Hu Ge’s only public girlfriend is Jiang Shuying.
Once, Jiang Shuying participated in a variety show "With all due respect".
Cai Yongkang asked Jiang Shuying: "If your more famous predecessor gets married, will you go if he invites you to go?"
As we all know, the predecessor Tsai Yongkang is referring to is Hu Ge.
Jiang Shuying answered directly: "If he invites me to go, I will go."
And said that the two of them are currently very good friends.
Seeing this, Cai Yongkang asked Jiang Shuying in pursuit.
The more questions Jiang Shuying asked, the more answers Jiang Shuying had.
Suddenly his eyes turned red. Cai Yongkang is an old Jianghu, and he fell in love with Jiang Shuying.
Quickly smooth things over: "Just chat, just chat, don't let the pear blossoms bring rain"!
Jiang Shuying’s eyes were filled with tears, and she blushed when she mentioned Hu Ge. She is indeed a sweet-tempered person.
Some people say that Jiang Shuying has not given up on Hu Ge.
It’s disappointing that Hu Ge couldn’t be with Jiang Shuying.
However, what is even more disappointing is Hu Ge and Xue Jianing.
Xue Jianing has become "China's good ex". Even after the breakup, Hu Ge mentioned her on the show, tears welled up in the corners of his eyes, and said:
In 2017, Xue Jianing and Hu Ge was photographed having a dinner date, and the public thought they were going to "get back together."
At the end of the year, Xue Jianing posted a post announcing her conversion to Buddhism and said she had been practicing Buddhism for nearly a year.
Xue Jianing "may never get married in her lifetime."
When I saw this sentence, my defense was instantly broken.
From 2008 to 2022, 14 years have passed.
But they accidentally fell in love with their expired candy. After breaking up decently, they still had each other in their hearts at that time.
In Hu Ge's heart, he has always missed a good woman, her name is Xue Jianing.
Just met her at the wrong time.
Xue Jianing is a Northeastern girl with a bold and generous personality.
She became famous at a young age, but her career and relationship were not always smooth sailing.
When she was a child, she worked as a host at Harbin TV Station.
She hosted programs such as "Little Swan" and "Little Snowflake".
At the age of 8, Xue Jianing was named one of Heilongjiang’s “Top Ten Campus Stars”.
She has a high talent for languages. When she saw a host on TV, she secretly vowed to become a host one day.
In 1995, she was admitted to the Performance Department of Shanghai Theater Academy as she wanted to be admitted to the Beijing Broadcasting Institute.
This year, Xue Jianing just turned 17 years old, and she became the youngest person in the class.
During college, Xue Jianing had the best relationship with fellow student Bao Lei.
The outside world can't tell whether Lu Yi is pursuing Bao Lei or Xue Jianing, because they are together all the time.
With a pure and sweet temperament, Xue Jianing started working on the set as a supporting actor and a small commercial right from the beginning of her freshman year.
After graduating from college, she became a rich young woman.
In his hand, he holds 500,000 yuan in savings from his four years of college.
In 2003, "Pink Girl" starring Xue Jianing became a hit on the Internet.
At the age of 25, she became famous with her role as "Ha Mei" and other big names in the industry such as Liu Ruoying and Chen Hao.
This drama made Xue Jianing famous all over the country and became a favorite among directors.
As everyone knows, this is the peak period of Xue Jianing's career.
At that time, Hu Ge was just a student at the Shanghai Theater Academy.
In the same year, Xue Jianing participated in "The World Unparalleled". During this period, she met Hu Ge, who first visited the thatched cottage at the age of 20.
The two didn't communicate much, and they didn't fall in love at first sight.
Until 2004, at a party between Bao Lei and Lu Yi, Lu Yi brought Hu Ge to the party.
Where there is Bao Lei, there must be Xue Jianing.
They were all classmates in theater. Xue Jianing saw that Hu Ge was a little timid, so she took the initiative to chat with him.
Over time, the relationship between the two began to become familiar.
Hu Ge began to take the initiative to invite Xue Jianing to dinner.
Hu Ge calls "senior sister" long and "senior sister" short, and Xue Jianing can't refuse.
The attentive Hu Ge will make a guide in advance and choose unique restaurants. The most important thing is the taste that Xue Jianing likes.
As time went by, Xue Jianing began to have a good impression of Hu Ge.
In 2004, 30-year-old He Jiong was extremely busy.
23-year-old "Zai Zai" Zhou Yimin refused to star in "The Legend of Sword and Fairy" because he disliked the hot weather in the mainland.
The director found Hu Ge, who had just joined the industry, to play the role of "Li Xiaoyao".
As soon as the TV series was aired in 2005, Hu Ge quickly became popular with "Brother Xiaoyao".
Hu Ge has become one of the "most popular niche students in the Mainland".
My career also started to go well.
Because Xue Jianing is 4 years older than Hu Ge, Xue Jianing has always been hesitant about relationships.
As it happens, Mother Hu is very concerned about age.
The two bravely took the first step in 2006. From here on, their relationship lasted for 3 years.
However, in these three years, unpredictable things happened.
Idols are restricted from falling in love. They fall in love secretly because of love.
When the media asked the two whether they were in a relationship, they kept silent or strongly denied it.
Paper cannot contain fire. The more you fear something, it will come.
The sky is unpredictable, and people are prone to misfortune and fortune.
In August 2006, after Hu Ge finished filming, he, his assistant and a staff member drove to Shanghai.
The assistant drove the car, and he and another staff member sat in the back.
When the car reached the Jiaxing section, their car had a violent collision with a large truck.
