Maybe Jiang Xin herself did not realize her own problem, but people Sun Li can say, she always called this, really sometimes do not know is a joke or really.
This is the first time I've ever seen a person with such a low IQ, and I've seen a lot of them, so I'm not sure if they're just strangers, but I'm afraid they're good friends, and I've seen them get hurt and not be able to get away with it.
I have a good friend is so, I because the heart wide body fat (cry a moment), a few play well with friends together, often joking, it is nothing. But there is a friend, she picks a lot of people to take my fat jokes. Once more excessive, we talked about the hometown food at the dinner table, I told everyone about our hometown a kind of chicken is quite famous. Just when I said to the proud, the friend came to a: stop, look at you this big fat chicken, we know that your hometown that dish taste good. Said she also own for very humorous laugh up, angry blood spraying I almost did not put the hands of the chicken legs into her mouth, let her shut up!
This kind of person, if you feel angry, she will be very innocent to say, a joke, why take it seriously. You're fucking kidding me, and you're blaming me for not laughing, right?
What to do when you meet such a person? The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the stuff that you've done!
I just gave birth to a child that, the body has not recovered, a lot of fat, once my aunt had to let me go to her home to chat to play, after the past has not stayed a while, my aunt came, looked at me and said, yo, now how to eat with a pig like, then I went to my cousin's house, gas I wailed and cried, and then the doorway neighbors go to her house just to go into the house to get things and ask my aunt, I cried, I aunt said, "I don't know, it's too spoiled, I'm just too spoiled. Aiya all right, is too delicate, his aunt said she cried like this, nothing. Since then, in addition to the New Year's gift day to her home, almost every year do not go to step on the door of her home, know that usually she is bad, I did not expect to invert the right and wrong is also absolute, talking about my two aunts, that is bad to a nest, my mother left not a few months, my father also listen to them every day to stir up the bad can't be line, at that time really want to lighten the life, fortunately, I have a lot of friends to guide me, as well as I love my younger brother and sister, husband, and son, they used to Take me as a poor dog, who want to step on the step, who want to scold scold, but I am more ambitious, and now I can earn almost two hundred thousand per year, buy a car is also ready to buy a house, and now they do not dare to casually say that I am not to mention that I am now also unwilling to talk to them more, to see this group of snobbish dog on the annoyance of the benefits of working in the field is not have to see these nasty face, my mother was born so well to them, gone but to her My mom was so nice to them when she was alive, but she did this to her children. No wonder my aunt dreamed that my mom went to her and had a black face on her for a few days, you don't do anything wrong, how can you be afraid? I often dream of my mother is smiling, including my hair small dream of my mother is also pulling her hand and said let us two good, let us two take care of each other, to her to become my mother's ghost still scare her? Don't think about how much you lose your conscience, I junior high school when they failed to do business, my mom earns a day more than two hundred dollars, to my grandmother but also to turn in the money earned, but also secretly stuffed her fifty, for fear that she could not go on, the water bill, my mother to help her to pay the electricity bill, the two children are in my house to eat and sleep, you say how they are so loss of conscience, lack of morality to the home, this kind of people really evil evil, and now although they also talk to them, but still the heart will not forgive! The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't think I'm going to be able to get away with it, but I think I'm going to be able to get away with it, and I think I'm going to be able to get away with it.
Because no one to help with the child, resigned at the end of August, go to the unit for the formalities just happened to run into the station manager, this less than 165 disgusting old man is notorious for no level, I said: Zhang director of the ah, he said: Yo, I heard that you married a rich husband, and even the class are not on? I smiled and said: Oh, no no, in fact, you may not know, my family is also quite rich, so many years of work is actually to pass the time pastime! He immediately dropped his face, turned around and walked away, next to two coworkers, at that time the atmosphere for him that is quite embarrassing ah! Hahaha! Fuck, I'm not even doing it anymore, I'm still afraid you're a dick! Such a bitch deserves to be cleaned up!!!!
Thanks! Far kind of experience may be there, but I do not remember, because I never put such things in mind, which in the course of life is very insignificant things. Life in the world what things can be encountered, depending on how you treat, everything to the good side to see the positive sunshine, do not look at the gloomy, go the right way of the sun. I think this is the only way to make your own life happy and happy.
