When you have cancer, the first thing you should do is to reflect on your own life. More than 90% of cancer patients have a life style that overdraws their body and mind, no matter what the reason is - ideals, life pressure, so-called enjoyment, or all kinds of desires. ........ At this point in time, it is time to let go and let the mind and body rest. Apart from life and death, everything is trivial! The first thing that you need to do is to get your mind off of it and get it out of the way.
And then think about the way to live, no matter what kind of treatment, don't believe in the so-called authority, first of all, we have to figure out the nature of cancer, we have to understand that it is the whole body, mind and soul, the whole system, all the headache headache foot foot method is wrong. In fact, it is not difficult to understand the truth of the cure rate, spend some time to prove it, don't believe in the so-called authority, the so-called mainstream, life is their own, and only one, to grasp in their own hands.
Choosing the right treatment, the principle is the following points, the first doctor is best a former cancer patient, the disease does not die to become a doctor, over the people most understand the mystery, the second has a considerable number of visible healing of real cases, the third is a comprehensive system view, must be implemented in the treatment program to the diet, rest, and the fourth must be the case, will be able to adjust the prescription according to the change of the condition, not a partial prescription or secret prescription to mix the world. The first thing that you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and then you'll be able to get a new one.
In short, cancer is only a chronic disease, completely curable cancer is in the test of a person's wisdom and courage, spent, the understanding of life is also enhanced!
In our village there is such a person, he is 49 years old this year, is a once-married bachelor, the poor thing is that he got lung cancer, said no treatment, he slipped in the village every day, dangling small cigarettes to say that they have cancer, but also smiling, he also said: live a day to day, cheerful over.
His life is actually quite poor, his family is very poor, his parents died when he was in his early twenties, he has a younger brother, married a daughter-in-law, he has been no daughter-in-law for the first forty years, because of the poor.
Later, his aunt and relatives helped him to collect money to build three houses, and then through the introduction of other people from other villages, married a daughter-in-law, but this daughter-in-law has a disease, that is, hyperthyroidism, big neck disease, protruding eyes, and then he worked hard, with two years to his daughter-in-law cured the disease, but it was not long before the daughter-in-law left, his blow is still very big.
Then he has been single, the conditions are not good, want to find a daughter-in-law is really quite difficult, his home I've been, very dirty, and do not clean up, who would like to marry over it, last year when he was diagnosed with cancer, and I think he smoked and living habits, work habits have a relationship.
But with cancer, there is no way, no money for treatment, and finally gave up and went home, living day by day, his sister-in-law daily care of his diet and other issues, in the last days or to experience the warmth of loved ones, the future is not in the future, the only three houses are given to his brother's family, because he did not have a daughter-in-law, no children.
Today saw his brother riding a motorcycle to take him to the hospital, his brother came back, he did not come back, may be aggravated, go to the hospital for simple treatment, the last life is so ordinary, or how else can it, eat, drink, play, sleep, waiting for the death of the approaching, so that may be able to live a few more years, do you think?
I am a cancer patient, 16 years found in nasopharyngeal cancer stage 3, chemotherapy 2 times, radiotherapy 16 times. How to live the rest of the day well? I think this is also all the patients themselves often in the heart of a topic asked, but the reality of life can not let you as you want, such as economic, the severity of the disease. I'm getting ahead of myself, so let's talk about my thoughts. Since I got cancer, I cherish my life more, because I really don't know when I will go, plus I have an old man and a young man, and I am the backbone of my family, now I think about how much I can contribute to this family in my lifetime, I never give up on myself, and I often fantasize that a miracle can happen to me. If one day my body does not allow me to work, perhaps I will put a little money, walk the great mountains of the motherland, where to fall on the will of God
With cancer is also the same Healthy and happy life! First of all, my father-in-law has been rectal cancer for 29 years, and has coronary heart disease, this year 79 years old. Every morning he would go to the morning market to buy breakfast and vegetables, at noon he would take a nap, in the evening he would go to the night market to skate around, go home and watch the news and go to bed. My father-in-law is very frugal, spends money carefully, and doesn't spare money on expensive things. I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'm not sure what I'm talking about. I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'm not sure what I'm talking about.
My father-in-law is the eldest son is very filial!
My neighbor sister uterine cancer surgery on the character of the stool, such as love travel, love to buy clothes, fell in love with the square dance, now there are 8-9 years it, this time I remember not very accurate.
In fact, the timing of the discovery of the disease is very important, in addition to save energy, want to run a long distance tank must be filled with oil, do not leak oil! The most important thing is to adjust the spleen and stomach, the spleen and stomach is the foundation of the latter. You should also eat meals that replenish kidney essence. Some are born with insufficient kidney essence, then it is more important to tonify kidney essence. Some are congenital spleen and stomach insufficiency, the oil tank leakage first fill the tank, the natural constitution is much better, this time to do what they like beneficial to the health of the body, the mind must be maintained, the idea is very important, do not let their emotions affect the mood. I remember the Bible has a saying, the body is sick, the heart can endure, the heart is sad, who will bear it?
