Excellent parents, superior family circumstances, spoiled upbringing, created nothing, love is hopeless, no diploma, no job, gnawing on the old genus of you, a stage of the comparative "failure of life works". I'm not going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do that!
After stepping into the society, you can't work, can't get married, discriminated against, and all kinds of bumps and grinds make you realize the cruelty of reality and the difficulty of being a human being.
26 years old, you are still young, still come and, as long as you have to learn to do a good job of the resolute heart, there is a strong desire to suffer, the start of change is never late.
Now you:
1, must give up the game and other bad hobbies, Internet addiction (I do not know if you have, the general reality is not too ambitious children, like to find happiness in the network) to give up by no means easy, but this is the first step must be, and also rely on your own power to come out, such as not if, and all the other things are exempted from discussion. Can not change the bad hobbies, predicts that your life to do a "nothing, love hopeless desperate man", a few years of hard work to change for your life happiness, this arithmetic you will always count, the key is you can not go to do. The difficult thing in the world is not to do, so there are difficult things to produce.
2, temporarily never consider love, because now you do not have the conditions, no capital, no strength, not I hit you, you do not upset. This is really your present situation, face up to it, acceptance is your motivation to rise up.
You should:
One is to learn a good technology, or even to the northern technical college to study, people live first have to survive, your parents are the best, but they can not accompany you all your life, sooner or later you have to be independent. Now you have the full support of your parents financially, you still live like that failure. So a little early independence is better than late independence is much stronger, such as you do not change your mind, you old when the scene will be miserable unimaginable.
Two, don't carry the burden of your parents' excellence, your parents' life is not your life, they can't dominate your life, can dominate your destiny is only your own, you have to understand, and more to learn. You can not choose your parents, but you can create your own life, your life is not necessarily as glorious as your parents, you can not do the first place, but you can at least rely on self-reliance to fight for food and clothing, warmth and happiness in life. Don't be "strong to face" for your parents, pick and choose to find a job, have a job, earn money is the first step of your independence to do their own.
Thirdly, don't label yourself as a "desperate man", and indiscriminately put negative labels on your heart over time, you will agree that by default you are a desperate man, and that's bad. This will weaken your fighting spirit to change, so that you have no power from the source of the heart to rise, and finally you this pseudo-desperate man really become a real desperate man.