There was a gathering of coworkers, and someone ordered a dog hot pot. A male colleague from the south wanted me to try, and I said to him that we Manchurians do not eat dog meat. He began to say how you so many things, eat how, etc. I did not talk to him, he said, "I do not know what to do. I didn't pay attention to him, he then drank too much and began to scold the Manchus with unpleasant words, I directly put in front of a bowl of noodles buckle his face.
I want to say a thing I once encountered, I was a senior in the hospital internship nurses, we have a group of seven people from different places, I and one of the girls are long acne, long acne know, do not love others to comment on, one of my internship teammates one day on the same love of acne internship teammates, said, look at the pimples on your face, yo, I subconsciously felt that this is not good, I I subconsciously felt that it was not good, and I said, "But she is also very beautiful when she has pimples." In fact, I really thought this way in my heart, because this girl did not have many pimples, and others felt that it was too much when they didn't have any, and it was a really casual remark, which was probably remembered by that girl. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it, and I'm sure I'll be able to do it.
At that time, I was already twenty years old: a few old men in the same village: see our family three straw huts: said: young man fortunate to have three houses: I replied: can be lodging people are not bad.
Seeing the description of the subject, I feel that the subject is a little aggrieved, a little angry, and a little reluctant. Thinking back to my own childhood, there have been encountered naughty and naughty people, but also from time to time to be joked about the moment, but not to the extent of insults, because I am lucky? I don't think so.
Think of a story: said there are two young monks in the listening to the scripture when the errand, look at the yard wind blowing the Buddha's streamer shaking ah shaking, a monk said: "Look, the wind is moving the streamer is also moving." Another monk said, "Wrong, it's the streamers that move and the wind that moves." And Master Huineng responded, "It is not the wind that moves, nor the streamers, but the mind."
There is another story that has a different flavor. It is said that Su Dongpo went to Zen Master Fo Yin for a chat. Su Dongpo said to Fo Yin, "I have recently been very advanced in my study of Buddhism, how do you see me sitting now?" Fo Yin exclaimed, "Like a Buddha." Su Dongpo was very happy to hear this. Fo Yin then asked the same question, "Then what do you think of me?" In order to overwhelm Fo Yin, Su Dong Po replied, "Like a pile of shit." Fo Yin smiled and laughed at this. Su Dongpo was very happy when he returned and went around proclaiming that he had beaten Fo Yin this time. When Su Xiaomei heard this, she said to his brother, "Brother, you should stop publicizing it everywhere, in fact, you lost." Su Dongpo did not understand. Su Xiaomei continued, "Fo Yin has Buddha in his heart, so he looks at anyone as Buddha. You have shit in your heart, so you look at everyone as shit."
The Zen in both stories is thought-provoking and evocative. In addition to the objective reality of life itself, the individual's understanding of the situation of life, what he or she thinks and feels inside is the key to the generation of feelings.
Going back to the title, the process from being joked about to being insulted, there is a change in the degree of feeling within the individual. I'm a rational girl myself, and I've grown up with naughty boys who would just ignore or laugh at me, not even a blank stare, and the boys wouldn't respond after a couple of attempts, so they'd naturally get bored and leave. Therefore, I think the escalation of the degree of the joke and the attitude of both parties, just as the two-handed high-five will ring, if the subject encountered a joking insults, and the subject does not like and can not tolerate, in addition to the implementation of the joke of the person who has a problem, the subject of their own state of mind and respond to the joke of the attitude will also be one of the reasons.
Water Years
I was once insulted by an elementary school classmate, we are neighbors, she and we do games together, often think I'm small, and shouted at me: "small beans", when I was young, just as a joke to listen to.
Later, we all grew up some, in junior high school, she also called me "small beans", angry dislike her: "June fresh", ha, because she is her parents, not married before the product of sitting in the fetal position, we are also from the mouths of the neighbors know, because she is bullied people too much, not to return it, the anger is not even.
When the "small beans", she was looking down on, only because her family is well off, and we are low, lowly, lowly, she learns well, your class as the head of the class, it is very bullish ah, she may not dream of, she looked down on people, the height of her, beyond her, the salted fish have turned over, no wonder the reunion, see not her shadow. The first time I saw this, it was a very good time for me to go back to the office.
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