Because true love is a two-way emotional communication, the admiration of two hearts, the two of a kind, and the spark of soul-to-soul collision. If two people love each other, there is no need to deliberately change themselves to please each other.
If she (he) doesn't like you, it's no use pursuing it deliberately. If you really like each other, it's too late to like them again. Is it necessary to please desperately? Even if you touched her (him) with your heart, the feelings you got are a little reluctant. She (he) didn't accept you so much at first. It must be that some of your conditions did not meet her (his) requirements, and you were moved by your temporary actions, but it took a long time. If she (he) meets the ideal object in her mind, it is difficult to guarantee that she (he) will not change her mind. But people often say: "I can't live without her (him)."
I love her (him) very much. "In fact, this idea is ridiculous. Who can't live without who? Without anyone, the earth can't turn around. No one can stop you from living unless you really don't want to live. Usually, the "only" we think is not true, but we don't look for it with our heart. True love comes from mutual sincere admiration and is based on two of a kind. Anyone who loves others crazily regardless of whether he is loved or not, or who is only interested in taking without really giving, will not have a good ending.