and it didn't take long for someone to report it. People from the health bureau came to check, but Mr. Wang couldn't get a medical qualification certificate. No discussion, just seal it, and you will be fined.
In fact, my husband is not short of money, he has a retirement salary, and his children have settled down in the city. Mr. Wang did this for the convenience of the villagers, for the memory and inheritance of his old father, who has been practicing medicine and collecting herbs all his life, and for his heartfelt love. Every time he saw a patient being treated in time with him, he got rid of his illness, and his inner joy and satisfaction were often beyond ordinary people's understanding!
after the clinic was closed down, Mr. Wang's children wanted to take him to the city, but the surrounding villagers were very reluctant and came to retain Mr. Wang.
without any hesitation, Mr. Wang decided to stay and continue to serve the villagers, and it was free of charge, and all the medicinal materials were free!
in this way, the nature of Mr. Wang's treatment and prescription for villagers has changed. There is no business without collecting property, and it is purely serving the people.
after a period of time, the villagers have benefited greatly, because some medicinal materials are not produced locally, so they have to go to the drugstore to buy them. His little retirement salary often makes ends meet, and sometimes there is nothing he can do. My husband will go out for a few days and collect medicine in other places.
A seemingly accidental incident, after careful consideration, Mr. Wang made a decision to change his destiny!
An old lady had a chest tightness for several days and couldn't breathe. She found her husband. With years of experience, Mr. Wang quickly judged the crux. But there is no medicine available at home, so we have to let the old lady's family buy their own medicine. Since seeing a doctor for free, this has often happened, and patients have nothing to say.
to Mr. Wang's surprise, the old lady showed no signs of improvement after taking several pairs of medicine. Mr. Wang is a little restless when he hears it. His reputation is small and the old man's health is big.
Mr. Wang left immediately and went to Longpan Mountain alone.
after taking the herbs dug by her husband, the old lady recovered as usual in a few days, and came to thank her husband step by step with a crutch.
the same medicinal materials, different places of origin, and different drug effects, which made Mr. Wang unexpected. Later, I realized that the medicinal materials sold in pharmacies are wild, cultivated, and not old enough. What's more, there are shoddy ones!
Mr. Wang thought twice and made a decision to go out and collect herbs, which can be used or planted on Longpan Mountain.
just do it, sir. let's go. It is near Anhui, Zhejiang and Jiangxi, and as far as Yunnan, Guizhou and Sichuan. Over the past few years, I can't tell you how many places Mr. Wang has been and how many mountains and valleys have left the footprints of this lean old man.
It takes as little as a few days, and as much as ten days and a half months. Every time I come back, my husband carrying big bags and small bags is always full of gains.
Except for the villagers to see a doctor, some of the medicinal materials dug up will be planted on Longpan Mountain by Mr. Wang. According to their habits and characteristics, they should be planted in the right place, the morning sun and the shady shadow.