Who says that life has worn out the love between two people who love each other, leaving only affection? Older people's love, after years of washing , faded fancy, seems less sweet flavor. It's just a simple look that you don't understand.
I always remember when my grandparents were alive and my grandmother was not well, my grandfather took my grandmother's hand and said gently, "Don't worry, I will walk behind you". I'm not sure how many times I've thought about it, but I've always felt that my grandfather was selfish, letting my grandmother die first and myself second. I don't understand why my father always said how much he loved my grandmother.
With the age of growing up, more or less understand the weight of the grandfather's words at the beginning.
Recently, my mom and dad's story has made me understand the love of the elderly. On May 1st vacation, my mom finally agreed to have surgery on her lower right eye and face turned inside out. This should have been a long time ago, the operation, Mom hard to delay until the May 1 holiday, the fundamental reason is not assured that Dad is at home alone. At first, the ophthalmologist at the People's Hospital recommended hospitalization for surgery and discharge the next day with a one-night stay. Mom chose the surgery is the eye hospital day surgery, less hospitalization for one night.
On the day of the surgery, my father went out early in the morning and we didn't take it seriously. It wasn't until I came home with my mom in the evening that I saw a fresh water duck in the kitchen with its feathers removed, its skin yellow and yellow, and it was obvious that it was an earth duck. Afterwards, I realized that my father had gone to the nearby rural hills to find free-range ducks. Usually dad never ask about the housework, although already seventy-nine years old, at most can only help mom wash the dishes, or cook a light noodles. This time really opened my eyes.
Who says the elderly don't know love? Mom's love dad understands, dad's love mom understands, just like grandpa's love grandma understands in the beginning, that's enough!
German philosopher Kant said: "In old age, as in youth, it is happy! Youth, like a lark, has his morning song; old age, like a nightingale, should have his night song." Older people living in partnership, choose to live in AA system, this is a social fashion, but also a family needs. Those who can think it through, those who can handle it well, it's a blessing, it's a pleasure. If it is not handled well, if catty, then it will become, the trouble in life, or life hurt. How to look at this, how to choose one's hitchhiker, this is one's wisdom, and one's luck. If one chooses the right person, one can live a happy and joyful life; if one chooses the wrong person, not only can one not live a good life, but one will be hurt.
The most beautiful but the sunset red, the old man's old age, about the family and all aspects of society, if handled well, is a situation of all happy. If not handled well, it will be involved in all aspects, it will film and television ring to the lives of many people. To deal with this relationship, we need to have a sincere, sincere, but also need us, seriously study, constantly summarize, through the grinding, through the adjustment, and ultimately find the code of happiness.