I'm forty-two years old this year, and I obviously feel that my face is getting old, walking on the street sometimes called uncle by the children, the heart is indeed a little sad, but soon I will be relieved, because everyone will get old, this is irreversible, sad and useless, life should be happy to live, full of counting a person can live in the world's days is only more than 30,000 days, which is to ensure that can live to the A hundred years old, so since we already feel that they are slowly getting old , then we should seriously live every day, every day to be happy, happy.
? The ancients often say thirty, forty and not confused, however, this year has been more than forty years of age, I am still a single dog, career failure, marriage failure, looking back on their youth, more than a few wasted, more than a few bleak. In an inadvertent moment, suddenly found himself sideburns add gray hair, face than before more than some fat, unknowingly has stepped into the middle age, the heart of a burst of sadness and worry.
One time to go to the market to buy food, just choose a few onions, a cabbage, this time there is a child from the supermarket rushed out recklessly, a foot on my little white shoes, heart instantly rose a huffing and puffing, but to attack, the child hastily looked up and looked at me with a smile and said: "Uncle I'm sorry!"
This sentence uncle sorry, straight poke my heart tip, when I also became the uncle in the eyes of others, it seems that they are really old! After this, often by secondary school students, elementary school students, called uncle, although the heart is not happy, but there is no way, can not go to argue with others, the most annoying is that the other day, I was walking in the street, by chance to meet a beautiful woman, dressed in a fashionable, beautiful face, who knows that she came to me in front of: "Uncle, we are engaged in activities in the supermarket, you go to see it! ..........."My heart is simply a million horses, you see the girl's age is at least in thirty years old, how dare you call me uncle, secondary school students and elementary school students call me uncle, can accept, you call me uncle, this is too much, I have so old? I was very angry at the time, but it is not convenient to be angry about this, can only silently walk away.
Back home I calm down, also want to understand, everyone will get old, can not be youthful forever, old age, sickness and death is a natural phenomenon, there is no need to go to this sad sad, since it has been to the middle age, the face has begun to get old, the future of life should be happy, seriously good every minute!
My suggestions and experiences
One, frankly face
People to the middle age, began to blossom, the face of aging , often will be the young man called uncle, whenever the mirror to look at themselves, is more worried about the head, my method is, frankly face,
People to the middle age, began to blossom, face aging , often will be the young man called uncle, every time to the mirror to look at themselves, is more worrying, my The way to do this is to face it honestly, since aging is a fact that can not be changed, there is no need to go to this sad sad, everyone will get old, live in the moment, cherish the time, happy happy is a day, sad sad is also a day, so why not happy happy every day it?
Two, to find their own life direction is not lost
People to the middle age, often because of marriage and family and career on a variety of unsatisfactory things, upset, coupled with the aging of the face, it is more worried about, this time, we need to find their own direction of life, that is, ideals, ideals can not be no time. Sometimes it is the ideal that supports us to live, and the ideal is hope.
Three, pay attention to physical exercise to slow down the aging
Thirty-something years of age on the gradual decline in the body, there are a lot of sub-healthy state, at this time, must begin to pay attention to the diet and physical exercise, adhere to the morning and evening regular exercise, as the saying goes. Life is in motion, exercise can make us increase self-confidence, but also play a role in delaying aging.
Four, find ways to make yourself happy
It is important to find ways to make yourself happy, especially middle-aged people, often feel physically and mentally fatigued, feel lonely, lonely, boring life, coupled with the aging of the face, the loss of confidence in life, at this time must learn to regulate the state of mind, the regulation of the method, that is, find ways to make themselves happy. Happy things or things, such as you like to dance, may wish to learn to dance square dance, take me, I like martial arts, so I continue to learn a variety of martial arts, in martial arts sports and exercise, I am very happy.
When you obviously feel that their face becomes old, the heart is very sad, this time, we can find their own hobbies to enrich the spare time cultural life, to achieve the purpose of making themselves happy, in addition to learn to face, after all, everyone's will become old.