During the wedding ceremony, the officiant asked him: ? Will you love her for the rest of your life? No matter how old or sick she is.? He said: ? Will, definitely will.? Women always have soft ears, believe that the man's promise is true, but there are always some men, a turn around and forget the original vow, change of heart, divorce. Therefore, to be able to meet a man who is good to himself for life, so difficult.
Men love their wives several behaviors, warm heart, see if he did. As a woman, we must learn to observe the words, cherish his good for you, reject his bad for you.
1. You can bully him, but he will never fight back.
The man who cares for you, often fights not to return the favor, scolds not to return the favor, not that he can't beat you, but likes to be bullied by you. He knows that you are not happy when you give him a fist, after a while it will be dissipated, will not continue to be angry. His patience is very strong and he won't fight with you.
As a man, outside is a man of the world, at home is a gentle husband. Some men, when they return home, take out all the unpleasantness of their work and are very unfriendly to their family members. If the woman also has a temper, then the two of them will fight each other, and the more they fight, the worse it gets. If you have a real fight, the woman will always suffer.
2. You did not finish the food, he will then finish.
The couple is good, they will not share each other, both can **** enjoy a food. Sometimes, in order to economize, just order a boxed lunch and eat with a bowl, it's okay, no one will mind who.
Men love you, you will not dislike the food you have eaten, but their own then finished. A cake, you did not finish, he felt pity; a dish of small dishes, there are still some left, he did not want to pour, not that he did not have money, not that he was very hungry, but he knows how to economize, know the heartache.
3. Never reveal your shortcomings in front of others.
These are the first time I've ever seen a person with a high level of health. The family is not allowed to spread out. When a man brags about household affairs and complains in front of outsiders, he is actually disappointed in his family or he is not willing to stay in the house. Especially when two people go to a party together, the man, in front of a lot of faces, says that you are not right here and there. Especially when you go back to your mother's home, the man complains in front of your mother's family, making you feel humiliated.
The man who loves you, will accept your shortcomings, is unable to accept, but also in the home and you communicate, will not take your shortcomings as a talking point. In front of outsiders, he always says good things about you, that is, you made a mistake, he is also in the heart, not nonsense, do not complain.
4. When introducing you to others, he will hold your hand instead of pointing his finger at you.
When two people go out, he met acquaintances, will be very enthusiastic to introduce you, but also will hold your hand, reflecting the couple's good relationship. Or, he leaned in with you and introduced you with body language. Other people are not stupid, and when they see you walking close to him, they naturally understand.
When he doesn't care much about you, or finds you annoying, he points his finger at you and tells people, ? Look, this is my wife.? Or he won't even point his finger at you, but point at you with his chin and look at you with his eyes. His actions like this are actually perfunctory and a sign that he doesn't love you.
5. He will coax you to be happy when you're being disruptive instead of adding fuel to the fire.
Women, sometimes it is not clear, if it is clear, it is not a woman. Can't say because careful, a lot of things can't figure out. Smart men, will understand the woman's nonsense, rather than and the woman catty. Men should have a man's look, can not be small-minded, know how to tolerate.
The man who cares about you, in the time of your nonsense, he coaxed you to be happy and let you. He let you, you will be happy, think you win. In fact, husband and wife get along, win or lose, it does not matter, play and fight is also a family. If the man in your messing around, will deliberately pour oil on the fire, take the opportunity to alienate you, most likely not good enough for you, and even the change of heart.
6. That is, you lie, he will believe you.
Husband and wife get along, trust is the foundation. Mutual distrust of husband and wife, feelings will not be stable, if mutual suspicion, suspicion, will live very tired. Men are always jealous of you, you will say some borderline words, but also imposed on your head, so that you can not defend.
Men love you, will believe you unconditionally, even if you lied, he also believe you. That is, he knows that you lied, but also feel that you are good intentioned lies, not in the hurt him, and not hurt the family. If you really have bitter feelings, in fact, you can tell him, he will sincerely help you, whether it is the mother's family things, or work things, can be frank communication.
7. He is off duty, but also will do housework, not clothes and food.
Some people say: ? A man who loves you or not, will see if he will do housework. Doing housework, perhaps many men are not good at it, but the man who loves you, will learn to do housework. Let's say that a man, when his wife is sick, learns to make soup; when his wife works overtime, he also tries to make a few tasty dishes and waits for her to come home.
The man who doesn't love you is a big old man who doesn't know how to do housework and often resents the fact that the home floor isn't clean, the clothes are wrinkled, and the meals aren't good enough. In fact, many families, women also have a job, and is not a housewife, work all day, but also very tired, really unnecessary to go home, but also as a nanny.
8. He often praises you, often say ? I love you?
It is said that mediocrity is true. But overly plain marriage, slowly get tired of, both people feel that they are not as good as they want to live. The New Year's Day, also seems to be the same as usual, no one remembers; anniversary, do not want to mention, pretend to forget; Valentine's Day is also treated as a day to make money, do not care about, such a day, as a woman, will be very disappointing.
The man who loves you will not be stingy with his praise, even if he is an old married couple, or often praise you. You bought new clothes, he praised you for your beauty; you go to participate in the square dance, he watched from the sidelines, or joined the dance team, he praised you for jumping well; some festivals, he will send gifts to you. He often says ? I love you?
It is a good thing that you can't hear the words "I love you", even if you're tired of hearing them.