By Snow Shadow
The law of nature is very cruel, flowers, old age, sickness and death, these are things that people must experience, although very sad, but there is nothing to be done.
Especially in the later years of life, from the former energetic young people, into the old man with a staggering gait, the style is no longer a big difference, many elderly people can not adapt to a moment. As San Mao said, "I haven't had time to be seriously young, and when I understand, I can only choose to be seriously old." Since you can't change the fact that you're getting old, you might as well accept it and make good arrangements for the rest of your life.
Our village has a 83-year-old Mr. Zhou, although his back is bent, every day on crutches, but his children are very good, Mr. Zhou's face is always smiling, as if every day so happy. Every old man wants his old age to be happy and joyful, rather than spending it in tears every day. For this reason I interviewed this octogenarian, his old age so happy, in the end how to do it?
Mr. Zhou said meaningfully, "The later years of life in fact long predetermined, depending on how the old man when he was young how to operate, but also to see if he has a clear mind."
It turns out that these four very "awake" people, generally happy in their old age, without exception.
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They said that in their time, many of them still had traditional thinking, and their children's marriages were the result of their parents' orders and the words of matchmakers, and most of the traditional parents felt that they were the masters of their own families, and that they should have the final say on everything, and that they should not even think about their children's opinions. But very often, the children for their parents to arrange the marriage is not satisfied, perhaps the children have a sweetheart, but by the parents to beat the lovebirds. Finally, in the way of respect for their parents, not to be held on the "unfilial" charge, the children are still under pressure to agree to the marriage they do not like.
But after a few years, the old man will find that often those old people who make their own arrangements for the marriage, the last are not happy, not three days a small noise, is five days a big noise, some really can not live on the divorce. Imagine, the children because of the parents arranged the marriage over the very hard, they will not be resentful of their parents destroyed their own happiness it?
Some older people are very conscious of their children's feelings and let them deal with their own, marriage is to live a lifetime of young people themselves, the elderly will play a role in the advice, the real decision-making power or to give the children, can not be because of the old man's own preferences, the decision of the children's happiness in the future, back to a thousand words, the children's choice of their own partner, after the unhappiness of their own not to resent themselves. Of course, parents still have the responsibility to let their children identify a good partner, the said admonition and care can not be less.
Most of the elderly for the late life, is to rely on the children, must have a child after someone to their old age, there is a son of the best, there is no son, if the daughter can also be.
Many children are young without pressure, patting their chests to ensure that the future will certainly give the elderly old age. The elderly because of the relationship between relatives, they believe that the children's "sweet words", think of the children to rely on after retirement to support. But people only know when they are old, usually good health, children filial piety, but the body is not good when the children's real face will be exposed.
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As the saying goes, eggs can't be loaded in a basket, some old people take their children's pension as the only option, if their children have financial difficulties, the old man will be caught off guard, and the wise old man will take their children's pension as an alternative, no matter what time they have a reserve in their hands, there is a house to live in, relying on their own to be the safest, so the cognition of this is particularly sober, naturally, it is more likely to obtain happiness.
After retirement, the elderly have a lot of time, slowly around the relatives and friends are moving up, every day there are new friends about the party, a variety of banquets are also up, some of the elderly regardless of familiar unfamiliar to go, anyway, at home idle is also idle, go out to make more friends.
But we also know that, in addition to food on the table, can not avoid drinking, sometimes not their own want to drink, but someone toast. After the old man, the body is not as strong as before, if more alcohol is not conducive to physical health, such a social banquet to participate in more than one, I am afraid that the body will not be able to eat, the old man's happy life in his old age, all rest on the health of the body on top of the body, if the body is not healthy, how can we talk about the happiness of it?
The sober old man is not to not know people, forcing himself to do things he does not like, to put it bluntly, some people are not familiar with, why give him face, ruined his body? It is not worth it.
Some of the old man "old heart", life has been a big half, in the face of the temptation of the world of flowers, or no self-discipline, thinking that there is no "second spring" to find their own, can be a lot of people with this idea. The last end is a bitter pill to swallow. Even if they are cheated, they do not dare to say, after all, this thing is very embarrassing, obviously very simple scam, the old man himself into the inside, to say that it is also being laughed at.
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The story of his classmate Lao Zhang, Lao Zhang has always been a partner, a square dance, Lao Zhang befriended a big girl, looks very beautiful, than Lao Zhang is still small eight years old it, the big girl often with the old Zhang asked to dance things, one after the other, Lao Zhang did not resist the temptation. Since the two people began the feelings, the character of the big sister also changed, usually let the old Zhang to buy clothes for her just, but also often find the old Zhang borrow money, the old Zhang's pension is basically all to the big sister to spend.
Lao Zhang realized that this woman is for his money, not at all because of his charisma, but unfortunately regret late, the last Lao Zhang to find the week to borrow money, said to give the big sister 100,000 dollars, the woman is willing to leave, or else tell his wife, Lao Zhang really have a bitter ah!
Zhou moncler outlet store said, "People are old, still think they are youthful vigor it, now this age, looking at the only money, my classmate Lao Zhang things, gave me a great educational significance."
The sober old man will be very clear, this world can always be accompanied by people, only their own old partner, it is unlikely that in the late twilight of the year, but also meet a person with their own life.
In the young when they are a few pounds, but instead of the old themselves into the meat and potatoes, the old man should think about the reasons. After the old man, if you are pursued, do not be happy, people that is to see your pension, and charm has nothing to do with the old man this point to be very clear.