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When a woman first gets married, she is a treasure in the palm of her husband's hand. But the days are long, the man will find the heart of the so-called love, in the marriage is nothing more than a trifle.
After marriage, the two are always together, the freshness between men and women is soon gone. Originally, the shortcomings on the other side, are advantages. And now look, not only the shortcomings or shortcomings, even the advantages have become shortcomings.
Men love a person rely on the feeling, but if the feeling of this thing is gone, then he is bound to be bored with his wife.
In the face of the husband's boredom, some women are more spontaneous, since the man does not love, then simply divorce it. And some women will weigh the pros and cons before making a decision.
Some people say that women are bored by their husbands, continue to live in a marriage in name only, day after day is suffering. Instead of commiserating, it would be better to get a quick divorce for a new life of their own. This point of view has some truth. However, for women over forty, divorce is not always the best option.
What if a woman is bored with her husband? After the woman has passed forty, remember this point to be able to settle down in the later years.
People live in the world, want to live freely, absolutely no intention, especially women over forty years old. After the divorce, remarriage is not necessarily better than the incumbent, and the meager salary will certainly make the quality of life greatly reduced.
Therefore, the woman should be among them to weigh the pros and cons, tend to avoid harm, only to remember this later years can be stable.
02
Auntie Zhang is an unfortunate woman, fifty-five years old this year found her husband track. At that time, she was just a housewife. In the face of her husband's boredom and betrayal, she cried and made a fuss, but also deliberately to scold the woman outside. However, the husband's heart not only did not converge, even to her is also showing boredom.
Auntie Zhang is always quarrelling with her husband, and all this is seen by their thirty-year-old unmarried daughter. The daughter asked her mom if she still had love for her dad. Auntie Zhang answered "love" every time! In fact, do daughter's heart to understand, dad to mom has long been no love, and mom's love for dad is just habitual dependence.
The daughter does not want her mom to live in pain for the rest of her life, and has always advised her to get a divorce. Although Auntie Zhang does not have a job, but the daughter said she will support her mom.
Auntie Zhang saw that her husband was slow to return to the family, a bet and her husband divorced. The property distribution is like this, the house goes to Auntie Zhang, the deposit and the car go to the ex-husband.
After marriage, Auntie Zhang and her daughter depend on each other. The daughter's monthly salary of three thousand, Auntie Zhang does not want to let her daughter suffer, they found a cleaning job. Every day is to clean, but only to do two days, hands are touching the blisters. Auntie Zhang looked at the blisters on the hands, sad actually in tears. The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley, and I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley, and I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley.
In the blink of an eye, Auntie Zhang has been divorced for two years, and her daughter's marriage has never been finalized. The first time I saw this, I was able to see the woman's face, and I was able to see her face, and I was able to see her face, and I was able to see her face, and I was able to see her face. It is really difficult for the child, nowadays there are not many young people who are willing to live with the old man, not to mention let them and the future mother-in-law **** with the life.
Auntie Zhang never thought that she would be a burden to her daughter after the divorce. If she had known that she and her daughter would not be able to afford food and clothing after the divorce, she would not have chosen to get a divorce.
But now, you can only watch your ex-husband and that woman live happily ever after, and the pain in your heart can only be carried by yourself.
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No economic income of women, even if the husband is bored, do not rush to divorce. Because after divorce, your quality of life is definitely not as good as before. Some women who seem to be weak, is to see this, will be on the name of the marriage. Although they will be bitter in their hearts, but it is indeed better than selling their own labor to fight for food.
Ms. Wu is a rural woman, married to her husband and went to the city. Hubby started with just a small restaurant, five years later turned into a restaurant.
Sister Wu does not know how to run a business, and she herself is willing to bring up children at home. The husband, no matter how much monthly income, every month to Wu Da Sister five thousand living expenses. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said. The first time in her life and her husband argued, her husband said: "You are at home at ease with the children, do not make trouble, every month to give you money, but if you dare to control me, I will cut off your wealth, to see what you eat?"
Wu big sister is very clear about their own ability, if the divorce this five thousand per month spending, even if she is willing to suffer is also very difficult to earn out. Moreover, if divorced, she has not yet walked out in front of her feet, it is expected that the woman outside will move in. She is not going to make room for someone else.
"Since my husband is tired of me, I'm going to rely on him for the rest of my life, and disgust him to death!" This is what Big Sister Wu thought and did.
Although her heart is also bitter, but she is clear that women are not economically independent, in the marriage, you have to "endure". Only "bear" down, determined not to divorce, dependent on the man's economy, in order to be able to settle down in his old age.
Now fourteen years have passed, the son went to college, and she also learned to dance. Sister Wu said: "The woman's marriage is unfortunate, can only put down their own hatred, learn to be generous. Men as long as there is no lack of my money to spend, the old lady still live a happy life!"
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Sister Wu see through, see through mentality, it is worthwhile for women to learn.
It's hard enough for a woman to find a job after being a housewife for so many years, even after a divorce. Instead of working for someone else, it's better to take a step back and "hold back" the anger in your heart, at least the quality of life can still be guaranteed.
We live in such a transient world, want to live in peace in old age, we must learn to bow to fate. Throughout history, whether it is Han Xin's cross under the humiliation, or the Yue Wang Goujian's lying down to taste the gall, are the survival of the weak. A person wants to live, and also live in peace, the weak know how to endure humiliation, the future may be able to live a stable life. The same applies to marriage.
Remind women that when they find that their husbands are tired of them, they must be calm, and never let anger overwhelm their minds, and then make decisions that are not good for them.
Today's topic: after being bored by her husband, what can a woman do to make a man come back to her?
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