How to understand the boy's family situation on a blind date

To understand how the boy's family situation and whether the family is rich or poor can be through: indirectly ask each other, through the intermediary (intermediary), to go to his neighborhood people to ask, so as to know. Generally, the intermediary will not say so clearly, first believe what the other side said it.

For example:

What do your parents do. (paternal income)

How many people in the family. (Represents the average number of people who spend money)

What kind of work do you do. (Income from different jobs, with prospects)

Where does your family live, I'll visit your home sometime. (Living home situation)

Where did you graduate. （

What are your recent plans. (Talk)

How do you treat XXX (like asking about asking for something slightly extravagant)? (Social experience)

Don't ask for money and income directly, so that the other person thinks you're in it for the money. The heart probably calculates a little. You also do not even ask these questions, with the checking of household accounts is not good, look at each other's behavior and demeanor and see what to ask it.