In fact, everyone has a death! Just sooner or later, who can know the death of a hundred? Water insects think they are dead, but do not know into a dragonfly. Don't feel too bad about getting cancer, maybe it's a butterfly. Experience will give a lot of people in the past did not see things, and now want to break the head can have what benefit? In the sadness can not change anything, so why not do something that you have always wanted to do have not done! Here I wish you peace, health and happiness!
How to live the rest of your life with cancer? First of all, it depends on what kind of cancer, such as pancreatic cancer? Or lung cancer? Or bowel cancer? Or breast cancer? Because even if the same belongs to the late stage, the prognosis of different kinds of cancer is very different, the length of survival time is very different, if it is advanced pancreatic cancer survival period is short, the rest of the day is relatively small, the significance of active radiotherapy in the hospital is not very big, so try to cherish the last stage of life, happy happy to meet the rest of the life of the undone or unfulfilled dreams, if it is the treatment of breast cancer is generally very effective, should not give up lightly, rational standardized treatment, and the treatment should not be used for the treatment. If the result of breast cancer treatment is generally very good, you should not give up lightly, and you should strive to be cured and get a good life even if you endure the pain of treatment. Secondly, it depends on what stage the cancer is in, that is, how it is staged. No matter what kind of cancer, in the early stage, don't think about how to live the rest of the day, because most of the early cancers can be cured, and the cured cancers are equal to benign tumors, and they can be cured in a single cut, and the rest of the day is the same as a normal person's life, and how to live the rest of the day is how to live the rest of the day. However, I have contacted a post-op patient of early stage stomach cancer, who is now my friend. He said that he used to be a very aggressive person, but since his stomach cancer operation, he has opened up his mind and stopped fighting so hard, and naturally, the rest of his life is much easier. Finally, for cancer patients who are certain that they cannot be cured and are already in the absolutely advanced stage, how should they live the rest of their lives? First of all, to account for the aftermath of the account, such as inheritance, to make a will to make a will, to notarize the notarization. The purpose of the next treatment is to minimize the pain and enjoy the rest of your life as much as possible without pain. Don't rely too much on hospitals, except in the terminal phase. For the dying stage, try to reach out to religious people to soothe the fear of death and stress. Allow more family members to accompany and care for you. Hopefully, this stage will pass peacefully.
Myself at the end of 19. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get a good look at this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to get a good look at this.
Originally, the family is not rich. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get away with it, but I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get away with it, and I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get away with it, but I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get away with it.
I always remind myself to be calm, but how can I be calm? I very much want to go out to find a job, but also afraid of the disease recurrence, I am unchanging four times a month to test the white blood cells, I just hope that my body quickly get better, the index quickly normal, so that I have a reason to persuade everyone to let me go out to work.
Originally, I was planning to find a guard to look at the door, a lifetime of pull down, I from the bottom of the heart is not willing to do so. After all, I'm still young and have a family. I often browse job sites, trying to find a suitable job, I envy those who can earn money from the bottom of my heart, I often go to the memory. If I was physically able to, I would be working, and I would be doing part-time work, because I like money. Especially since the moment I got sick, I feel that money is very important, and I have to spend money all the time in the hospital, if it wasn't for the fact that the employee health insurance reported a little bit more, if it wasn't for the fact that I chose the process when it came to the medication, and if it wasn't for the fact that my family was still able to come up with the money to pay for my medical care. I think I would have died.
Now I have ended the treatment for five months, every day a variety of sequelae accompany me, cough. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to afford it, but I think I'm going to die. Pneumonia. Low white blood cells. Restricted mouth opening. Dry mouth! And many other symptoms. It's very annoying. Now I'm very frugal with my money, and I definitely don't buy anything I shouldn't. Every day I eat a lot of good things, milk and eggs. Noodles, steamed bread, rice. Various dishes. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do with this!
I want to raise myself solid. Go out and find a relatively easy job, a month to earn a three or four thousand dollars, rest a little more, I will not do the previous kind of pollution of the laborious work, at any time, health first, I will not be like before, as I am particularly stingy, the food or eat, eat a little nutritious. The first thing you need to do is to go to bed early and get up early!
More ways to earn some money. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it! In any case, my social security to pay down, so that I have the money to see the doctor to have money to retire, of course, I do not know if I can live to that day. At least I'm mentally strong!
The first thing to say is that having cancer is not the same as being sentenced to death, cancer is not the same as death, it depends on the circumstances.
Most cancers can be cured in the early stages if they are treated with comprehensive surgery-based treatments, while a few advanced cancers can be cured. Of course, most advanced cancers are hard to cure, but it doesn't mean that they can only live for a short period of time, and some of them can be survived for a very long time through the treatments. However, it is also true that some advanced cancers do not have effective treatment, or even if the treatment is effective, it is still ineffective in the end, and they will face the last "few days left", that is, the terminal stage. This is something that everyone has to face sooner or later, except for cancer patients, who come earlier and are likely to suffer more.
