Some people say that life chose you, but in fact you chose life.
Once put down, it is so calm and life is not easy. Only you can fulfill yourself.
Introduction: Life is your own. Don't care too much about other people's ideas and statements. Just have a clear conscience, right
A person's life is actually very short, and life is our own.
The road is our own, others don't have our experience, so we know whether we are happy or not.
Go your own way and live your own life, but a clear conscience is enough.
Everyone plays a different role in life. Living under the microscope of the world, I am afraid that I am not doing well enough to disappoint others, and every move will become trembling.
In fact, whether life is good or bad is our own business, and only we can bear it, which has nothing to do with others.
I still remember when I just graduated from college, I moved into my rented house in order to be closer to the company. I'm thinking about starting a new life. Even the rented house had to be cleaned up, so I tried my best to find time to decorate it.
I can't help but think of a plot in Parents' Love. The protagonist moved to the island with the army and brought a set of exquisite coffee pots and cups. Invite friends to have coffee at home, set up a small round table, spread a tablecloth with four corners hooked, and put a rose in the vase.
Her sentence "I don't care how others live, I will live the life I like" has impressed me so far.
Yes, life is our own. Every day we have, every happiness, we have to feel and capture it carefully by ourselves. Sometimes we care too much about other people's opinions. We can understand others with our heart, but we refuse to forgive ourselves.
But in fact, life is a process of picking up and letting go. If a person can try to accept himself when understanding others and gradually learn not to care about the outside voice, that is the highest way to live.
Our whole life is to get rid of other people's expectations and find our true self. Life is so long that we don't have to go with the flow to please others. You are you, but please remember that the world treats you well.
As we grow older, we gradually understand that life is our own, and we don't have to show it to others, nor do we have to care about other people's opinions, accusations and misunderstandings. We just need to focus on our own path and do our own thing well.
Life is only a few days. What is the meaning we seek in our life in the long road ahead?
It is to constantly accept, recognize and accommodate yourself, not to be defined by anyone, and not to live in mechanized rules and regulations.
Life is a journey with no turning back. You will definitely enjoy different scenery along the way, and the road under your feet may be bumpy and muddy.
But no matter what the scenery is, there will be real happiness only if you jump out of the cage that others give you or you give you restrictions.
If people don't live in their own world, they can only go with the flow in other people's world.
Many times, we care too much about what others say or think, but the best living condition for a person is not living in a foreign house, driving a luxury car and wearing gorgeous and expensive clothes, but that he can really live in the way he wants, rather than living in the world that others say.
First of all, you should have scenery, flowers, sea and a house in your heart. You should live and enjoy every day seriously, instead of being full of other people's stories.
"Don't live in other people's world" sounds difficult, but we can still start with small things and listen to our hearts. For example, don't ask others if what we like is good or not, and don't ask others what they think of what we want to do.
Because before you make a decision, you already have the answer in your heart.
People with great wisdom never live in other people's eyes or mouths. They just use their own unique ideas to get rid of the inherent prejudice of the outside world and plan every day in the future. This kind of life is meaningful.
There is such a line in the TV series "Ideal City": "I understand that a good life is created by myself, enjoying the results and enjoying the process of having a clear conscience. If you mix ideals with sales, it is not to pursue ideals, but to satisfy desires. "
Maybe there are more ruthless hearts and means in real life than in the play, but as long as you are down-to-earth and have a clear conscience, then those who calculate others will eventually be calculated.
Life cannot be perfect. Without the accumulation of mistakes and regrets, our life would not be so colorful, just as the host Ma Dong said in The Story of Seven Paes: "With the passage of time, we will eventually forgive those who have been hurt."
A lot of accidents happened some time ago, because my little mistake was calculated by my former colleagues, which led to unemployment. Many things didn't go as I hoped. I joined the new company with mixed emotions.
Anxiety about work and life came together. After all, I still have to face unknown fears, new colleagues, new environment, and maybe a new identity in the future. I'm afraid I can't face and handle all this.
But in order to prevent endless anxiety and fear, I keep hinting at myself: it doesn't have to be perfect, as long as I have a clear conscience.
Happiness lies in contentment, and all good things are transformed from those setbacks and difficulties. As long as you follow the right path step by step, you can get everything you want and live a satisfactory life.
Text/Lao Xia analyst
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