Recently there is a news, really call people after reading more than sigh, there is an old man for his daughter's marriage worry, every day to the park to see the marriage advertisement, has been insisting on three consecutive years, the old man hopes to find a good home to his daughter, so he can rest assured that some. This phenomenon is what I said above, poor parents, then parents like to interfere in their children's marriage, what is the reason? In fact, I think it is very simple points only.
First of all, in the 1980s, the government began to take family planning measures in order to control China's population growth, so that many families have only one child, and as the saying goes, the scarcity of things is expensive, not to mention the children. So nowadays parents care about their children to an unimaginable extent, they always feel that their children are very small, can not take care of themselves, especially the child's marriage, parents are more at ease.
Secondly, China is a traditional agricultural country, agricultural country is one of the most important way is the farming economy, we need to pay attention to is because of China's farming economy, so you need to grandfather passed to his father, the father passed on to his son, such a way of inheritance, so that China's ideological aspects of the changes that occur in the family itself, the feelings of the family itself to be more important, especially mothers and fathers for the children of their responsibilities, is quite important. The most important thing is that the family itself is more important, especially the responsibility of the mother and father to their children.
The main point is that China's economic development to the present, the culture of society began to appear a kind of shock, the ancient civilization and modern civilization there is a kind of mutual integration between the conflict between the parents of the idea of parents of the order of the matchmakers, still exists in the subconscious, but the young people have their own ideas. So the old man interfered with their children's marriage, is in these complex reasons, the future interference in the marriage of young people should still have things, this love is really heavy.