How should I respond when my mother-in-law says, I won't take care of your kids, let your own mom do it if you can?

I think, the child should be brought up by yourself, and your mother-in-law can't be forced to bring it up if she doesn't. It's her choice. She is not helping now. You can choose not to support the elderly and his son can support himself. Even if she brings it, she may be resented for her bad behavior.

Now that I'm pregnant, I really feel bad. Are parents born with a life of drudgery, there are grannies who work hard and grannies who want to live freely. How much money do you have to live on, if you really don't have enough money to raise a child, don't have one, really. Also, if you say you don't work and your husband is unreliable, you'll definitely regret it, I think that's something you have to be judgmental about as a normal human being, and also if if your husband doesn't give you money, then why would you work so hard for him to have a child, so a woman should be a little more reserved.

Mother-in-law doesn't want to take it, just don't take it, it's as simple as that. The child is your own. When your child grows up, expect her mother-in-law to be gone. Why bother, personally, I don't want her to take it away from me, even if her mother-in-law wants to take it. Just because the child belongs to me and my husband, it has nothing to do with her. If she does take it, maybe she works hard and complains, and you still think it's bad, and the conflict grows. You still think it's bad and the conflict is growing. My mom is gone. Otherwise, I really want my mom to come and live with us. As for mother-in-law, forget it. It's true that a mother-in-law or in-law chooses to bring or not to bring the kids, not that we asked for it.

In fact, this problem has emerged in recent years. Don't care that women have to work outside the home because of societal shifts and there are no child carers, which leads to a whole host of conflicts. After all, it's still because many people feel that children should be brought up by their mothers,if everyone realized that all children are raised everyone has a part to play, the conflicts would not be so intense.