Recently, a video of a boy beating a gray-haired old man with a long stick spread online and sparked heated debate. Surveillance footage shows that on June 1, 18:10 in the afternoon, a small boy wearing orange clothes holding a stick longer than his height, constantly swinging to the elderly, and is very hard to beat. The grandmother, dressed in red, could only defend herself with a pot lid, and every time the boy hit her, the old man stepped back in fear and cried out in pain, "Aigoo...Aigoo..."
In the boy beat a few times, the old man immediately with the hands of the lid of the pot to gesticulate forward, the boy then ran away. After the boy ran away, the old man put down the pot lid, lift up the clothes to check the waist, the old man's waist should be injured.
At this point, the boy suddenly folded back, continue to take the long stick swinging to the old man, no lid of the old man can only take the hand to defense, to block, the old man because of the age and physical reasons, legs and feet inconvenience, not to fight back and can not be effectively dodged, the old man's head was hit by a number of times. The boy went away, the old man held his head in pain sitting on a chair, the whole process is no one to stop.
It is not known which province or city this happened in, nor do we know whether the boy is a neighbor's child or his own grandson, no matter how to look at it is really outrageous. Obviously, look at the child's approach has not been the first time so beat people, I do not know the child's parents will see how to think. They are too indulgent in the education of small children, usually do not teach that hitting is not right?
In the words of the netizens, life, we often hear some so-called adults say some of these words:
"The child is still small and do not understand things"
happen. It is because of these indulgences that can lead to a permanent lack of character in a child. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. It is precisely because he is still a child and doesn't know any better that he needs to be educated by his parents. If the child has not been taught a lesson, he will not know that attacking others, hurting others need to take responsibility, he will not understand, what is right and what is wrong.
What's wrong with kids nowadays? Teachers don't dare to control them at school, and parents are super spoiled at home, which is actually not conducive to the growth of children in the long run. Recently, a netizen on the Internet tanned a surveillance video, a child with an iron bar beating the elderly video.
From the video, the child's age is not big, he held an iron bar directly to the old man, at first the old man also held a cover to protect their bodies, but the child a stick after a stick, the old lady was beaten straight back, not only that, the old lady also groaned loudly "ouch, ouch", it is heartbreaking. The child was beaten up by the woman, and she was knocked backward.
In the old man just put down the cover of the moment, the boy took the iron bar and directly to the body of the old lady, this time the old lady did not cover up, only with the hands of the block, the boy saw the more vigorous, he not only hit the body of the old lady, but also hit the head of the old lady, and even hit dozens of times after the boy stopped, and the old lady sat on one side of the chair, with his hands covering his head and moaning.
The heartbreaking thing is that this whole process is no one to stop, many netizens speculate that the boy should be the grandmother's grandson, this child beating behavior is very bad, and now he dares to beat the old man in the house, and later enter the community, he will be more lawless, even if the ignorance, the age of the young, this child should be strictly disciplined.
Recently, the Internet exposed a video of a five- or six-year-old boy wearing orange clothes, holding a long stick, constantly hitting the gray-haired grandmother. The grandmother first took a pot lid used for defense, gradually retreating to the wall, stabilizing the battle, followed by a fierce attack forward swinging a few times, the little boy was scared to turn around and run.
After the grandmother put down the pot cover, rolled up the clothes to check the lower back, it seems that the lower back is injured. Which is expected to soldiers are not too deceitful, the boy suddenly held a long stick to kill back, the grandmother did not have time to find tools, the boy's stick has been knocked to the body, and had no choice but to constantly use their hands to resist, defense, but because of old age, leg and foot inconvenience, was the boy used "an inch long, an inch strong" "" weapon "advantage and more
The child played after the addiction, majestically jumped with small steps away from the "battlefield", the old man sat on a chair with his hands over his face and cried. The old man was sitting on a chair with his hands over his face, crying.
The boy was only five or six years old with a stick so hard to beat the old man, the whole time without a trace of softness and compassion, completely ignoring the old man's cries and moans, what makes a child so young to make "meat and fowl" thing to do?
Don't say "the child is still young and unaware". Nowadays, children and we can not be compared to the first time, there are people 24 hours a day, close to the growing up; and nutrition is sufficient, the development of the early, understand the early.
Don't say, "He's just a kid, don't worry about it". The first thing you need to do is to look at the age of 3 to know the age of 30, and if you don't educate yourself now, you're going to have to grow up.
