When he was in elementary school, Xiaotao had better grades and was quite obedient. However, after the junior high school, especially after the second year, Xiaotao is more and more uncontrollable, and was actually found by the teacher that he smoked at school. Mom and dad also found that as long as he went out to dinner with friends, home is a smell of alcohol; usually mom can occasionally find a few cigarette butts at home. On this day, Xiaotao went out to play with his friends again and came back very late.
Looking at Xiaotao's slightly drunken appearance, and smelling the smell of cigarettes and alcohol emanating from his body, his short-tempered father gave his son a beating, scolding him as he did so, saying: "Bear child, are you out there smoking and drinking again? Do you still look like a middle school student like this?"
Xiaotao shouted while hiding, "What's wrong with smoking and drinking? You know how to do it." When Dad heard this, he was so angry that he hit him even harder. Mom, in the face of this son, just silently shed tears.
Because the parents are busy doing business, usually little care for the child, in addition to constantly meet his material needs, the lack of due attention to the son's education, only to emphasize the importance of learning, which makes Xiaotao from the heart of the interest in learning, and so learn from his father's appearance, smoking and drinking to mix life.
In fact, the parents' attitude against their children's smoking and drinking must be clear. For the drinking problem of adults, some people have made a survey of 100 families and found that: 50% of parents think that underage drinking should be stopped; 10% of parents allow minors, especially boys, to drink; 20% of parents do not comment on underage drinking; 10% of parents never care about this aspect of their children's business; 10% of parents think that it depends on the situation. It can be seen that more than half of the parents are not opposed to their children's drinking, and it is this attitude that condones the children, and by the time the children become addicted and the parents have an intolerable situation, the matter is out of the control of the parents.
Parents should have a clear understanding of their children's ideological dynamics, and timely guidance, correction. Some children take smoking and drinking as a way to show off their skills to their partners, some believe that they can harmonize the relationship between people, and some think that smoking and drinking can relieve their worries and improve their spirits. For these plausible hang-ups, parents should give timely correction, teach children to establish a correct attitude to get along with others, increase their courage to face the frustration, the child's mind will lead to the right track.