(a)
Last night, before going to bed, brushing the circle of friends, suddenly received a message from my good friend, Lao A: "She got married on May 1, should I send a gift?"
I was trying to figure out how to reply to her, and before I had a chance to send it out, Old A couldn't wait to send another message: "Damn I accidentally gave her a like!"
This she is the old A played since childhood to big girlfriends. The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't want to see you in the middle of the night, but I'd like to see you in the middle of the night.
The thing is this. The old A originally and this girlfriends relationship has been very good, according to the old A said, they were a child wearing a pair of pants, grew up to be each other's wedding bridesmaids, the child's godmother, the old together with the square dance, and so on can not go when living in a nursing home with the kind of good. But I don't know why, they suddenly don't contact.
Old A first told me about this, especially aggrieved. She said, "I was preparing for the TOEFL exam in those three months, and I had to work during the day, so I was busy every day, and she called me crying about her troubles, blaming me for dealing with her casually."
After that, Lao A's best friend didn't call Lao A much, and sometimes she sent a few WeChat messages, which Lao A replied to or didn't reply to. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that with the help of your own personal computer.
The old A panicked, rushed to prepare to send her microblogging, before sitting on the bus to read through her circle of friends, only to know, in their own life the busiest moment, the girlfriends of the mother died.
That friend circle reads, "You raised me to twenty-four, a small round, you sleep at ease, I'm good for two more rounds, almost to see you."
Below the text was accompanied by a photo of his girlfriend and her mother, smiling face, neon lights flashing Shanghai Bund.
Old A died crying on the bus, everyone looked at her, she said, at that time, my tears and snot all stuck together, I do not feel ashamed, I just heart is very painful, very painful.
In this way, Lao A and her best friend became the most familiar strangers.
For more than a year after that, Lao A asked me from time to time why this happened. In the New Year, Lao A did not even dare to send a WeChat to her best friend, she said, I'm afraid she won't reply to me, but I'm more afraid she'll reply to me me.
? "I'm afraid I will disturb her" ?
"I'd better not squeeze into her world hard"
(2)
Almost many of my friends around me have had experiences similar to those of Old A. I'm not sure if I've ever been in the same situation, but I'm not sure if I've ever been in the same situation. One or two people exist in my circle of friends that I won't bother with. Every once in a while I will go to see their friend circle, never like comments, silently happy not to pull me black. There is even a little girl, we used to play together for four years, and now I do not even have her WeChat, but I have her qq, I will go to look at her qq space about once a month or two, thankful that she consistently will have dynamic.
This is the story of how I lost touch with my best friend.
This is the story of my "loss" of my best friend, and I wouldn't have told it if A hadn't asked me last night.
When we encounter similar problems, we seem to be more inclined to remain silent. I asked one of the boys if he could talk about the specifics. He said, what's there to say. A look of indifference. In the evening, however, he sent me a text message in which he said:
"In fact, I can't do anything about this kind of thing, so I'd rather not talk about it and take it as fate's best."
(c)
When events are associated with emotions, a lot of things are just hard to distinguish between right and wrong. Sometimes there is no right or wrong, good or bad. Everything is, as the boy said, destiny.
The old A was busy blowing up, often forgetting to eat, had a bad cold, gastroenteritis pain into the emergency room. The old A's best friend, that time career is not good, suffered the death of relatives, life bottom. The old A said, even if I played with her for twenty years, but I'm like missing her whole life.
Two people in the important juncture of life did not realize the emotional docking, interconnection. It is also difficult to say: you are my best friend, right?