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My boy is 10 years old,
He is dark and thin but loves to laugh.
He loves bicycles, skateboards and rollerblades.
At home, all he does is turn on the TV,
but he doesn't read books.
The 10-year-old is no longer a fan of anime. War, court, romance, martial arts, science fiction, variety entertainment, natural science ...... including commercials, he actually read with great interest.
Hubby complained that there is a TV-loving mom who wants a TV-free baby, isn't it a bit unrealistic?
Teachers have repeatedly warned: "Protect your eyesight from the TV !", and every time we have a parent-teacher meeting, the principal will also tell you that you can't see the TV.
Many of my son's classmates watch TV only on weekends, and there is a time limit.
I envy parents who are strict with their kids, but I can't control my kid. He still gets out of bed and goes to turn on the TV, and when he comes home from school he sits in front of the TV again, which is very frustrating for me, but fortunately his eyesight is still fine.
But sometimes I think watching TV is not without its benefits.
A while ago, the brat watched the "Si Mei Ren" love a moment of the emperor cavity, a moment of the maidservant tune.
Palace drama to see more, the son of the "one person, ten thousand people" of the emperor envy, a period of time like a step by step walk, their mouths Changsheng Missy sung to "the emperor driving to ......! "
Look at the grandmother in the center of the road and shouted:" bold lackey, dare to block the emperor's driving?
Grandma gave him a blank look and handed over the scooped rice: "Eat!"
The boy who received the bowl gave a "hmmm" through his nose, took the bowl from Grandma, and said in a long voice: "Stand down!"
Grandma exasperated: "Too little home teaching, this child should be hit!"
One day I was lying on the sofa and felt thirsty, so I told him, "Son, bring some water to mom!"
The boy ran to the water cup in front of me.
"Mother, your water is here." Kneeling down on both knees, burying his head, lifting the water above his head like a pug.
I couldn't help but laugh, finished the water and handed it back to him, matching it with, "Stand down!"
The brat followed the maid's example, with a hand at the waist gently made a bow "only!" Tiptoe small broken steps back down, laughing so much that I almost choked on the water.
One day, found that my son is watching the central 9 "man and nature", I was surprised, so there is the following dialog.
I: "Son you still watch this ah?"
Son: "En."
Me: "Is it interesting?"
Son: "Interesting!"
I: "Then what is your afterthought?"
Son: " the world is beautiful, life is important, away from predators ."
Yesterday, my son was watching his favorite show, The News is True again.
I: "Son, you're watching TV again? It's time for the final exams, you should still review the three."
Son: "Mom, this is useful."
I: "Oh? What's it about?"
Son: "Toothpick crossbow!"
I: "What does that do?"
Son: "Mom you know? The special toothpick crossbow can reach a speed of 25 meters / second, but also can go through the eyeglass lenses, shot into the foam board depth of up to 5 centimeters."
I: "Wow! Mighty so big."
I kind of underestimated the effect that TV had on him, and he told me that Newsmax had shown him through various experiments what dangerous things he couldn't do and what toys he couldn't buy.
Black boy 7 years old before basically only watch anime, especially like "Ultraman", bought a bunch of Ultraman villain back, most like to learn Ultraman a variety of strokes, that time to take pictures are Ultraman pose.
"Crayon little new" "Doraemon" ...... these anime make him feel Japan is very good, and Even watched Pan Changjiang's "Hands Up" and thought the Japanese soldiers were very cute, and during that time he loved to say "Hi", "Yosi", "Flower Girl" in the manner of the ghosts. "I have a waist, the pot fried aunt dead" He immersed in the fun of the Japanese language.
Then he watched The Pretender and fell in love with Hu Ge's portrayal of the Chinese **** underground party, and we watched The Nanjing Massacre with him, and only then did he become filled with hatred for the little Japanese.
My son loves to watch Hunan TV, and after watching "I am a special forces", the kid is full of admiration for the special forces, and after watching it, he said noisily that he would like to be a special forces when he grows up.
I was happy to say: "Well, you eat a little more to line, too short and too thin people do not want, but also to learn the skills of the Special Forces, but the soldiers are the best of the best.
