But when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you
He can't pretend not to love you when he loves you;
Similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you,
You have to ask yourself if you still love him,
If you don't love him, don't refuse to leave for poor self-esteem;
If you still love him, you should hope he is happy.
I hope he is with the person he really loves and never stop him.
If you stop him from getting real happiness, you don't love him anymore.
If you don't love him, what makes you accuse him of changing his mind?
Love is not possession,
You like the moon, you can't take it down and put it in the washbasin.
But the moonlight can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can have it in another way.
Let love be an eternal memory in life,
If you really love a person, you should love him for what he really is-love his goodness and love his badness;
Like his strengths and weaknesses,
You must not want him to become what you want just because you love him.
In case you don't love him.
You can't say why you really love someone.
You only know that you want this person to accompany you whenever and wherever you are in a good mood.
True love is that two people can stay together in the most difficult time, but there is no requirement at all.
After all, feelings must be paid, not just wanted;
Separation is an inevitable test.
Sue (Socrates): Son, why are you sad?
Lost (lovelorn): I am lovelorn.
Sue: Oh, that's normal.
If there is no sadness in lovelorn love, love will probably have no taste.
But, young man,
How do I find that you are more devoted to lovelorn than to love?
Loss: You lost the grapes you got. This regret, this loss, you are not from China.
How do you know the bitterness?
Sue: If you lose it, you lose it. Why don't you keep walking? There are many delicious grapes.
Lost: I will wait until the seas run dry and the rocks crumble until she comes to me.
Sue: But this day may never come.
Lost: then I'll commit suicide to show my sincerity.
Sue: If so, you will not only lose your lover, but also yourself.
You will suffer double losses.
Miss: How about stepping on her foot? What I can't get, no one else can get.
Sue: But it will only make you farther away from her, and you originally wanted to be closer to her.
What do you think I should do? I really love her.
Sue: Really? So of course you want the person you love to be happy?
Loss: That's natural.
Sue: What if she thinks leaving you is a kind of happiness?
Lost: no! She once told me,
Only with me will she feel happy!
Sue: I used to, but she doesn't think so now.
Lost: That is to say, she has been lying to me?
Sue: No, she has always been loyal to you. When she loves you, she is with you,
Now that she doesn't love you, she's gone,
There is nothing more loyal in the world.
If she doesn't love you anymore, but she still pretends to be very affectionate to you,
Even marrying you and having children, that's the real deception.
Lost: But isn't my affection for her wasted? Who will make it up to me?
Sue: No, your feelings will never be wasted, because when you give your feelings,
She also gave her feelings for you;
You give her happiness, and she gives you happiness.
Lost: However, she doesn't love me now, but I am still in love with her. How unfair!
Sue: It's really unfair. I mean, you're unfair to the people you love.
It was your right to love her, and it was her right to love you or not.
While you exercise your rights yourself, you want to deprive others of the freedom to exercise their rights.
How unfair this is!
Lost: But you can see that it is not her that I am suffering now, but I am suffering for her!
Sue: Suffering for her? She may be doing well,
Suppose you suffer for yourself.
It's obviously for yourself, but it's still under the banner of others.
Lost: So you say it's all my fault?
Sue: Yes, you made a mistake from the beginning.
If you can bring her happiness, she won't leave your life.
You know, no one can escape happiness.
Lost: But she won't even give me a chance. Do you feel hateful?
Sue: Of course. Fortunately, you have got rid of this hateful person now.
You should be happy, son.
Lost: happy? How is that possible? I was abandoned anyway.
Sue: Abandoned ones are not bad.
Lost: How can I say this?
Sue: Once, I saw an aristocratic suit in the shop and couldn't put it down.
The shopkeeper asked me if I wanted it. Guess what I said?
I said the texture is too poor, no!
Actually, I have no money in my pocket.
Young man, maybe you are this abandoned dress.
Lost: You are really comforting, but it's a pity that you still can't lead me out of the pain of lovelorn.
Sue: Time will heal your wound.
Lost: I really hope this day, but where should I start my first step?
Sue: Thank the person who abandoned you and bless her.
Lost: Why?
Sue: Because she gave you loyalty and gave you a new chance to find happiness.