Yes But it is often girls who have the illusion of love.
Because the needs of girls usually need companionship and care, in the process of long-term frequent chatting, girls will feel that they have the other half to accompany them all the time, and they will rely on each other for a long time, resulting in the feeling of love.
Girls are curved thinking and care more about their feelings. When she frequently chats with the opposite sex, her emotional value is satisfied and she will love them more and more.
But men's needs are understood and supported. They are linear thinking, and thinking about problems is often thinking about what will happen.
So in the process of chatting, men are more like hunting, and their goal is to determine the relationship or get girls. So for them, long-term frequent chatting is more like a kind of pay, as a cost to accommodate the needs of girls.
Therefore, whether it is frequent chatting or long-term ambiguity, it is the reason why girls are often injured.
Boys have always been participants in a game, while girls are more and more involved and eventually fall into it.
For a relationship, if you want a stable relationship, you need to do two things:
First, arouse boys' demand for long-term relationships.
A boy's dependence on a long-term relationship depends on the satisfaction of his bottom needs, which is "sense of value"
Every man has a heroic plot. They want to win the respect and recognition of others and care more about their vanity. If a girl can always affirm and praise each other in her feelings, then she will have good emotional feedback in the process of chatting, so she will not regard chatting as a cost, but enjoy it and is more willing to communicate with you emotionally.
Second, increase the cost of men.
Men are linear thinkers. When he invests too much in a relationship, he will consider the cost of ending it.
So, if you can guide the other half to continue to pay for you, economic or emotional costs, or time costs, labor costs and so on. You can make him more involved in your feelings.
On the other hand, if you do everything emotionally, or can't arouse his career, he will become more and more selfish, refuse to invest in his family and leave you more easily.
Only with the blessing of the position, sincerity is a necessary skill. The underlying logic of the emotional position is to use altruism for personal gain, which requires mastering the thinking of the opposite sex and using their thinking psychology to guide, so as to maintain the stability of the relationship and let the feelings develop in a direction that is beneficial to them, instead of being narcissistic and getting deeper and deeper, and the other party has never been tempted.
Many love fantasies come from frequent contact.
Because of frequent contact, whether chatting or meeting frequently, there will always be feelings between two people of the same age. Both men and women will think, "Do you like me so often?" "Good chat, empathy" and so on.
Actually, it's like a long-term relationship, it's a long-term relationship. But regression analysis shows that normal friends of the opposite sex will never talk so frequently, after all, there is a degree of communication.
After reflecting on this unusual, there is often a kind of "anticipation of love".
Thus, if one party takes a step, it will inevitably achieve love. However, if two people pretend not to know, they may drift repeatedly between the illusion of love and the relationship of friends.