ideas
Everyone needs encouragement from others
Encouragement is an affirmation of the value of others
Encouragement will generate unexpected motivation
Encourage yourself when encountering difficulties
Encourage others when they are frustrated
Encourage bold ideas and dreams
Don't forget when criticizing. Words are also encouragement
Encouragement is a good way of education
Encouraging children is better than criticizing
Famous sayings
If we give opportunities, encouragement and rewards to ordinary employees, so that they can do their best, their achievements are absolutely limitless. -Robert Walton
It is the boss's criticism that destroys a person's ambition most easily in the world. I never criticize anyone. I only give people encouragement. I am eager to praise, not to blame. -Xia Bu
Sometimes, timely and powerful encouragement is the best help for you. -Thomas
Scientific research can break superstition, because it encourages people to think and observe things according to causality. -Einstein
The most important educational method always encourages students to practice. -Einstein
Only by being generous to others and praising their beauty can we win friends. -Evelyn Ender Hilf
There is no reward in the world to encourage hard work, all rewards are only used to reward the results of work.
-motto of success motivation
encouragement and praise make an idiot a genius, while criticism and abuse make a genius an idiot. -anonymous
in the ocean of learning, teachers' encouragement is like a sail, and trust is like a boat, carrying students to the other side of success. -anonymous
classic material
words from the master
(an encouraging word inspires the courage to persevere)
The famous pianist and composer Padelevsky is scheduled to perform in a big concert hall in the United States. It was a memorable night-the concert hall was full of black tuxedos, formal evening dresses and upper-class dresses. Among the audience that night was a mother with an agitated 9-year-old child.
When she turned to talk to her friend, he was attracted by the grand piano and the ebony bench in front of him on the stage with dazzling lights, and slipped away from his mother. He put his trembling little finger on the black and white keys and began to play a piece called Chopsticks.
The audience's conversation suddenly stopped, and hundreds of pairs of unhappy eyes looked at it together. The enraged and embarrassed audience began to shout that the child should be driven out.
In the background, piano master heard the sound in front of the stage. He quickly grabbed his coat and ran to the stage. Without saying a word, he stood behind the boy, stretched out his hands and improvised some harmonious notes that matched Chopsticks. When they were playing at the same time, the master whispered in the boy's ear, "Keep playing, don't stop. Keep playing ... don't stop ... don't stop. "
so do we. We work hard, and the effect is just like a child playing Chopsticks in a big auditorium. Just as we were about to give up, suddenly the master appeared, bent down and whispered to us, "Now keep playing, don't stop." Go on ... Don't stop; Don't stop, he improvised for us and played the right melody at the right time.
Beautiful Mind
(Encouragement requires selfless dedication and perseverance)
The film Beautiful Mind won the 74th Academy Awards, which almost won the highest award in the world in 22, and the film hero Nash became a popular public figure. Johnf nash was born in 1928 and began to show his talent in mathematics at the age of 14. On July 13th, 195, on his birthday, he received his Ph.D. degree from the Institute for Advanced Studies in Princeton, USA. An important discovery in his 27-page doctoral thesis was the game theory that was later called "Nash Equilibrium". Just in his early twenties, he was already a master of game theory and a world-famous scientist in the late 195s. However, just as his career was in full swing, 3-year-old Nash suffered from severe schizophrenia, and he could not carry out normal research work for 3 years.
His wife Alicia, a graduate of Physics Department of Massachusetts Institute of Technology, is a noble and strong woman, who has always given him meticulous care, tolerance and encouragement. She showed an iron will: she survived her husband's confinement and isolation, and passed through the shock and sadness that her son was also suffering from schizophrenia ... After a long half century, her patience and perseverance finally worked wonders: like her son, Professor Nash gradually recovered, resumed his research work, and won the Nobel Prize in Economics in 1994.
I want to jump on the moon
(encourage every dream)
A mother was washing dishes in the kitchen. She heard the children bouncing around in the backyard and shouted to him, "What are you doing?" The child replied, "I want to jump on the moon!" " Guess what mom said? Instead of throwing cold water on the child and calling him "Don't talk nonsense" or "Come in and wash up quickly", she said, "Ok, don't forget to come back!" The child later became the first man to land on the moon. He was Armstrong.
