Being lenient with others is a kind of life wisdom, which benefits others and benefits themselves. This is not just talk, but need to start from bit by bit. If you are mean to others at ordinary times, or even bully others everywhere, it will certainly lay a curse.
Fangshan District in Beijing has such a case. A girl who just graduated from a technical secondary school and has a bright future was thrown with sulfuric acid and ruined her life.
The acid-throwing person is a woman, because she hates the girl's parents, and finally retaliates by throwing acid at the enemy's daughter. How did this tragedy happen? What kind of hatred is there between the two families?
The name of the woman who threw sulfuric acid is Han Lang, 35, from Chongqing. 1995, Han Lang married a man 15 years older than him, and they had a son named Liang Liang.
Although they have a son, the age gap between husband and wife is too big, and they quarrel all day and even fight. Finally, they divorced at 200 1. Han Lang was exhausted and determined to start a new life. She came to Beijing alone with her two-year-old son.
When drifting to the north, Han Lang had to work to earn money and take care of his son, so you can imagine how difficult it was. She can only rent a house in the countryside of Fangshan District to make a living.
During this period, Li Dajun, a disabled person in the village, took good care of the mother and son, which made Han Lang feel a little warm, and finally they lived together. Although the days are still difficult, the three of us are full of laughter, and Han Lang is already satisfied.
However, all this changed on April 24, 2005. Six-year-old Liangliang went out to play that afternoon and still didn't come back at night. Han Lang and Li Dajun searched for a long time, but found nothing.
The next day, before dawn, Han Lang went out to look for children again. She has always had an ominous premonition, but she is expecting her son's sudden appearance. At noon, the bad news came.
A villager told Han Lang that there was a child in a well in the west of the village. When Han Lang reached the well, she found the child standing head down in the well. Although she couldn't see her face clearly, she was sure it was her son's light.
When he got the man out, Liangliang had already lost his breath, and there were obvious strangulation marks on his neck. A few days later, the police solved the case. The murderer is a boy (pseudonym) aged 13 in the same village.
When the two children were playing together that day, there was a conflict, and Qiang Liang Liang was strangled alive. In the end, Qiang Qiang was sentenced to three years of reeducation through labor because he was a minor.
A lively, lovely and sensible son is the spiritual pillar of Han Lang. But now that this pillar is gone, Han Lang's spiritual world has collapsed.
She didn't want her son to leave like this, so she sued Zhang Pinghe (the murderer's parents). In the end, the court awarded Zhang Pingjun and his wife compensation of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan (including funeral expenses and death compensation).
After Liang Liang was killed, the body was stored in the hospital morgue. Han Lang wants to bury her son as soon as possible, but she and Li Dajun don't have so much money. At first, the two men made a living by doing odd jobs. He was so sad after their son died. He doesn't work long and has little money in his hand.
Therefore, before the court ruled, I went to Zhang's home to try to get some funeral expenses. However, Zhang flatly refused: How can I give you money? My son is locked up, and I have no mood to make money at all. Besides, hasn't the court ruled yet?
Han Lang went several times in succession, but he didn't ask for money. He was also laughed at by ordinary couples, and the humiliation in his heart can be imagined. She can only go to the morgue, holding her son's cold body and crying.
However, life always goes on. Finally, Han Lang and Li Dajun borrowed money from their relatives and friends, and finally got enough mortuary and funeral expenses to bury their son. 5438+June, 2006 10, the court finally ruled that the average husband and wife Zhang compensated10.5 million yuan.
But with the verdict, Zhang still refused to give money, saying directly, "If you want money, you will die." Han Lang saw that the verdict was almost a dead letter, so he asked the court to enforce it.
However, in the face of the judge, Zhang Pingjun pretended to be pitiful and said, "The eldest daughter is at school and the second daughter is ill. There is really no money at home, let's talk about it next time. "
However, there are two cars in Zhangjiali. When the court came to check, there was only one black and white TV set left at home. Zhang made it clear that he wanted to be an "old lai".
My son was killed, but he didn't get any compensation. Didn't that son die in vain? Every day, I hate Zhang, an ordinary couple, more and more.