From the performance of the little boy, the child's parents really have a problem with the education, have to take care of it, can not let the child go on, or a period of time ago, "Shanghai 10-year-old boy bookstore threatened a 5-year-old girl," the tragedy, or will be repeated!
It's outrageous! A five or six-year-old boy with a long stick madly beat the old lady, but no one to stop, the old lady body multiple injuries, can only wail in pain.
Recently, a video of a young boy with a long stick beating a gray-haired old lady triggered hot debate among netizens. The video shows that at 18:00 on the evening of June 1, a young boy wearing orange clothes holding a stick much longer than his height, step by step, constantly waving a long stick to beat an old lady wearing red clothes, and is very fierce pain.
Under the ferocious attack of the little boy, the old lady could only take a pot lid to defend herself, but her waist was still hit by the little boy's long stick, and every time the little boy hit her, the old lady stepped back in great fear, and let out a scream of pain from her mouth.
When the old lady took the lid of the pot to make a counterattack posture, the boy "enemy into my back" quickly escape.
When the old lady stopped to lift the clothes to see the waist injury. The boy "enemy fatigue I hit", and holding a long stick to hit the old lady, and the old lady bare hands, can only be the little boy splitting head and face pain.
The boy "won" after the smooth retreat, and the old lady bruises, can only sit down and hold his head and wail, the whole process is no one to interfere.
I don't know what part of the country this is happening, and I don't know the relationship between the boy and the old lady, some people say that the boy is the old lady's grandson, and some people say that the boy is the neighbor's child. In any case, the video of the little boy beating up the old lady provoked the public anger of the netizens, we have discussed, this little boy is too hateful, five or six years old, so ruthless without sympathy, to beat up the old lady for pleasure, grow up later still have to?
Obviously, look at the little boy hit the manoeuvre is very skillful, it should be easy to familiarize themselves with, I do not know the child's parents usually how to educate the child, perhaps it is the parents of the encouragement and indulgence to make such a small child so ferocious, beating an old man with impunity, to beat people for fun, but do not worry about being punished in any way, such a child encountered no resistance to the old lady can be bullied arbitrarily, if you encounter strong other strong, you can be a good person, you will not have to pay attention. If he meets other children who are strong and healthy, he will suffer a great loss. In the end, the parents' indulgence of the little boy will harm the child.
On the other hand, it's worth thinking about where the old lady's children went. Why did they ignore her and let a little boy beat her up? If the old lady is a widow without children, why not live in the home, the local neighborhood committee and other grass-roots organizations do not care about the death of the elderly?
We have the traditional virtues of respect for the elderly and love for the young, the elderly should try to take good care of the children not only to love and care, but also to educate the children good morals, at least respect for others, can not beat people for fun, the pleasure built on the pain of others, which are the minimum to do people.
June 1, Beijing time, a "boy with a long stick beat the white-haired old man" video on the Internet and triggered a hot debate. The netizens can not help but shout: this child is really hard, this is to put the white old man in the rhythm of death ah!
From the video we can learn: June 1, 2020, 18:10 or so time, a roughly 6-year-old size, wearing an orange T-shirt boy holding a long stick, and constantly hit to the white-haired old man's body, the white-haired old man with a similar pot cover round to resist the boy's attack. These two people should be the relationship between grandmother and grandson. From the boy hit the skilled techniques can be seen, certainly not the first time; from the point of view of the ruthless analysis, the boy behind must be someone in the abetment or support, otherwise, 6-year-old child is no courage, more reason to the old man under this cruelty.
In the old man thought the boy went, put down the round to see the waist injury, who knows the boy returned, lifting the stick on the head and face a beating, more ruthless than before, eyes full of killing. Unarmed white-haired old man can not dodge, can only use both arms to resist, but the head of the boy was still knocked a few sticks. The white-haired old man sitting on the stool with his hands on his head, howling in pain posture can be seen, this kind of violence against the white-haired old man's incident in this family is a regular occurrence. From the boy's behavior, it is clear that there must be someone behind the abetting of the boy. And the people behind this can be sure that one of his parents or parents **** with the woeful in abetting the boy to do this kind of harm, God forbid the abuse of the elderly things.