The kid said, "I want to be a Special Forces soldier anyway."
Grandma heard that he wanted to be a soldier anxious: "What is good about being a soldier? The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money, and then you can get a good deal of money, and then you can get a good deal of money, and then you can get a good deal of money, and then you can get a good deal of money, and then you can get a good deal of money. Finished and told the grandfather to eat compressed cookies, no water to eat snow lumps, legs in the bullet thing.
Listened to the grandmother's words, the kid is a little afraid, but still like "Wolf", "Kill the Wolf", "New Police Story" and so on a series of films full of justice.
Now, the kid has forgotten about being a special forces, but I think these police and war movies at least let the baby know what is good and what is evil!
I like to watch romantic dramas, the influence of my son also see, once watched "because I met you" every night to catch up with the drama, the baby is also back every day after dinner soon after the homework is completed, although the quality is not high, at least not to dilly-dally to very late.
One day and son chatting, somehow talked about his favorite little girl. (I think it's normal for a fourth grader to like a little girl.) We had the following conversation:
Me: "Do you run to see that little girl every day?"
Son: "I don't have to."
Me: "Why?"
Son: "I just stand in the doorway, and when she passes me on her way to the bathroom, I just jump out and scare her. I jumped out and scared her."
I couldn't help but "hahaha ......"
Son: "Mom do you know what this is called?"
Me: "What?"
My son said smugly, "It's called the little blessings of life."
I was confused: "You know what is a small fortune oh?"
The son was disgusted: "This do not understand, a small fortune is a life can be determined by the small happiness and small fortune."
My God, this is not a TV line? I have to admire the writing essay words of the wa, this time the use of apt.
Recently, I couldn't help but ask him again when he was watching Summer Solstice.
I: "Son you favorite which female."
Son: "Summer Solstice."
I: "Who does Solstice like?"
Son: "Fu Xiaosi three."
I asked again: "Xia Zhi why do you like Fu Xiaosi."
The son sighed: "Because Fu Xiaosi is tall (three), handsome (three), can draw (three), good grades (three)"
Note: The (three) in parentheses is a Sichuanese intonation.
Me: "Oh, I see, then you have to cheer up, you only good enough, later your goddess will look at you squarely."
As a result, the baby is not fooled: "You think too much, and tall and handsome and rich, study well will draw, which has this kind of person?"
The kid is actually more sensible than me, I'm a little bit inferior.
"Happy Camp", "Running Man", "Tonight's Paradise", etc. are the variety shows that the children like to watch.
There is a comedian named Zhang Haiyu in "Tonight's Paradise", and my son is particularly fond of him. His "underwater fishing", "send you away special car", "low-cost airline" a few sketches my son can even memorize the lines.
During that time the family went out. Dad drove, encountered a turn, the boy always learned Zhang Haiyu with his mouth to play the turn signal, "Duo! I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that. Peril!" Instantly his father and I were amused, I and the child's father also learned to "pero! Perle! Pero!"
Every time the kid sits in front of the TV, watching Deng Chao play treasure Xie Na to make a mistake, laughing back and forth, I can not bear to turn off the TV, I like to see him laugh like crazy. These entertainment programs bring him happiness at the same time also make our family full of laughter.
My boy loves to watch TV, I have no way to deprive him of that joy, my childhood mom disciplined me very strict, TV is rare to see, but the good thing is that at that time I have five little friends with me, and the black boy did not. I like a child who loves to laugh and dance, my childhood was bound too tightly, what is in the heart will not say with parents, the TV from a certain extent into the bridge of communication between me and him.
I once asked my son, "If you compare your mom to an animal, what do you think it is?"
Son: "A dog."
Me: "Why?"
Son: "Dogs are my favorite."
Ho! It turns out that I am a friend-like mom in my son's heart, and I love this analogy of my son and how he shares his little secrets and worries with me.
I also know that watching TV is harmful in many ways, and my friends say I'm too unprincipled. But I just can't do it, so I have to fill his weekend time, Saturday morning reading work afternoon OU, Sunday afternoon English, only Sunday morning sleep, deal with the school homework, the time to watch TV is much reduced.
My boy loves to watch TV this experience makes it difficult for me.