Everyone will have different ideas about this matter, but for me, I will choose the nursing home, will not choose to live with my children, after all, there are times when the generation gap between the two generations and the error of thought still exists, to go to the nursing home, not only for the sake of my children's sake, but also for my own.
First of all, living in a nursing home gives you more freedom. If you live in your own sons and daughters home, although they say how how filial, but life may not be so, may be due to something you do yourself, perhaps you yourself think this is very good, but in their view, this thing is very bad, perhaps has affected their daily life, you will get a kind of uncomfortable feeling. If a person on the side, what they want to do on what they want to do, no one said you, no one will always be in your ear, very free, because now a lot of families have some family conflicts and so on, if in the future their own sons and daughters encountered what family conflicts, although there is an intermediary can be very good mediation, but this intermediary, if it is an old man, it is very easy to be misplaced, and the role of not very much! The first thing that you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing, and that you have a good understanding of what you are doing, and that you have a good understanding of what you are doing, and that you have a good understanding of what you are doing, and that you have a good understanding of what you are doing, and that you have a good understanding of what you are doing.
Secondly, living in a nursing home can make your old age more exciting. When people get older, many decisions are no longer made by them, but by their children. Because they care about you, they are afraid that you have a bad time, or something happens to your body, which leads to if you want to do something, they will become an obstacle to constrain your behavior, life, want to go somewhere, they think it's too far away, you go will be a little tired, then they will try to do everything they can to make you put off the idea, if you say you want to eat something, want to go and play with so-and-so old man, may be when they have the time But if they don't have the time, they will restrict you and not let you go out alone, because it's not safe, and they are worried that something will happen if you go out alone. But actually, they know that it's perfectly fine for them to go out by themselves, and they can do whatever they want to do in the nursing home, and they can just go about their lives without any attachments, without any worries, and that's the kind of life I want to live.
Lastly, there are a lot of people who are the same age as you in the nursing home, so it's a lot more fun to be together. Many young people will be with filial piety, their parents to their own side, so that they can do a good job of filial piety, although the imagination is wonderful, but life in this case is very little, because the young people need to go to work every day to go to work from work, and the elderly to do is to give them to cook a little bit of food, usually nothing to stay at home alone or play with the surrounding neighbors, life is rather boring, after all, know the There are not many people, can play together with not many people of the same age, but the nursing home is different, there are a lot of people of the same age, we can play together, go out together, we are of similar age, there are more **** with the same language, every day a lot of people together, it's like going back to the same young, a lot of people together, lively and lively, it does not feel like a late age, but the youth, this feeling is very good.