Take my parents as an example.
My mother is career-minded and hardworking. She chose to re-enter the workforce after her retirement and is still working at her post. There is a small vegetable plot in the house, and when she is not working, my mother goes gardening. In the evenings my mother read medical books at home to continue her studies. In my hometown there are my mother's colleagues and friends who have worked for more than 30 years. My mother has her own circle of friends and classmates who meet regularly to sing, dance, visit her 90-year-old teacher, etc. She has a very positive lifestyle. I am very relieved.
My father was a quiet and relaxed person. I let my father live with me after I retired. (My mother came to live with me when she didn't want to continue working in her hometown. I don't want to force her. I video with my mother every day, go back to my hometown to visit my mother regularly, and prepare gifts for my parents on all holidays.) I give my father a life of food and drink. My father likes to read, so I give him my study. (Build myself another study and studio of my own.) My father's health is not good enough for heavy labor and strenuous activities. Every day I would accompany my father and walk for half an hour in the evening. During the day, I will take care of my father's daily life. My father has worked all his life, and now that he has retired and wants to rest, let him rest without worry. Prepare for my father the books he likes to read; the tea he likes to drink; the food he likes to eat; prepare for my father the medicines he needs to take regularly every day; prepare for my father the brain-boosting games (in case of amnesia); build a flower garden on the balcony, so that my father can have a light work, and look at the flowers and plants can be physically and mentally pleasurable; sometimes I pretend to be confused, so that my father can help me solve the problem, so that he can have a sense of being needed; I usually meet my neighbors, so that my father can chat with the neighbors he knows for a few minutes. It's enough. My father is introverted and doesn't like to talk, unlike my mother who is an outgoing and enthusiastic person. I don't want to force my father to change his character, but I just want him to stay calm and happy every day.