What should a married woman do if she can't get out of loneliness for a long time? Should she find a lover to fill the void? Or should we just let nature take its course?

You said you do not want to add pressure to your husband, you know if you find a lover, it is not just to give him the pressure, you just give him a cuckold so that he can not breathe for life to come, then you will how to choose it? In fact, you have to learn is to communicate with your husband, do not always live in the shadow of the existence of self-esteem, you can try to talk to their own good friends (general female for good) or online to find a good friend of the network, you can talk to them. You can also do more of what you like to do, so that it will not be empty. In fact, married life, is very much in need of communication, I think you can be in this idle time to friends, netizens, books to learn more communication skills, will make their lives change, do not want to find a lover, do not just want to a moment of speed, do not lose their footing into a thousand ancient hatred!