Su Buqing and Gu Chaohao
(Encouraging students to surpass themselves)
Su Buqing, a master of mathematics, has noble moral character, and he sincerely encourages students to surpass themselves. He often says to his students, "Only when one generation is better than the other can science develop and career have hope. You should surpass me and advance towards higher goals."
He not only advocates this in words, but also helps students surpass themselves in practical actions. Observing from many aspects, he found that Gu Chaohao, a student, had a keen mind and spare capacity for learning, so he put forward higher requirements to him according to the principle of step by step, and supported him to listen to Mr. Chen Jiangong's class while listening to his own class. He also participated in the function discussion class while attending the differential geometry discussion class hosted by himself, so that he could learn both the knowledge and strengths of the two gentlemen. At the beginning of liberation, the superior planned to transfer Gu Chaohao to a certain unit to engage in administrative leadership. Su Buqing thought it was inappropriate to employ people like this, saying that Gu Chaohao had a talent for mathematics and should be allowed to play his expertise in mathematics. Later, he thought that Gu Chaohao had basically mastered his knowledge and recommended him to study at Moscow University.
After Gu Chaohao returned to China, he made a series of world-advanced research results in differential equations. In cooperation with the famous physicist Yang Zhenning, he has made a series of achievements in the study of the mathematical structure of gauge field, which has been highly praised by the scientific community.
Kōnosuke Matsushita's decision-making view
(encouraging employees)
Kōnosuke Matsushita, president of Matsushita Electric Co., Ltd., is famous for his leadership style of swearing, but he is also known for being the best at cultivating talents.
once, Kōnosuke Matsushita said to a department manager of his company, "I have to make many decisions every day and approve many decisions of others. In fact, only 4% of the decisions I really agree with, and the remaining 6% are reserved by me, or I think it is ok. " The manager was very surprised. If Panasonic didn't agree with something, he could just veto it outright.
"You can't say no to anything. For those plans that you think are passable, you can guide them in the process of implementation and make them return to the track you expected. I think a leader should sometimes accept what he doesn't like, because no one likes being denied. " As a leader, you must know how to strengthen people's confidence, and you must not always dampen the enthusiasm of your subordinates. Try to avoid using the words "you can't, you can't, you don't know, maybe", but always say "you can, you will, you must, you will and you know" to your subordinates.
Confidence is very important for people's success. Knowing how to strengthen the leadership with confidence of subordinates is not only encouraging your subordinates, but also helping you to succeed. Management is not dictatorship. When engaging in enterprise management, it is very important to respect human rights, attach importance to individuals, ask questions in a friendly way and listen with concern.
Pavlov educates students
(Don't forget to encourage when criticizing)
One day, a student walked up to Pavlov, a famous physiologist, with a sad face and reported that he had failed an important animal experiment. Pavlov said, "From the magic when you succeeded in your last experiment, I knew you were bound to fail this time!" The professor severely criticized the depressed student, and at the same time earnestly encouraged him: "You are still young, don't let pride possess you." The professor also said: "When my first scientific paper was published, I was not so happy as a little heavy, because I thought that it was not easy to make even a little progress on the rugged path of science."
the power of respect
(encourage those who make mistakes)
Once, Bob Hoover, a famous fighter test pilot of the US Air Force, flew back to Los Angeles after completing an air show mission. On the way, the plane suddenly broke down seriously, and both engines failed at the same time. He was fearless in the face of danger and took decisive and calm measures to miraculously land the plane at the airport. When he and the security personnel checked the plane, they found that the accident was caused by the wrong oil. He was flying a propeller plane, but he used jet oil.
The mechanic in charge of refueling turned pale with fear, and cried when he saw Hoover. Because his momentary negligence may cause a plane crash and three deaths. Hoover didn't break into a furious rage. Instead, he hugged the guilty mechanic gently and sincerely said to him, "In order to prove that you have done a good job, I want you to help me with the maintenance of the plane tomorrow." The mechanic has been following Hoover since then, taking charge of his plane maintenance. Since then, Hoover's aircraft maintenance has never gone wrong.
this is the genius of hoover. For the big mistake, in fact, there is no need for others to blame, and I have already blamed myself. If we respect each other and understand their feelings at this time, it will be a kind of fraternity and encouragement for each other.
