Daiyu's love is pure and complete, she fell in love with Baoyu from the first moment she saw him, and never thought of doubt, a lifetime of people who did not have a minute to sway. Unlike Baochai, is in the palace failed to retreat to the second choice to do Jia family daughter-in-law.
For Daiyu, love is love, love is this person, not his background, his future, and therefore never had any requirement or admonition to Baoyu. As long as he is him, she hopes to be with him forever, and the two love each other. What she thinks is "you only care about you, you are good, I am good, you lose, I lose", life is always set up with Baoyu as the premise.
Daiyu's love is so clear, noble and inexplicable, Cao Xueqin can only give her set up a past life marriage: the three life stones on the bank of the Spirit of Heavenly Hate, there is Jiangzhu Immortal Grass, was born curly and lovely, the God Eunuchs saw, the day of the dew to irrigate, so that it can be changed to the human form, cultivated into a female body. The grass has not been rewarded, so he made a wish: if he is a human being in the next life, I also walk with him, will be the tears of his life to return to him, but also over - as if this is the only reason to explain how the world can be so absolute love.
Cao Xueqin found a reason for Lin Daiyu's tears, but could not find a place for them. She wrote: "eyes empty storage tears tears empty hanging, dark sprinkle idle throw more who?" All can not do for their own love.
She was alone at her grandmother's knee to seek support, no parents, no brother support, if Baoyu failed her love, she will be poor and nothing, how can not more anger, not more sorrow, not more doubt?
The most centralized manifestation of suspicion is the sadness that Baoyu "saw the sister and forgot the sister", so she sneered at Baochai every time, watching the words. However, once "asengwujun orchid words to solve the suspicion of addiction", Baochai sent bird's nest, and said a lot of heartfelt words, she immediately regarded Baochai as a sister, and put heart to heart to be a confidant, and then do not want to compete with her. She recognized Aunt Xue as a mother, Baoqin called sister, and even the attacker served tea, Baochai took a sip before handing her, she did not care to take over and drink - so implicitly and frankly confessed the love of respect.
When I first saw that episode, I only thought it was good, and I felt that the two girls were close to each other. When I grew up and watched it again, I realized that it was shocking - there was only one cup of tea in her hand, and there was only one Jia Baoyu in the world. Attacker said: "The thirsty one first took it, I then pour it." Baochai grabbed the first sip, but handed the remaining half cup in Daiyu's hand. Even the assailant also think it is not right, and know that Daiyu is always good clean, so said: "I pour it again." However, Daiyu drank the cup openly and put it down.
This section of the description really do not dare to think y, the more I think the more heartbreaking. Tea, in Chinese etiquette is too rich. A teach a pass, a respect a drink, do not have many meanings, from the tea to send guests to pour tea to compensate, tea is an important prop. Dream of the Red Chamber" is very concerned about the tea ceremony, but also very concerned about the tea ceremony, Wang Xifeng joke Daiyu: "You have eaten my family's tea, how not to our family as a daughter-in-law?" On the "tea booking" refers to the recruitment. The new woman into the door, a cup of daughter-in-law tea can not be saved; acceptance of concubines, the concubine must first give the main room tea; Baochai drank half a cup of tea, almost the equivalent of the topic, and Daiyu surprisingly accepted it down - in a sense, this can almost be understood as Daiyu is willing to share with the Baochai, **** thing a husband, just as the He Yufeng in The Legend of Sons and Daughters acknowledged Zhang Jinfeng.
Thinking of this layer, one cannot help but be alarmed. Unfortunately, the sequel to the last forty is missing, or I believe that the emotional exchange between Bao, Dai and Hairpin is bound to have more levels, not only the triangle of strife so simple. Gao Osprey simplified the level of Daiyu emotions, and to write back to the initial little girl nature, the image of Daiyu fixed in the tone of jealousy, in fact, can not do accurate. The first eighty rounds of Baochai and Daiyu are struggling and compromise, along with their side of the people are looking for a way to complete, the so-called Xue aunt mentioned the "four corners of the whole".
People who love Daiyu will not be able to accept my conjecture, and I myself do not believe that Daiyu will eventually be willing to share her love with others. She was destined to die in tears, but before she did that, she wanted to make peace, didn't she? Otherwise, I can't explain why she suddenly stopped pursuing the rumor of a "golden marriage".
Love a person, love to the extreme, is no anger, no grudges, no regrets, and even no jealousy, just a single-mindedly for his sake, want him to be good, want him to be happy, want him to live easily.
Lin Daiyu, not only because of jealousy and sadness and tears, more tormented is this retreat and thinking process. She is actually quite stoic and lucid when it comes to love, wanting nothing but love.
How many people can achieve such determination and generosity? Who can say that Daiyu is petty again?