In love or marriage, everyone will encounter a variety of emotional problems.
Some people choose to solve the problem with their partner***, some people choose to seek the advice of those around them, and some people choose to turn to TV programs.
After all, the authorities are confused, through the program's experts and many "over", objectively analyze the problem, put forward pertinent suggestions, is not a good solution.
Tianjin Satellite TV's Love Defense War is one such program. Since its inception in 2010, Defense of Love has helped countless people to solve the problem of marriage and emotion, and has allowed the audience in front of the TV to find a different perspective on the problem.
Defend Your Love is a program that puts the triviality of marriage on the stage and makes it a program that is on par with No Matter What, and it's a program where the staff can make a lot of money.
Host Zhao Chuan, for example, has been able to solve a lot of tricky problems with his attentiveness, patience, and ability to juggle multiple sides of an issue.
The show has fans of all ages, and everyone appreciates the clear-thinking Zhao Chuan.
But Zhao Chuan, who is an expert in emotional relationships, has actually been divorced twice and married three times.
Many people think that Zhao Chuan does not even understand his own life, but also to others to solve the problem, simply ridiculous.
There are also those who believe that it is because Zhao Chuan has "rich experience" that he can better solve the problem.
Today we will see how Zhao Chuan has grown into an "emotional expert".
Zhao Chuan was born in Chengdu in 1972. His mom was a dancer, and his dad was a soldier in the arts who was transferred to a song and dance troupe.
Zhao Chuan has an older sister who is ten years older than him. Originally, his parents had a daughter, and had no intention of having a second child.
After his mother's accidental pregnancy, he didn't intend to keep the child, but he was persuaded by his relatives to get a ticket to this world.
As a child, Zhao Chuan was very naughty and mischievous. As his older sister grew up well-behaved and cute, in contrast, his parents had a headache when they saw their youngest son.
While other families prioritize sons over daughters, theirs is the complete opposite. The older sister was pampered like a jewel in the palm of her hand, while Zhao Chuan was raised loose.
Because his parents didn't care much about him, Zhao Chuan didn't bother to study and focused on being a naughty boy.
The first time Zhao Chuan attracted his parents' attention was after the midterm exams. He was usually too playful to study, and his grades were unimpressive.
When the scores came out, Zhao Chuan got into a high school. Although it was an ordinary school, it was enough to surprise his parents.
More surprised in the back, this "ghost see worry" naughty boy, went to high school has become the teacher's favorite students.
The language teacher found that Zhao Chuan's writing is very good, usually write essays since it goes without saying, even the monthly examination paper on the essay, written in such a short period of time out of the contents of the very smooth, fascinating, and there is a certain depth.
Zhao Chuan's essay, no matter the writing or the content, does not look like a teenage high school student wrote.
The language teacher, fearing that the child's talent would be buried, sent Zhao Chuan's essay out for submission.
Sure enough, Zhao Chuan's handwritten essay was published in a magazine. In the meantime, Zhao Chuan became the pride of the school, and his classmates cast envious glances at him.
Zhao Chuan took that issue of the magazine home, flipped to the page of his essay, and put it on the dining room table. His parents couldn't believe their eyes when they saw their son's name printed in the author's column.
Zhao Chuan is not only a good writer, but also has a good image. Perhaps because his parents are both literary artists with high values, Zhao Chuan inherited all of them.
He's a tall man of 1.83 meters, and he's fair and clean. Because he has been a naughty boy since he was a child, there is no such word as shy, shyness in his dictionary, he is a natural social cow.
So the teacher recommended him to participate in the speech contest. The teachers looked at him with love and expectation: this child can write and speak, his future is unlimited.
Sure enough, Zhao Chuan became a popular figure at school. Teachers are proud to have taught him, and even his parents, who were once unimpressed with him, have begun to show off their son in their office, whether consciously or unconsciously.
Don't look at Zhao Chuan and published articles and won awards, but he did not float. Instead, he studied harder.
After the high school exam, he was admitted to the broadcasting program of Zhejiang Media College, and became alumni with celebrities such as Zhu Dan and Li Weijia.
Four years of college life in a flash, graduated from the community, because Zhao Chuan parents are not willing to let their children too far away, through the relationship to Zhao Chuan to find a TV station internship.
After all, he has three marriages to his name, and he is an expert in the field of emotions.
Zhao Chuan during his internship, met a female colleague. At first he didn't dare to pursue, he told his thoughts to the people around him and mobilized the power of the masses.
Didn't Zhou Dong's lyrics say that love comes too fast like a tornado?
Zhao Chuan not long in love with the two, just after the internship, flash married.
But the tornado was a roll of the dice, and so was the marriage.
Love is easy to get along with difficult, the two married each busy with their own careers, the time to get together is very little. Coupled with the fact that it was a flash marriage, the emotional foundation is not deep, so the two began to get together less often away from the two people began to quarrel frequently.
Quarrels, cold wars, followed by divorce.
From the beginning to the end of the "lightning speed", this thunderous marriage, Zhao Chuan commented that "the foundation itself is problematic."
Perhaps the two didn't realize that there's a big difference between the "head" of love and the "head" of marriage.
The first marriage came and went in a hurry, and did not delay Zhao Chuan much time.
After the divorce, Zhao chuan chose to go north to develop. He quit his job at the TV station, said goodbye to his parents, and started a life in the north.
In those years in Beijing, Zhao Chuan's job development was mediocre, and the flashpoints from his student days were now insufficiently energized to illuminate his future.
The capital is home to some of the most talented people in the world, and Zhao Chuan has never seen the light of day.