This will pass
(Both failure and success need to be encouraged)
In p>1954, men, women and children in Brazil agreed that the Brazilian football team would definitely win the World Cup. However, unexpected events happen, and the charm of football lies in its unpredictability. In the semi-final, Brazil unexpectedly lost to France and failed to bring the golden trophy back to Brazil. Players know better than anyone that football is the soul of china of Brazil. They were so remorseful that they felt ashamed to see their hometown elders. They know that it is inevitable for fans to abuse, ridicule and throw soda bottles.
When the plane entered Brazil's airspace, the players felt even more uneasy, and they were on pins and needles. However, when the plane landed at the Capital Airport, they were greeted by another scene: the Brazilian President and more than 2, fans stood silently at the airport, and two banners in the crowd were particularly eye-catching: "Hold your head high if you fail!" "This will pass!" The players burst into tears. Neither the president nor the fans spoke, silently watching the players leave the airport.
Four years later, the Brazilian football team won the World Cup. When returning home, as soon as the special plane of the Brazilian football team entered the country, 16 jet fighters immediately escorted it. When the plane landed at Dogall Airport, as many as 3, people gathered at the airport to welcome it. On both sides of the road from the airport to the Capital Square, more than 1 million people gathered automatically. What a grand and exciting scene this is!
There are also two banners in the crowd that stand out: "Go ahead even if you win!" "This will pass!"
Beethoven's Kiss
(Pass on the encouragement)
In September p>1985, Hungarian pianist Andor Foldes gave a class to a group of young pianists in Saarbrü cken, Federal Republic of Germany. He found that if he patted a student on the back, that student would perform better. He praised his outstanding performance in front of the whole class, and to his great surprise, he immediately surpassed his original level.
Andor did this because of his own experience. At the age of 16, he was in some kind of crisis because of his disagreement with the music teacher. Later, the famous pianist Emile von Salle, the last living disciple of Liszt, came to Budapest and asked Andor to play for him. Liszt listened attentively to him play Bach's "Toccata" in C major, and asked for more tunes. Andor devoted himself to playing Beethoven's "Pathetique" sonata and Schumann's "papillon". Finally, von Salle got up and kissed him on the forehead. "My child," he said, "I became a student of Liszt when I was your age. After my first class, he kissed me on the forehead and said,' Take good care of this kiss-it came from Beethoven. He gave it to me after listening to me play.' I have been waiting for many years to hand down this sacred legacy, and now I feel that you deserve it.
nothing can compare with Feng in Andor's life? Sal's praise. Beethoven's kiss magically freed him from the crisis and helped him become the pianist he is today. It will soon be his turn to pass it on to those who deserve the inheritance most.
The height of whales
(Animals need to be encouraged)
If you see a whale weighing 86 kilograms jumping 6.6 meters above the water and performing various actions for you, I think you will be amazed and regard this as a miracle. And there is such a miracle whale.
The trainer of this whale revealed the secret of training to the outside world: at the beginning, they put the rope under the water so that the whale could not pass over the rope. Every time the whale passed over the rope, it would be rewarded, and it would be eaten by fish, and someone would pat it and play with it. The trainer encouraged the whale. When the whale passes over the rope more times than under it, the trainer will raise the rope, but the speed of raising it must be slow, so as not to make the whale depressed because of too many failures.
Lin Zexu wrote a couplet in the hall
(encouraging others to give their opinions)
Lin Zexu, a national hero in the anti-smoking movement, personally wrote a couplet in the lobby when he served as Jiangsu's low-cost defense ambassador: "I would like to hear about myself and seek public opinion." He called on people to boldly expose corrupt officials and encourage others to express their opinions to themselves. In 1838, after he was promoted to the governor of Guangdong and Guangxi, he personally wrote a couplet in the official's office: there are hundreds of rivers in Hainan, and tolerance is great; The wall stands a thousand miles, and if you have no desire, you are just. This pair of couplets has always been read and praised. Part I means to be as generous as the sea and listen to a wide range of different opinions; The second part of the couplet is an inspiring motto, which encourages you to put an end to selfish desires and be a tough guy who stands upright in the world.
Darwin's father
(encouraging children's interest and imagination)
From the age of seven, Darwin liked collecting dried plants and dead insects, as well as miscellaneous things such as coins, stamps, shells and fossils. He also likes to do chemical experiments at home, for which he was reprimanded by the headmaster, Dr. Butler. However, old Darwin supported the children. He gave him a shed in the garden to do chemistry.