What are all the pros and cons of letting grandparents bring up the kids, and today we're going to talk about them. The disadvantages of letting grandparents bring up children: grandparents actually dote on their grandchildren because they are the first ones to grow old without their own jobs. For parents, grandparents taking care of their children is a very good option for them so that they will have an easier time at work because grandparents don't have jobs and are relatively relaxed at home and they spend more time with their children. But this can also lead to grandparents spoiling their children very much. In the movie and TV series "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad", we can actually see very clearly what are the disadvantages of grandparents bringing up children?
In this film and television drama, grandparents overly spoil the child so that he suffers from princess disease. That is to say, arrogance, thinking that what others do is wrong and everyone has to be centered on him, which is the disadvantage of grandparents bringing up children. I believe that this is not just a phenomenon in this movie and drama, but a phenomenon that exists in every family. Because if the grandparents are allowed to bring up the children, they will spend more time with them and they will be more dependent on them. Because in their mind it must be whoever spends more time with them and whoever is good to me, they will identify as good.
If the grandparents are allowed to treat the child as a baby, there is another problem that they may prepare a lot of nutrition for the child and make the child eat well at every meal, which may lead to the problem of over-nutrition, because nowadays the education is actually for the child to develop healthily, it is not that eating more is good, but eating well and having nutrients. Because for children, if they don't exercise every day, they don't need much nutrition, it must be nutritionally balanced, but in the concept of grandparents, there may not be such an idea.
Advantages of letting grandparents bring up children: Because grandparents often go out to socialize with their children, for example, grandpa often takes his children to play chess, grandma takes her children to square dance, the children are exposed to a lot of people, naturally, they are not afraid of strangers, and their social skills will be enhanced. Grandparents are more experienced with children and tend to be more cautious than parents, and are very careful with their children's stumbles.