One, the elderly sick, you must never find ways to not let the condition quickly become worse, change is certain, let it slow down a bit, so that the process of aging as long as possible, every extension of a little bit of happiness doubled, increase the point of happiness, confidence is also strengthened, and feel more hopeful, is not it more happy!
Two, do not give yourself a few assumptions: old, sick, dying, so there is still hope? This kind of extremely negative assumptions first destroy your hope, it will not be long before your assumptions really early into reality, the assumptions of their own out!
Three, do not blindly pile up. Older people have a strong herd mentality and like to chat in groups of older people. According to my observation, there is an opinion, the heart is full of hope, a bright old man, generally have a positive mindset, on the dark side of society have the right view, will not be a blindfold, a black eye. Most of the elderly people are spreading their grievances in life to seek sympathy and get some comfort. Some even vent their dissatisfaction with reality, saying that age is the least valuable thing these days, that grandpa has become his grandson's grandson, and that everything must be fair. The only thing that the elderly people who lacked a strong opinion got out of such a crowd is that they became more and more negative every day.
Four, the elderly should have self-respect and dignity. Dignity, is to get a minimum of respect, if one day the elderly have to go out of their way to children's favorite standard to be a person, all the time, everywhere to please the children like, can not become children do not like the person, then the elderly can become an old servant or old slave! If you don't believe me, check your cell phone and computer, the article that teaches the elderly how to avoid becoming an old man who is not liked by his children is still fresh in your mind, and this is really a reversal of heavenly relationships! I don't know what the author of this article was thinking when he added the relationship of popularity to the relationship between father and son. In the relations between nations, those who are not welcome are expelled. Should an old man be expelled if he is not welcomed by his children? Or should they be disassociated? Wouldn't a small-minded old man read this article and shudder? The elderly may not be civilized enough for the young people, but they are the old people of your second great-grandfather's generation! Young people should be taught to respect the elderly! The standard of the elderly cannot be set by the children! An old man is an old man. The standards of the elderly cannot be reversed! Which old man according to that article said to do, even if not become old slaves and old servants, life is not good!
Fifth, the elderly to serve the old and not to serve the old. Serving the old refers to the body is old, frail and sick, according to the doctor's advice to take medication on time, only to do what they can, do not try to be strong, listen to more and less to say do not argue. Do not look at the eye less or do not look at, to maintain peace of mind. Do not serve the old refers to the spiritual aspect, the old heart is not old, physical strength is not enough spirit is good, the old is strong. To accept new things, understand some new ideas, wear decent. As long as the mood is good, Xiyang is infinitely good!
Six, learn some new technology, play with the tablet computer. People are old, gastrointestinal function is weakened, more good food digestion, so the material enjoyment of the desire is getting lower and lower, eating are a little bit of a patchwork. Children do not have to work on the elderly to eat, but to help the elderly to learn something, so that the elderly spiritual life is enriched, teach the elderly to learn to use the tablet computer is to help the elderly to enjoy the pleasures of old age good trick. Teaching the elderly how to use tablet computers is a good way to help them enjoy their old age. The elderly should not think that they can't do anything when they are old and there is no need for them to learn. Learning to use a tablet computer is very easy, I was in June 2016 to Huawei store to buy Huawei m2, 8-inch youth trigger computer. At that time already 78 years old, bought back with the ability to play a normal cell phone, little by little, one by one try to come, a number of functions learned. Later changed a Huawei m3, ten-inch tablet. With its eyes open, know more, the mind is getting better and better. 2o17 years old 79 years old wrote how to cross the 79-80 this hurdle an article published in the headlines, a year more than 420,000 people read, like the nearly 40O people. So far there are nearly 500,000 people in the online communication with me, which is a rare great joy for the elderly in their old age!