At the moment we don't know where the family came from and what the boy's name is. What's more, we don't know what kind of person the boy's parents are. But what we can be sure of is that this gray-haired old man must have been violently abused often in this family. From 18:10 time to see, it is time to eat dinner, perhaps today just the old man did not get the meal on time, so the boy's parents abetted the boy on the old man to violence, and the boy hit the stick looks like a special specially manufactured "beat stick", perhaps this stick in this family is specially Maybe this stick in this family is specially "tailor-made" for this old man. This pair of dog parents are really inhuman, abusing the elderly in such a violent manner and instigating their young and ignorant child to commit violence against the elderly. When the boy grows up, this gray-haired old man's present is your future, wait for it.
We usually say, "If you don't teach me, I'm sorry", and from this video, we can say that this 6-year-old child is still in the stage of "ignorant and don't know anything", but from the way he hit the man, and from the hateful look in his eyes, we can see that this child's violent tendency is not a result of the old man's behavior, it is a result of the old man's behavior, which is a result of the old man's behavior. The child's violent tendencies were not spoiled, but abetted. Perhaps the child's parents know that abuse of the elderly is against the law, their violent treatment of the elderly will be sanctioned by the law, but the 6-year-old child will not, and so instigated the child to replace them to do they break the law and the child does not know what to do, we have pity on the child at the same time, but can not help but in the bottom of our hearts scolded this pair of beasts worse than the parents, respect for the elderly and love for the young and support for the elderly is our due obligations. This pair of dogs, delaying the child's future not to mention the negative impact on society is difficult to estimate.
I hope that the netizens can follow the incident of the license Xin, the child violence of the elderly incident also "card" in the end, so that the netizens to see the boy's parents is what the gods?
The pot view: the child is not light and heavy, this is normal, but need to parents of the discipline and guidance! As the saying goes: the son does not teach, the father's fault, parents for the child's education is crucial, parents do not discipline, the child develops capricious, violent bad habits, in the end to suffer the loss of their own.
A video triggered a strong debate
June 1, there is a video circulating online: a 6-7-year-old boy holding a long stick, a white-haired old man beating, caused a wide range of heated debate.
The video shows that the boy holding a stick, one after another to the old man's waist, head to smash, the old man is apparently only passive defense, at first the old man with a pot cover in the fend off, and symbolically scare the boy, the boy fled. After a while and ran back, the old man's head smashed, the old man hit the pain and cried.
At first when I saw this video, I thought it was the old man playing with the child, and then I heard the sound and realized that the child's force was very large, not at all like playing games, and then I heard the old man's cries of pain, so it is clear that this is really a child to the old man to beat up.
Potter's point of view
According to the video, we do not know what the truth of the incident, but it can be clear that the child's family education must be a serious problem.
It's very heartbreaking for the old man! This is really a very unimaginable picture, both people are supposed to belong to the vulnerable group, both should be cared for and supervised by their families, but there is such a violent behavior.
This child is so young, so young that there is absolutely no doubt that he is capable of bad behavior. Perhaps the old man was in the wrong, but the fact that a child this young beat the white-haired old man with a long stick is enough to make people angry. This reflects 2 problems:
One is the lack of family education. Parents are the first teacher of the child, the child in the growth of the lack of parental education, the child as a child of violence and other vices, must be corrected in time, at a young age, so that he corrected, if with these vices to grow up to adulthood, in the future, it is very likely to do illegal and criminal things, if now negligence, then grow up, only to let the police to help discipline!
The second is the lack of respect for the elderly tradition.
These days, online public opinion is festering with "bad guys getting old" and other comments, so that the tradition of respect for the elderly has been impacted by public opinion, such as the recent "square dance old man tripped over the skateboarding children," "square dance amazons occupy the parking lot" incident. The recent incidents of "square dance old man tripping over skateboard children" and "square dance old lady hogging the parking space" have greatly weakened the traditional public opinion of "respecting the old man".
It's true that there are some disrespectful people in our society, but that's not a reason to dismiss traditional respect for the elderly. Everyone will be old, like the video of the child beating the elderly, the body itself has been very weak, no fight back, this child's parents if you see the video, will be how to feel it? The police station concerned should immediately intervene in the incident, criticize, educate and compensate the child's parents, and discipline their own children to nip their violent tendencies in the bud!
Some people say that the child is too young, the child does not understand, not the child's fault. Yes, although the child is not at fault, but what about the parents? The parents have the responsibility of guardianship? If the child doesn't know any better, the parents don't know any better? If the child's parents do not come forward to give a statement, then such parents really do not deserve to be parents.
