When love comes, how do you face it? Today's young people fall in love, how to prepare to meet the love, simply put, you have to prepare the material foundation in advance, to create a perfect self, and then come to meet each other.
So, how do we fall in love correctly? Love comes how to date, how to get along, in order to have a greater chance of success, so as to go to the final wedding hall. This is all a practical problem that we must face the young people to be married. So, what are the tips and tricks to fall in love? Next we may wish to study and explore.
One, men and women dating
1, to learn how to date
Dating is not just a simple ask her out, walk around or watch a movie on the end of the matter to go home, will date, pay attention to the time, place, number of times, and participate in the personnel and so on. For example, on weekend evenings we can ask each other out to dinner first, after dinner you can go to the movies together, after watching the movie in accordance with the mood of the two and the degree of development of feelings and then carry out an activity, whether it is singing or dancing. A date as much as possible to arrange a number of links, coherent with human needs, not people have not eaten you rushed to take her to the movies, not after dinner on the wooden sent home, not the depth of your indifference. Let the other side is very natural to follow the rhythm of your arrangement to go on, so that the topic between you will be more, feelings warming faster. Should have other friends when you call other friends to bake, if there should not be a third person when the appearance of a third person, must not have a light bulb in your date, it will only make fun of themselves, affect the quality of the date.
Many guys chat with girls, the girls' response is not good, this is because your chat does not mobilize the girl's emotions, resulting in girls feel chatting with you is not interesting, slowly will not return to you, and even pull black you. I used to be often in this situation, not to mention how depressed, and then searched on WeChat a small program called bubble saint old fish secret, whenever and girls chat, I will open this WeChat small program, put the girl said the words in a search, it will tell me how to reply to the girls.
2, dating to have a purpose
Dating is for what, for the blessing of Valentine's Day, for you to express your love for her, for her birthday, in order to let her know how much you think about her lately, and so on, dating to have a purpose.
Through this date to reach a what results, such as through this date she deeper understanding of your heart or love you more, or through this date you pull the hand .......
In fact, the purpose of dating men and women, itself is to play a deeper understanding of the role of improving feelings. Dating although there is a certain purpose, but its purpose must not be too strong, moreover, must not be too hasty.
3, take the initiative to check out, send each other home
Should a lot of boys take the initiative to check out, if you want to fall in love, you must have the ability to check out, don't let the girls feel that you have no ability to bear the cost of dating, and even think you stingy, of course, a good woman knows how to be moderate, know how to come to the money is not easy.
Send the girl home, no matter how late you date to send her home, one is for safety, the second is more reflective of your responsibility to her and care.
4, pay attention to more caring and considerate of each other
Girls are in need of your care. Boys and girls get along, should be more caring and considerate of each other, so that the other side feel you have her in mind, and feel that you are a person who knows the cold and hot, she will also be very touched.
5, pay attention to the language of expression
Young people talk, easy to impulsive, and even unrestrained, or without thinking off the cuff. Which words should be said, which words should not be said, to think about it in the mind, through the brain, and then, think about it again.
In fact, speaking is to pay attention to the skills, it is not only a technique, but also a kind of art. Therefore, men and women in love should not only have good eloquence, but also pay attention to say the right words, which is the most critical.
In getting along with your girlfriend, put your mouth a little sweeter, praise each other from time to time, the other side of the heart will have a little joy. Especially on the female confession, in addition to creating a little romantic atmosphere, speak to say to each other's hearts, into each other's hearts, such a surprise and touched, more or less will move each other. At the same time, "words are happy axe", some things to say thoroughly explained clearly, than nested in the heart strong, so as not to produce misunderstandings and unnecessary conflicts.