In the midst of this downturn, Zhao Chuan went to a painting exhibition on one of his days off. Maybe he wanted to take it easy, maybe he wanted to cultivate his emotions, he seriously appreciated every painting on the exhibition.
Until he saw a fairy-like girl in the exhibition hall, his eyes fixed.
And this girl is completely different, the skirt is light and fragrant sideburns, and also comes with a strong sense of literature.
Zhao Chuan, the president of the company, went directly to the conversation and learned that the girl is a painter. After the two left their contact information with each other, Zhao Chuan started to pursue the painter.
Zhao Chuan is a tall, clean and gentle-looking man, and with his extraordinary writing and presentation skills, he has captured the heart of the female painter.
The process is familiar: less than three months after the first meeting, the two were married.
Well, yes. Instead of being afraid of the well rope for ten years, Zhao Chuan very heroically got flash-married again.
This time, the marriage went well, and the artist not only gave Zhao Chuan a child, but also gave him the most important piece of advice in his life: to become a host.
Zhao Chuan listened to his wife's advice and started a new career at Inner Mongolia TV.
After becoming a host, he has hosted a number of programs on TV stations in Beijing, Hebei, and Shandong.
At this point in time, Zhao Chuan's career had gradually taken off and he was gaining momentum.
It was at this point that Zhao Chuan got divorced.
As for the reason for the divorce, after many years, Zhao Chuan mentioned in the program is still haunted: "Matured and grown, but I still can not forgive her."
The way he spoke in such a cryptic manner could only remind everyone of the "color of forgiveness". After all, Zhao Chuan was busy with his career and had no time for his family, so receiving a "forgiveness hat" was appropriate for the situation and Zhao Chuan's resentment when he mentioned it.
In any case, the second marriage ended.
Later, Zhao Chuan took over the program "Love Defense Battle" on Tianjin TV, and his career has blossomed.
Through the regulation of the program, Zhao Chuan showed emotional intelligence, intelligence, as well as generous, atmospheric attitude towards life, which made the audience very appreciated.
Zhao Chuan in "Love Defense War" is like Meng Fei in "Do Not Disturb", which is simply the soul of the program.
Many viewers watch the show to hear Zhao Chuan's insights and how he maneuvers between the two sides of the conflict.
With a fan base, Zhao Chuan is still in an emotional window.
On a business trip, he spotted a beautiful young stewardess on the plane. He quietly told his colleagues around him.
Colleagues are also a social cow, directly called the stewardess and said: "Do you know who he is?"
The stewardess actually said Zhao Chuan's name, it turns out that the stewardess's mother is Zhao Chuan's die-hard fans, rather than square dance can not miss every issue of the "Love Defense War".
With this relationship, it was easier for the coworkers to help, and the coworkers asked for the stewardess's phone number on the grounds that Zhao Chuan was going to invite the stewardess to dinner.
Is this beginning familiar? It's still the same recipe, still the same bridge - coworkers assist in chasing girls .
Just like the first marriage, Zhao Chuan took the initiative to contact the stewardess, utilizing his talent, eloquence, and celebrity.
In a matter of seconds, Zhao Chuan succeeded in getting the female guest of honor to marry him.
This time, instead of getting married, the two spent some time together. However, this may not be Zhao Chuan's intention, but he has to go to various places to record the program, and his flight attendant girlfriend has to fly around, so the two of them don't have time to get along even if they want to get married.
But Zhao Chuan is still the same, and the first two marriages compared to the flash, but the love is not long time, he still proposed marriage.
The result was the opposition of fans mother-in-law. The stewardess was in love with the head, but her mom was between individuals awake.
Ginger is still old and spicy, the old lady, even if it is an idol, but also to distinguish between secondary and tertiary. She went to inquire and learned that Zhao Chuan is 16 years older than his own daughter, and has been divorced twice.
In order to coax his girlfriend's parents, Mr. Zhao Chuan has made a big move: he wrote a 3,000-word essay, which is comparable to that of Li Lianglei. The words are full of love, and the promise to the parents-in-law, that the heart of a child jumps out of the paper.
The parents-in-law have seen such a tearful article ah, immediately moved to a mess. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes.
So Zhao Chuan got a marriage license for the third time, and married the young and beautiful flight attendant.
After the wedding, the two men remained unchanged at first, each busy with his own business. But Zhao Chuan, who has already had two rich experiences, thought of saving for a rainy day.
Zhao Chuan was not satisfied with his wife's lack of time to accompany him and take care of the family, the first marriage is so separated, and the second marriage is also a change of color.
Zhao Chuan thought more and more angry, simply and his wife showdown: "I and work, you choose one."
The flight attendant's wife thought about it, and she wasn't one to treat marriage as a child's play.
The airline has one less flight attendant and Zhao Chuan has one more housewife.
The marriage has come to an end, and Zhao Chuan has long since left the stage of the "Love Defense War".
He chose not to defend other people's love, but to stand on his own stage to defend his marriage and family.
Nowadays, Zhao Chuan often plays the role of a "knowing brother" on social media platforms, helping netizens to answer their questions about marriage and love.
And the rich experience of Zhao Chuan, in the end, is suitable for such work, there have been many opinions.
But the dark accusations against his ex-wives on the show don't seem like the right thing to do.
However, in terms of Zhao Chuan's experience, when he was young, as soon as he fell in love, he went to the head to get married, and that's what led to those roots, which are unstable and unforgivable.
Now perhaps he has matured, perhaps this wife is the most in line with his imagination, this marriage finally let him feel the happiness of the family.
I hope that this time, Zhao Chuan's love does not have to be defended, but a long-lasting war!