June 3, according to the "River News Luoyang News" in its official social media platform released a video titled "boy with an iron bar beating white-haired grandmother, the elderly did not fight back, after the injury to cry after the headache," the specific details are as follows:
This is a length of 44 seconds of the video, the picture of a boy wearing a pinkish-white short-sleeved, black shorts, a boy.
At first, the grandmother held a silver basin in her hand as a shield and managed to fend off the boy's attacks three times. But unfortunately, she was still hit hard in the lower back. As the grandmother tried to fight back with the basin, the boy simply "ran away".
The grandmother then put down the basin and cried over her injured waist. Unexpectedly, has left the boy actually returned, continue to wield the hands of the iron bar toward the grandmother hit. There is no basin as a defense of the grandmother, was beaten back and forth, its arms, head and other parts have been hit.
Knowing that the boy "succeeded", he stopped and left. And the grandmother is holding her head in both hands, paralyzed in a chair on the side of the wailing, the whole process no one came forward to stop.
From the exposure of the video, this is a camera installed in the corner of the yard, so no one stopped only one possibility, that is, when the incident, there is no one else present.
In addition, from the angle of the video, the surrounding environment and the clothes drying in the yard, the boy should be with the grandmother is a family relationship. Specifically: 1, the place of the incident in the yard, strange children are unlikely to be randomly in and out of the grandmother's yard; 2, the grandmother's yard drying a child's clothes, it is very likely to be the beating boy's clothes.
Since the netizen who exposed the video did not specify the source of the video, it is not clear why the boy beat the grandmother, nor is it clear how the grandmother's injuries are.
But since the incident has happened, under the premise of investigating the exact cause of the incident, the boy's parents also need to correct the boy's violent behavior in a timely manner, or else the consequences will be endless.
June 1, teachers and parents have carried out colorful activities to inspire children to love life, love of learning, love of campus emotions, to celebrate a meaningful and memorable Children's Day. However, a video of a boy beating his grandmother with an iron bar has spread online, which is really infuriating!
Seeing such a video, the heart has unspeakable heartache, a small child of five or six years old, even dared to hold an iron bar to beat the grandmother, I do not know this child is the family or the neighbor's family, but in any case, this child has to be well disciplined, a few years old children do not have the ability to discern, I ask the child's parents to go where? Who is responsible for this child's behavior?
If this is the grandmother's own child, I think it must be the parents and the grandmother of the child's spoiling the situation today, parents are very heartbroken their own children, but the child in front of other people to move their hands and feet, the parents must be on the child's strict discipline, tell the child that this is the wrong behavior, and if there is a next time, will certainly be punished.
Some parents are very indulgent with their children, thinking that he is still a child, even if the adults are hit, it will not hurt anywhere, parents acquiesced to the child's behavior, the child's boldness is getting bigger and bigger, in the parent's coddling, the child thinks that his own approach may be correct, today the child hit his family with his hands, if not stopped and educated in time, the child Tomorrow it is possible to hit others with an iron bar, how can such a child grow up?
The grandmother is also too weak, and may be affected by "He is still a child" this sentence, in the face of the little boy with an iron bar to beat their own continued to retreat, the mouth is still in the bitter wailing, so more to encourage the little boy to hit the man's " Courage", leading to the boy with an iron bar to hit the grandmother's head. In the face of this situation, the grandmother first to take away the iron rod in the hands of the little boy, and then severely criticized the education of the little boy a meal, In this case, do not hit the little boy buttocks can not let him recognize the error, must let the child long memory, resolutely curb the children of this unhealthy trend.
The video seems to hear that there is also an adult woman's voice, listen carefully to identify, as if to say is to let the grandmother grab the iron rod. But some netizens speculated that the adults next to abet the children to beat the old man, or the children learn from their parents to beat the old man with an iron bar. I hope the relevant departments to intervene in the investigation, in the end what is going on? If the parents abetted the son to beat the grandmother, then the parents are responsible for some legal responsibility.
Summary:
Spoiled, is a kind of loss of reason, destroy students physical and mental health "love", spoiled will let the child become capricious, self-centered, the deeper the love, the greater the harm; indulgent The "love" is terrible, is a kind of malfeasance of the parents, the harm is the child, the destruction of the family, the impact is the society!
I have seen this video on Shakeology, a small child swinging a long pole like thing frequently knocked an old man, the old man with a pot cover and other things to protect their bodies, while the pain of the screams.
