Nowadays, there are many ways for people to flirt with girls. There are many ways to send flowers and buy gifts. Is this how the ancients flirted with girls? The ancients didn't have mobile phones or the Internet, so they just wanted to be together for the rest of their lives.
The ancients hit the mark when it came to flirting with girls: "In the past, carriages and horses were very slow, only enough to love one person." What the ancients were best at flirting with girls was the use of poems and songs, just like great poets such as Li Bai, He has written countless good poems, and I don’t know how many girls are impressed by them. Most of the poems were written for women, and many of the poems that have been preserved praise women.
Isn't the famous "clouds think of clothes and flowers think of face" what Li Bai did to praise Concubine Yang? He expressed the beauty of Concubine Yang in one sentence, which captivated the country and made many future generations bow. This shows how charming the poetry of ancient people is.
There is also that sentence: "A graceful lady, a gentleman is so jealous." Isn't it exactly what a man loves a woman? A beautiful and elegant lady is exactly what a gentleman like me wants in my dream. Based on what that woman listens to Don't you blush and your heart beats?
There is a sentence in "Phoenix Seeking Phoenix": "I miss you like crazy after not seeing you for a day." Just from this literal meaning, you can see that this person expresses his longing in words, and he longs deeply. The emotions are all on the surface. That is to say, I like you. If I don’t see you for a day, I will miss you and go crazy.
A few simple words can really express the heartbeat at that moment and how much I miss you at that moment. The ancients' love is so straightforward, I like you, and the poems I write to you are also full of my feelings of missing you.
I think ancient people were much better at flirting with girls than people today. Isn’t there a lyric that says, “If I could do it all over again, I would be Li Bai, and at least I could write poems to tease girls.”