Why is grandma taking care of the baby now, not grandma?

We all know that there are always endless accounts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Many daughters-in-law are not so close to their mother-in-law, and their children's fathers are added in the middle. If the mother-in-law lives at home with the children, there will inevitably be quarrels. Once there is a contradiction, even the father's persuasion is useless. If it is really the mother-in-law who takes care of the children, it will only aggravate the contradiction between the two. Grandma can take care of the children and avoid this world problem. Because your own mother won't have a one-night feud with you, and grandma can take the children to reassure Ma Bao, so it's normal for her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be at odds.

In the two-child era, the elderly actually acted as a temporary substitute. Sometimes the old people's doting on the third generation has gone beyond the rational scope, and the different educational concepts of the two generations will also cause children's cognitive malformation, which is an important issue in early family education at present. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been regarded as the most difficult relationship to deal with. It is normal for a wife to have worries and concerns about her mother-in-law taking care of her baby, but it cannot prevent her grandmother from participating in normal parenting. There should be more communication and understanding between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

My daughter has been the apple of her eye since she was a child, so my parents can't bear to watch her suffer. So in any case, they will go to help their daughter look after the children. Grandparents will think of their daughter, fearing that her daughter will be wronged because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so they take the initiative to help. This situation is generally manifested in the only child.

There is no shortcut to raising children, and the old man can only help for a while. The most fundamental thing is to see if parents are concerned. Your role as a parent is incomplete without washing your child's ass, nursing your child, and staying up late to take care of the crying child.