According to the age, the small child should be the grandson of the old man, because the old man is already full of gray hair, but the small child looks like only five or six years old. But no matter what their relationship is, it shows that this child is a child who has lost his family upbringing, and if the parents don't educate him in time, then the child's future must be worrying.
Nowadays, many families have only one child, so many parents treat their children as a baby to look at, not only spoiled and pampered, but also sometimes condone them to "do evil", which leads to some children from the young mind is branded to do the "bully" mark. This results in some children being branded as "bullies" from their young minds. Once such children enter society, most of them are the dregs of society, and sooner or later, they will make their parents "alternative face". As for what is called "alternative face", some parents should understand.
In recent days, our family has "encountered" such a bear child. This child is my wife's aunt's grandchildren. The first time I saw him, he was in the middle of the night, and he was in the middle of the night, and he was in the middle of the night, and he was in the middle of the night, and he was in the middle of the night.
Through my contact with this child for nearly 20 days, I have a feeling that this child is a bad boy, and sooner or later, he will get into trouble in society, and even go to jail.
So who am I to say?
Being 8 years old is the time to know manners. However, this child does not know how to be polite. For example, when my wife called my name, he called after my wife; for example, when I sat in front of the computer to write, he disturbed me frequently and could not be persuaded; for example, he treated our home as his own home so casually, casually rummaged through my girl's things, and even threw my girl's rag dolls on the floor and dragged them around, fortunately, my girl is in high school and lives in the school, or else she would be very angry; for example, once I took him to the school, I thought he was a good kid, so I thought it was a good idea. For example, once I took him out to dinner, he sat on my seat when I went to the bathroom and wouldn't let me sit down.
This kid doesn't have a basic diet, which is hard to grasp. For example, today do not eat eggs and tomatoes, said I will not cook; tomorrow and do not eat lean meat, said I am not a chef, and I "issued an order": Noon must give him to do what meal, otherwise, starve to death do not eat. Sometimes after school my wife is not yet off work, I let him wait for my wife a piece of dinner, he was not happy, must eat first.
According to his own words, a day does not hit classmates hand will "itch", therefore, every day in school bullying classmates. According to his grandmother, the teacher let him sit in the last row, a separate seat, and often punished.
This is the kind of child that can grow up to be "successful". According to my wife, this child's behavior is almost exactly the same as his father, his father in the "number" squatted several times, can be said to be a bad spot.
Also according to my wife, something went wrong with their family education. Because my wife's aunt and uncle are particularly spoiled children, and very protective of the shortcomings, everywhere "spoiled" their children. Therefore, they will not be able to raise good children.
All right! I'm sorry, but I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this! In short, if a parent can not correctly educate the child, then, such a child is bound to be difficult to become a great man, will come to the society, must belong to the dregs of society, will make parents "alternative face".
June 1 afternoon, a wear orange clothes about five or six years old or seven or eight years old boy holding a long stick in his hand, constantly waving to the old man, and is very hard to hit. Being hit by the grandmother can only take a pot cover poor to cope with, the boy hit the place, the old man are bent on fear backward.
In the picture, the boy hit the old lady on the head, may know that things are not good, rushed to escape. The old lady sits on a chair in agony with her head covered.
Seeing this image, we can imagine that the little boy hit someone with a triumphant look of triumph. Although his parents are not present from the beginning to the end, they are given a glimpse of what they look like.
Three years old, from a young age, do not take "he is still a child" to excuse themselves, since he can swing a pole to hit people in the invisible then do not say that he is still a child, because the child can not do adults to hit people.
I don't know what relationship the old lady in the picture has with him, if she is his real grandmother or grandma, the old lady should reflect on whether she has spoiled him. Knowing that one day, the opposite is true?
If it is the neighbor's grandmother, then advise the child's parents, or to withdraw your bias, take this as a matter of fact, from childhood to change his behavior, it is not too late.
This age group of children, perhaps, do feel that holding a stick to beat people is very addictive, looking at the hands of the grandmother was beaten by him in pieces, he was very sense of accomplishment, we can not deny that this is the nature of the little boy, but ...
However, the child's concept of right and wrong and the reason for being a human being at this age is the time to be there, the parents must tell him!
The old man is to be loved and respected, not to be bullied, even if the real war, and the hands of the enemy without a weapon is not good.
So, it seems that the child's problem, in fact, parents really should be the head of the thought, suffered the pain of flesh and blood is someone else, the future is the reality of the face of the ultimate is their own.