With the strong support of her daughter, the old man and his wife divorced, and her daughter took her mother home to live together, indifferent to her father. At first, the old man didn't feel any problem, and there was no one around. Whether smoking, drinking, playing cards or going to a lover's square dance, he is so casual. This is the life he really wants. But after only two years, the old man suddenly found that no one cooked and washed clothes, his family and friends ignored him, and his daughter never contacted him. The old man drinking and playing cards teased him that he was the only one behind him, and he thought of his daughter. However, when her daughter grew up, she saw her father's many personal behaviors towards her mother, and she had long lost her feelings for her father and was indifferent to her, which led the elderly to make a fuss about domestic service.
Some people who join in the fun will say anything without finding out the truth and telling their families what to do. Someone found out the truth, and the gossip about the old man was self-made and despised by his daughter. Objectively speaking, it is really self-inflicted for the elderly to live like this now. Even if his daughter allows him to raise him, it won't give him much warmth. However, as he grows older, most elderly people often need the care and love of their relatives, not support. There are many such old people in reality. They don't maintain their brand image in the eyes of their children at all. They don't maintain the relationship between husband and wife. They are irritable, arrogant and selfish, and their wives and children are wronged here.
People's willpower is very limited, children will always resist one day, and partners will always be reluctant to leave one day. What they planted before will be rewarded in their old age. When you are old, if you don't want to be despised by your children, you must not do some confused things. You can't do anything to destroy the relationship between husband and wife. Please be kind to your partner, just like the old man mentioned above. He pays little attention to his partner. Husband and wife could have supported each other, but they became crutches for each other in their later years, but they insisted on bossing their wives around.
Who has been suffering from inequality in marriage? When your partner is chilling again and again and has no hope for himself, he will definitely leave you for a free new life; When children see their father treat their mother so rudely, they will grow up from the bottom of their hearts and sneer at it. Their father's image has collapsed in the children's minds, and regret is of no help. Destroying the relationship between husband and wife means breaking one's own retreat and living freely until one is old, others are happy and support each other, and it is of practical significance to be alone in the big house during the New Year or holidays.
When you are old, don't do such foolish things as destroying the relationship between husband and wife. A truly farsighted old man should understand the necessity of his partner to himself. If he did something harmful to his partner when he was young, he would bravely face it, diligently repair the relationship between husband and wife, and once again establish a brand image in the eyes of his children. It will love its partner well, respect her, trust her, love her well, thank her for carrying on the family line, and thank her for never leaving. Because she made it clear that her children would leave eventually, and her partner was the one who accompanied her the longest.