Andy Lau, one of the "Four Heavenly Kings", had the biggest failure in his life than Yang Lijuan. Andy Lau also suffered from depression because of this and went to see a psychiatrist many times.
Also a fan of Andy Lau, Lai Wenhui’s experience and ending were completely different.
What is the reason for this result?
Yang Lijuan’s crazy obsession with Andy Lau originated from one of her spring dreams. In the dream, a handsome guy approached her, looked at her affectionately and spoke love to her, but when she woke up from the dream, everything became Empty talk.
Although Yang Lijuan was disappointed, she still couldn't forget the handsome man in her dream. Until she saw Andy Lau's poster in the hands of her classmates, she was extremely excited. Isn't that the man in her dreams?
That year Yang Lijuan was 16 years old, just when Andy Lau was popular all over the country. She took Andy Lau's photo and excitedly made a vow "I will never marry him unless I marry him for the rest of my life." From then on, she embarked on a star-chasing journey. point of no return.
She frantically bought Andy Lau's posters and records. As long as Andy Lau appeared on TV, Yang Lijuan would stay in front of the TV and watch motionless.
Because of chasing stars, Yang Lijuan has seriously affected her study and life.
Behind the daughter’s crazy actions, there is the silent support of her parents.
Father Yang gave birth to his daughter Yang Lijuan when he was about 40 years old. When his daughter was old, the couple regarded Yang Lijuan as their treasure and completely spoiled her like a little princess.
At home, Yang Lijuan wants everything she wants. As long as Yang’s father can satisfy her, she will try her best to provide it to her daughter.
Regarding the matter of chasing stars, Father Yang also dotingly agreed. He did not stop Yang Lijuan's abnormal and crazy behavior, but instead followed his daughter's temperament.
Until 1997, Yang Lijuan was no longer satisfied with seeing Andy Lau on posters and TV. She wanted to interact with her idol face to face.
The person who can fulfill her crazy wish is her father.
Under Yang Lijuan’s pleading, Yang’s father spent 9,900 yuan to sign up for her daughter’s tour group to Hong Kong.
At that time, Yang's father's monthly salary was only more than 2,000 yuan, and the travel expenses were nearly 10,000 yuan, which was already a huge sum of money for the family.
Unexpectedly, Yang’s father spent all his money to support his daughter’s pursuit of stars, but there was no sign of Andy Lau.
Yang Lijuan was unwilling to give in. She didn't go to school or go to work. She even locked herself at home and didn't make friends, but she still had to chase stars everywhere.
All the family’s savings were lost because of Yang Lijuan’s pursuit of stars, but she still refused to give up as if she was possessed by a demon.
Father Yang compromised with his daughter again.
He had no choice but to sell his house, and his family lived in a rental house that cost 400 yuan a month. They lived frugally just to chase stars for his daughter.
Later in 2004, Yang Lijuan heard that Andy Lau was filming "A World Without Thieves" in Gansu. From then on, she had an additional task every day, which was to stand on the roof of the building and watch from morning to night.
But this way of chasing stars ultimately failed to allow her to meet her idol as she wished.
A year later, Yang Lijuan used some method to find out where Andy Lau lived in Hong Kong, and her father once again took her daughter on the road to Hong Kong to chase stars.
This time she still returned disappointed. Yang Lijuan was disappointed and became even more crazy.
Yang’s father had already spent all the money from selling the house, but Yang Lijuan was still unwilling to let go, trying to suck out the last drop of blood from her old father.
In 2006, in order to fulfill his daughter's wish to meet her idol, the penniless father had no choice but to sell his kidney to raise funds.
A year later, Yang Lijuan and her father embarked on the road to Hong Kong for the third time to pursue stars, and on March 25, they got their wish to meet the idol Andy Lau. She was also arranged to take photos and communicate with the idol on stage.
Yang Lijuan finally smiled happily after chasing stars for 13 years. Yang’s father fulfilled her daughter’s wish to meet her idol and was finally free.
On March 26, Yang’s father wrote a nearly 10,000-word suicide note and committed suicide by jumping into the sea. He had nothing left to chase stars for his daughter. In the end, he said "Andy Lau, why do you want to lose everything?" The fault and the blame are placed on the idol.
After losing her father, Yang Lijuan suddenly realized that she regretted her crazy pursuit of stars, but it was already too late, and her old father who doted on her would never come back.
Although Yang Lijuan sobered up and realized that she had made mistakes, she blamed Andy Lau for these mistakes and for forcing her father to commit suicide.
This incident caused a very bad negative impact at the time. Many people rushed to imitate Yang Lijuan and threatened to commit suicide to pursue stars.
Andy Lau also suffered from depression and went to see a psychiatrist many times before he slowly came out of that period of gloom.
