Parents to send you the picture scene
Do you still remember when you successfully set foot on a foreign land
and parents to report the peace of feelings
Study abroad dream Sail away
New world is waiting for you to set off to explore
The teacher of the small language profoundly remembers the first time I left the country parents I remember the first time I went abroad and my parents sent me off, leaving my child to go to school in a foreign country with a backpack. It may have been my mom's biggest fear, but it was initially her decision to do exactly that.
At the airport, just after security, WeChat popped up with a message: "Your dad just pretended to be happy, and he wiped his eyes when you just went in." In fact, I know that my mom was also crying and messaging me.
I often think that the so-called distance is the distance between half a world and the time difference. Later I realized that the deepest meaning of distance is my mom's words: you are going to study abroad away.
More than 10 hours of flight, more than 10,000 meters above sea level, carrying the parents of the seconds as years. The plane just landed, open the phone, but found more than 20 messages on WeChat, six video chats, seven phone calls, and then I looked at the time, half an hour late.
The call back to the past was like a relief. "I'm so relieved that you're safe mom and dad will be able to sleep tonight. "My mom's slightly sobbing voice gave me the urge to buy a return ticket ........
If there is such a thing as love, it is letting go of a child to meet new challenges. Then the statement holds true in reverse, because the child's departure is a challenge for the parent as well.
One time at the end of a conversation, as usual, my mom asked me, "Is there anything else mommy can do for you?" This time, I thought about it and said, "Living expenses are running out. And then there's. Can you find something to do with yourself and stop worrying about me so much!"
That was a bit heavy-handed, like criticism from my mom when I was a kid. It was the truth, and it was love talk.
The next day, my mom didn't call me.
On the third day, neither did she. But my mom sent a message "You're quite right."
That night we talked as if we had known each other for many years, and we had known each other for a long time before we recognized each other kind of thing. After that, my mom started to travel, started to play all kinds of apps, and even dragged my dad to square dance. I felt a freedom that I had never felt before, and yet I had an incredibly close companion. My mom also felt a sense of fulfillment that she had never felt before. In her middle age, she gained an old friend for no reason at all. In addition to this, she found more direction to pursue and became an excellent spiritual harbor in my heart.
Later I asked my mom how she managed not to worry about me, and she told me: "I worry, but worrying is useless, in addition to chatting with you and giving you money, nothing can help, watching you become independent, I also want to be independent."
Today, young people's good receptivity to new ideas and technology is outperforming their predecessors in many ways, and older people are instead learning from their juniors. What children want most is to see their parents grow up with them, and most of all, they want them to accompany us in younger and more modern ways.
Small Words
The very premise that parents can make their children independent is their own independence. More than that, they need to learn how to say goodbye. They also need to learn how to restrain their worries, learn how to live the rest of their lives decently, and the conceptual gap that needs to be bridged with all the new things that ensue.
The fact that their children are able to navigate their way through the difficulties of living abroad and trying to adapt to a new life is an inspiration to their parents. This is an incentive, a role model, and an object of learning for the parents.
The days of studying abroad are a road to chasing dreams and struggles
Though brief in life, they are of great benefit
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