Seeing his girlfriend so sad, Li Dajun secretly found Zhang's average home and asked: My son can't die in vain. How can he not pay a penny for it? You are too bullying.
Pingping Zhang quipped, "Who is your son? You two don't even have a marriage certificate. You are a savage at best, and you really think of yourself as a father. "
The quarrel between the two escalated and finally scuffled together. Li Dajun is physically disabled and is no match for Zhang Average. Finally, he was severely beaten.
Li Dajun's claim failed, but he was beaten. Han Lang was distressed by her boyfriend and angry that Zhang Pingjun was too overbearing.
Slowly, his love for his son turned into his hatred for Zhang Average. Zhang Pingjun preached everywhere: "What if I don't pay? My son will come back in three years. "
These despicable words hurt Han Lang's heart more. She decided to get back at Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Pingjun and let them taste the pain.
I know that Zhang's eldest daughter has just graduated from technical secondary school and found a good job. Zhang Ping shows off everywhere and boasts with others. Han Lang thought; "Since my eldest daughter is his pride, I will never make him proud again." .
In May 2006, Han Lang bought 5 Jin of sulfuric acid, waiting for the chance of revenge. During this period, she also wavered, knowing that once leaked, she would be imprisoned or even shot. Is it really worth the effort?
However, Zhang's words and deeds always stimulate Han Lang's sensitive nerves. She felt that if she didn't do something, she would get angry.
In the end, Han Lang wrote two suicide notes, one for her boyfriend and one for her mother, with the belief of dying, and embarked on the road of revenge.
On October 25th, 2006, I was on the same bus with Zhang's eldest daughter. She was wearing a red dress and holding a white porcelain basin that day, which didn't attract others' attention.
The bus arrived at Yuegezhuang Village Station, stopped and people got on the bus. At this time, he stood up, opened the white porcelain basin and poured sulfuric acid on Zhang's eldest daughter.
The poor girl suddenly screamed, and at the same time, some people around the girl were also contaminated with sulfuric acid and were hurt to varying degrees. A man stood up and asked Han Lang loudly, What did you spill? Han Lang replied, "sulfuric acid".
Suddenly, the car exploded, and the passengers were both afraid and angry. Han Lang was handed over to the public security organs.
Finally, Zhang's daughter's head, arms, legs and trunk were burned by sulfuric acid, with an area as high as 15%. Three passengers also suffered serious injuries to their faces and arms.
After trial, he was sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment 13 years, and compensated Zhang Da's daughter for 360,000 yuan, and the other three passengers120,000 yuan. General Zhang expressed his dissatisfaction at the trial site and demanded severe punishment.
He said to Han Lang, "What did you do to my daughter, to hurt me? Do you still have humanity? " Han Lang replied, "I just want you to take care of your daughter every day and feel miserable all your life. Remember, your daughter was killed by you. " .
However, in an interview, she repeatedly said that she was sorry that the child was innocent and she felt guilty about hurting Zhang's eldest daughter.
At that time, Han Lang had been pregnant for three months, so according to the regulations, she didn't have to go to jail for the time being. But in order to express her apology, she had an operation and chose to go to jail, hoping to make up for the pain of the victim a little bit.
After Zhang's daughter was disfigured, she never went out again and even committed suicide. A girl with a bright future is ruined like this. Who is to blame? If the average couple can lose some money, even if they say "I'm sorry", can they avoid the tragedy?
However, even after her daughter was thrown with sulfuric acid, Zhang's ordinary wife still insisted that she was right: "Her son died and my son was locked up. His future was over and he was punished. Why apologize for compensation? It doesn't make any sense. "
In both cases, the victims were innocent. Han Lang is both a victim and a victim. She shouldn't hurt innocent people.
The general Zhang couple are also victims, but their arrogant attitude and refusal to pay compensation directly led to the disfigurement of their daughter, and they will spend the rest of their lives in guilt.
So when you meet something, don't be competitive everywhere, let alone bully others. No matter how honest and cowardly a person is, once he is forced into a hurry, he can do anything, and it will be too late to regret it. Beijing's "sulfuric acid revenge case" is worth pondering.