Can Yang Lijuan’s ending be entirely blamed on her idol? Such a tragedy is all caused by irrationality.
Also a fan of Andy Lau, Lai Wenhui’s experience is much more inspiring.
Lai Wenhui became Andy Lau's backup dancer at the age of 16 and was called "Andy Lau's confidante" by netizens. Some netizens even speculated that in order to commemorate this royal dance partner, Andy Lau named her after his daughter.
What is so special about Lai Wenhui?
She was the first person to reject Andy Lau, and she was also the one who couldn't be poached away with a lot of money.
When Andy Lau became famous, Lai Wenhui was still a student studying dance. Andy Lau was her idol and her motivation to practice dance.
Until 2002, Andy Lau's team was in urgent need of recruiting a backup dancer, and Lai Wenhui seized the opportunity to apply. She was successfully shortlisted with her solid basic skills and excellent dancing.
In order to dance with her idol and perform to the extreme, Lai Wenhui studied hard in the audience and amazed Andy Lau in her first collaboration.
He wants to hire Lai Wenhui into his team to dance exclusively for him.
Although Lai Wenhui was excited, she still refused.
She feels that her dancing needs to be improved, and that she needs to hone her basic skills to dance with idols.
Andy Lau had no choice but to reluctantly agree. People who were eager to have close contact with their idols lined up in a long line. Lai Wenhui was the first person to reject Andy.
A year later, at Andy Lau's concert, Lai Wenhui also participated. She stood in the second row closest to Andy Lau and shouted crazily for her idol.
Andy Lau recognized Lai Wenhui at a glance, but he did not expect that Lai Wenhui was still his die-hard fan.
This time Andy Lau did not miss it again and extended an olive branch without hesitation again, inviting Lai Wenhui to join his team. This time Lai Wenhui did not refuse.
After a year of polishing and training, Lai Wenhui has reached the requirements and standards to become Andy Lau's backup dancer.
Since then, he has become Andy Lau's exclusive backup dancer, with an annual salary of millions.
Lai Wenhui performed the dance vividly on the stage. Many people were willing to spend more money to poach Lai Wenhui, but Lai Wenhui remained unmoved.
She is only willing to dance with Andy Lau in her whole life. Lai Wenhui has never been absent from Andy Lau's concerts.
At the Love You Ten Thousand Years concert, Andy Lau was so passionate that he shouted "I love you" to the audience in the audience, and the audience responded enthusiastically, "I love you too."
At this time, Andy Lau turned back to his backup dancer Lai Wenhui and said "I love you too."
The two looked at each other affectionately on the stage, Lai Wenhui had tears in her eyes.
Maybe it’s for stage effect, or maybe it’s to express true feelings.
Now Lai Wenhui is about 40 years old. She has never been in love or married. Many people are gossiping and wondering if she likes Andy Lau, but the reply she got is "Who doesn't like him?" Woolen cloth".
Later, Andy Lau's wife gave birth to a daughter named Liu Xianghui, which made many netizens couldn't help but speculate whether the name was in memory of Lai Wenhui.
In order to chase the star Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan forced her old father to commit suicide by jumping into the sea, and finally put all the blame on the idol. In order to chase the star, Lai Wenhui worked hard to practice basic dance skills, joined the idol team, and successfully became an idol. Dedicated backup dancers gain both fame and fortune.
Both of them are fans of Andy Lau, but the gap is clear at a glance.
What is the reason behind this ending?
Yang Lijuan’s parents have pampered her since she was a child and did not establish a correct value orientation for her.
When Yang Lijuan went astray on the road of chasing stars, her parents did not stop their losses in time, so they stopped their daughter from the cliff and indulged her blindly, which eventually led to a human tragedy.
After her father passed away, Yang Lijuan was still obsessed with grief, claiming that she would continue to fulfill her father's last wish and asked Andy Lau to see her again, otherwise her father's death would be meaningless.
It was not until 2014 that Yang Lijuan realized how ridiculous and irrational her star-chasing behavior was at that time.
She once used her own personal experience on an Oriental live broadcast room to warn others not to blindly chase stars. The so-called stars are nothing worth wasting their youth on.
In the seven years since her father passed away, Yang Lijuan realized that it was her stubbornness and willfulness that killed her father who loved her so much. The media also had a certain responsibility for causing such a tragedy.
Many media also extended an olive branch and promised to give Yang Lijuan a chance to meet Andy Lau. In the end, they even invited an imitation master to visit her. This behavior also caused great harm to Yang Lijuan's family.
Many years have passed since Yang Lijuan’s incident, and she used bloody lessons to tell everyone to chase stars rationally.
Although Lai Wenhui’s experience is more inspiring than that of Yang Lijuan, if she really refuses to get married for the sake of her idol, it would be equally irrational.
Idols are all packaged, and it is not advisable to be overly obsessed with and like them.