Can't there be love in my heart with the growth of age?
I believe many people want to know if there is an answer to love when they are old.
Let's hear what these bosses have to say.
Teller: Uncle Wang, 62 years old, farmer, widowed, and currently has a fixed partner.
Uncle Wang looks ordinary, hunchbacked and a typical farmer.
I am a real farmer, working in the fields with my back to the loess all my life.
My wife is from the village next door. The matchmaker introduced her. After we got married, we had three children, two children and a daughter.
With the birth of the child, my burden is heavier and my pressure is greater. I have no choice but to work every day.
I thought I could enjoy myself when I brought up all my children, but I didn't expect my wife to kick me away and leave me alone.
The children got married and moved out one by one, leaving me alone at home. It's fine during the day. I will do some work in the fields, or it will be better to chat with my neighbors.
At night, the room was quiet and there was no sound at all. I didn't even bother to turn on the light. I just sat in a chair and was in a daze all night.
To tell the truth, my heart is like a hand pounding. I always want to shout or punch, but I can't do anything because I am old.
Two years ago, my grandson needed someone to pick me up for school in the city, and my youngest son came to pick me up and asked me to help him.
When I came to the city, my children and grandchildren were together, but the days were not so lonely. I have a hard time except picking up the children. I can't give trouble to young people. I just stay in my room and watch TV every day.
My son suggested that I go out to the Cultural Square to watch the square dance at night, so I came out with the attitude of joining in the fun. Unexpectedly, by coincidence, I met a sister who was in a similar situation to me, and they got along very well.
It's been more than a year now, and I've thought about living together, but I'm afraid there will be trouble if the children of both sides disagree, so I've been afraid to talk.
We go out on dates several times a month just to have a good talk together, but not for long. She has to go back and cook for the children.
It's good to think about it. I'm old, but I didn't expect to date like a young man. My life is worth living.
Looking at Uncle Wang's smile, I know that his heart is bitter, and he also wants to live with this aunt. But for the sake of children's happiness, they can only suppress their emotions and silently endure the unspeakable loneliness in their hearts. This is the inheritance wind.
Confidante: Mr. Cao, 59 years old, is an on-the-job cadre with a family. His current partner is the proprietress of a beauty salon.
Mr. Cao is very imposing. At first glance, he is not ordinary people, and he is smooth.
I have a family and some status. Actually, I didn't find this woman myself, but my friend arranged it.
At first, I disagreed. Later, I saw that this woman was good-looking. As a man, who does not like beauty? Besides, friends have to give face, everyone is the same, and so is each other.
But this woman is not only beautiful, but also very sensible. She asked me nothing. Let's maintain this relationship first and buy her some small gifts on weekdays. As for what will happen in the future, that is later.
When it comes to feelings, there is a little bit, but I can still control my emotions. Anyway, family comes first, which is what I always remind myself.
Hearing this, my heart is cold. Women, don't be silly, especially with married men. Although people are affectionate to you on the surface, in fact, family is always the first. Don't be in the dark anymore. Time to wake up.
Teller: Mr. Li, 62, a retired professor, has a family and has been a fixed partner for many years.
Mr. Li is a low-key and rigorous person, with few words, poor health, asthma and a nosy girlfriend.
Every time Mr. Li comes, he doesn't talk much, but he hears his girlfriend (in her fifties) talking endlessly and asking about Mr. Li's family.
I have a family, and my wife and I have been at odds for many years, but because of my identity, I can't divorce, so I have been living.
This girlfriend is my former student. We have been together for many years. In my heart, she is my wife. She will give me advice on everything, and I am willing to listen to her advice.
I am very happy with her and feel much younger. I don't know how long our relationship can last.
Anyway, one day at a time, we can be together once. We have agreed that even if we can't be together one day, we will forget it. Anyway, there is not much time left, and there is no regret in this life.
Looking at the vicissitudes of Mr. Li, I don't know what to say. A sentence comes to mind: "Love is worth it!"
Conclusion:
Feelings are regardless of age, but the time is different. Not only young people have the right to love.
Young and frivolous, middle-aged and steady, old and deep. Love exists in everyone's heart at all times.
So we should respect everyone's old people and our parents. They are old and need the comfort of love. As children, we should not obstruct their right to pursue love, but give them more love and support.
Let them enjoy happiness and happiness in their later years, and have no regrets.