How can we make these few remaining days better? This is an area that has not been emphasized enough in China, and not enough has been done. Really to the dying stage of the days left, anti-tumor treatment has been ineffective, the survival time is usually no more than six months, this time, we must change the concept of timely, do not keep tossing in the chemotherapy. Some people (including patients and family members) until one or two months before the end of life are still running around seeking medical treatment, hoping for a miracle, until the day of the patient's death, still did not accept the reality, is still in the unrealistic fantasy, and the price is that, missed and loved ones to spend a good deal of the rare last time, one is to let people have been in the running around seeking medical care in the labor, due to the focus of attention is still in the treatment of tumors, on the As the focus is still on curing the tumor, there is no attention paid to alleviating the pain, including psychological comfort, which cannot but be a great pity. The fact is that the company's products and services have been widely recognized as being of high quality!
The remaining days, a quality of life, the length of survival can not be controlled by the left and right, the quality of survival is still more or less in your left and right, this time if you are still indulging in the hope that the miracle of the dream, most likely will not pay attention to the quality of survival. Must change the concept in time, adjust the direction, pay attention to the quality of survival, pay attention to the psychological comfort, live not long, but live comfortably, happily. The second is to live with dignity. Some patients until the moment of death, still endure great pain, physical and psychological, which can not be said to be a great sadness. The reason for this is also mostly related to perceptions. For example, some patients are obviously in pain, but they just dare not let go of the use of opioid painkillers, including certain doctors who share the same perception, and thus, encourage the patients to endure the pain. This is extremely inhumane!
If it was me personally who had cancer, first I would have to arrange the aftermath and make a good will. I'm going to take this day as a starting point, and consider every day I live as one more day gained. Then, I'm going to see if this cancer can be cured, and if there is a possibility of a cure, I'm going to actively cooperate with the treatment. If it's not curable, but the treatment may prolong survival, then I'll give it a try. If it works, but is somewhat painful, I'll stick with it. If it doesn't work, but it's not too painful, I may consider it. If, however, nothing works and it's more painful, I give up. In any case, travel around as much as your strength allows, and accomplish things you wanted to do before but didn't have the time to do. When the time comes, refuse all resuscitative measures.
I am also a cancer patient, I feel that most of the wishes of the patients are to play abroad and abroad, foreign no way, the domestic tourism countries can not give cancer patients to do a free license to go to a number of attractions free of charge, but also for cancer patients to do something. Good life-saving drugs can not afford to eat, the country can not help, that should not be difficult to do a certificate, a lot of healthy people to acquaintances can do a disability card. The state should also do something for the cancer patients, you have done personnel these years?
Life is a journey, life is a huge train, everyone's birth is to get on the ticket, just get on the train is the beginning of destiny. Although birth is our starting point, but there are many lives in the train just started, will be mercilessly driven off the train, such as those who died young children, such as teenage cancer patients, the reality of the world is that every moment people get on the train, get off, just the general public do not feel it. This kind of presentiment is irrelevant, let's leave it aside for now and talk about the average passenger.
We got on the train of destiny, after their own a lot of groping and crawling, or obtained an independent compartment, is enjoying the so-called successful people's lives; or worse, also got a sleeper seat, so that they and their families in the journey a little bit more comfortable; and then a little bit more poorly, and the majority of people, at least so that they and their families have to sit down, although we have to put up with the mass of the interference of life, at least not be Service personnel to drive around, even the station is not peaceful ...... regardless of what position, we are busy, enjoy the scenery, taste the food on the car, are fully committed to the journey, even if there is no place for beggars, but also to stay in the car is a kind of good luck, because as long as the body in the car, he will be in his heart! There is a vague hope that when the next station comes, good luck also comes with ......
This is the train of life, in the car means life, rushed off the train means death, although everyone knows that the end of the station is death, however, who are praying for it to come slower, later, and even a stable and comfortable life so that many people Thought it would not come ...... Suddenly, you were told that the travel plan was disrupted, you must get off the bus: because you were suddenly diagnosed with cancer!
How many people's worlds have collapsed? When we are accustomed to the night after the day, the face of the night will have no fear; but the news of cancer makes us feel that there is no difference between day and night, the world of the desperate is the eternal darkness. The thought of getting off the train in the middle of the day, every traveler is angry, unacceptable, his psychology is bound to be distorted, and some people even have the extreme idea of subverting the train to die, which is an instinctive reaction.
What we are used to, what becomes the support of our normal life, but we do not think, it is all psychological consciousness. It's not that we can't change, because when someone else has a bad day we try to talk them out of it, but when it comes to us we can't get out of it. Cancer's greatest harm to life is to shatter the mind, the horror of death is infinitely amplified, the bad mood into every pore and cell, so that people in the first place will write a surrender to the devil ...... So people often say, more than half of the cancer patients are scared to death, not without reason; generals have no morale in battle, how can the soldiers fight to the best of their ability? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
What about cancer? The most important thing is to maintain a calm state of mind, frustration and despair is certainly not, fighting spirit is not necessary. The most important thing is to stay calm and despair. It's just a matter of getting there early. Who can sit down forever? To be able to get on the car is already very lucky, let alone enjoy such a journey? The mood is calm, they can still enjoy the last section, maybe the plan did not change quickly extended also not necessarily; mood is bad, then there is only one consequence, very ugly to be thrown out of the car, because no matter what you are the status of the Führer or the richest man or beggar, in front of it, the same treatment.