Why is affection not love? Two people because of love together, and then get along in the slowly each other as an integral part of their lives. This time there is no original passion, no original heartbeat like thunder, love has become affection, this time you say there is no love between each other. However, you can't feel the warmth of the other side of the relationship?
So, I always think that love has become affection is the sublimation of love, not the disappearance of love. Compared to love, I think affection is more reliable. Moreover, every love ultimately ends up in kinship ah. Look at the old couples in our life who have been married for many years, although they don't have a sensational love life, but from their every move you can feel their love for each other.
They take a walk together after dinner, cross the street together hand in hand, dance together, this time you can say they have no love? And, very often, in the face of disease, you are likely to give up love, but affection will not. When you treat each other as your relatives, you will be more responsible for each other.
Perhaps, when love slowly becomes affectionate, we will feel that we have no more of that thumping feeling for each other, and the days become particularly dull, like a pool of stagnant water. At this time, what we have to do is not to doubt whether we are still in love with each other, but should be more in life to prepare some surprises for each other.
For example, in the holiday season, carefully dress yourself, ask each other to go out shopping and watch movies, and prepare small gifts for each other. For example, praise each other more in life, say some sweet words. When you try to change, you will find that you still love each other, just this love is more introverted, you do not notice it.