Hu Ge rescued him, but his assistant died.
Hu Ge almost died in this car accident. After 6 and a half hours of rescue, he saved his life, but he himself was basically disfigured.
More than 100 stitches were needed from the neck to the face. The right eye was seriously injured and there is still a scar.
Xue Jianing rushed to the hospital immediately and put down all her work.
Xue Jianing spent all her time taking care of Hu Ge.
Because of this visit, the relationship between Hu Ge and Xue Jianing surfaced.
After Hu Ge was discharged from the hospital, Xue Jianing took Hu Ge directly to her home to take care of him.
At that time, Xue Jianing's career was on the rise, but she chose Hu Ge and gave up her own career.
If Xue Jianing had proposed breaking up.
Will Xue Jianing be as popular as Yang Ying and Yang Mi today?
Unfortunately, everything is already doomed.
Xue Jianing joined hands with Hu Ge to tide over the difficulties, but Hu Ge did not join hands with Xue Jianing to grow old.
Couples who plan to get married will live together and get to know each other in advance.
While Xue Jianing took Hu Ge home to take care of him, there were a lot of "inappropriations" in getting along with him.
Hu Ge admitted that he is a male chauvinist. He believes that when two people are together, he should make money to support her and take care of her.
And Xue Jianing is a Northeastern girl, born with the enthusiasm and chicness of a northern girl.
In a relationship, she doesn't care who pays more or who takes care of whom. What matters is that she has the other person in her heart.
The traditional Hu Ge made Xue Jianing feel that the two of them were inappropriate.
No matter how much we fall in love, no matter how well-matched we are, it can’t overcome the differences in personality and outlook on life.
Xue Jianing's heart is very strong, optimistic, open-minded, gentle and generous.
Hu Ge was attracted by her maternal nature from the beginning.
However, this kind of love is mixed with too many impurities.
At the end of 2008, the two broke up peacefully.
Years later, when the past was mentioned again, Hu Ge hinted at the reason for the breakup.
Hu Ge must be a filial son, he must take the overall situation into consideration, and cannot destroy two women because of his selfishness.
What if you bite the bullet and marry Xue Jianing, what if you are not happy after marriage.
In order for her to gain a new relationship and meet a better man, he respects her idea of ??separation.
It’s not that Hu Ge doesn’t love her, but he loves her to the core.
When Hu Ge had eyes for her, she chose to leave and end it.
Hu Ge’s love for Xue Jianing is something that cannot be expressed in words.
Hu Ge knew that his mother’s requirements for her daughter-in-law were not something ordinary people could achieve.
Hu Ge is also disgusted with his mother's high demands.
He openly complained about whether he wanted a scientist or postdoctoral fellow to be her daughter-in-law.
Obviously, Hu Ge’s mother is not a future mother-in-law that Xue Jianing can defeat.
Long-term pain is worse than short-term pain, if you really marry her.
She will shed more than just a few tears. Hu Ge understands her mother's character and Xue Jianing's character very well.
Two people are not of the same level.
The one who will be injured will be Xue Jianing.
After Xue Jianing and Hu Ge broke up, Xue Jianing said nothing about Hu Ge in public.
After the breakup, Hu Ge concentrated on his career and filmed TV series "Myth", "The Pretender", "Nirvana in Fire", etc.
Hu Ge’s career has also reached a new high point.
Xue Jianing responded generously: "I have watched Teacher Hu's new drama. As a friend, I am happy for him and wish him better."
Hu Ge became popular, but she did not take the opportunity to ride on his popularity, nor did she hype it up.
On the contrary, Xue Jianing deliberately kept a distance and wished him good luck in his career as a friend.
Xue Jianing, who left Hu Ge, has been tepid and her career has been stagnant.
They restored their relationship as friends and have always been in contact.
One night in 2014, Hu Ge brought a bowl of chicken soup to see Xue Jianing who was filming on the set.
Most people thought they would get back together.
Xue Jianing replied: "There is no reconciliation, we are good friends."
Hu Ge replied: "Let him let go of the past."
Hu Ge was born in Shanghai in 1982.
His mother is a teacher. Her educational philosophy is that the more frustrated you are, the more courageous you become. She was very strict with him since he was a child, requiring him to be low-key in everything he does.
When Hu Ge was a child, he lived with his parents and grandparents in a house of less than 30 square meters.
When Hu Ge was a child, he had very low self-esteem. Because he did not score 80 points in the exam, his mother would slap him in the palm with a stick.
Even if she gets 100 points in the exam, her mother will not become obedient and docile and learn to hide her feelings.
When he was 5 years old, his parents sent Hu Ge to the "Little Star Art Troupe" for professional training.
Here, he is afraid of the stage, but even more afraid of his mother.
He could only grit his teeth and persist in practicing every time. For him, it was not enjoyment, but suffering.
Over time, no matter how different the character is from himself, he can still perform another version of himself on the stage.
For a long time, Hu Ge did not dare to live out of himself.
When Buhu was a child, his mother unfortunately suffered from breast cancer. The doctor told him not to make her angry and to keep her in a happy mood.
In order to take care of his mother's mood, he sacrificed himself.
At the age of 19, he was admitted to the Directing Department of the Central Academy of Drama and the Acting Department of the Shanghai Theater Academy.
After many considerations, he chose to stay in his hometown.
Until he met Xue Jianing, his consideration for others never changed.
After experiencing a car accident, he put aside his idol aura and regained his original intention of being an actor.
Put aside the fame and fortune, go cycling in Tibet, pick up garbage along the road, build a rural primary school, and do something you want to do.
Keep yourself in a happy mood and throw away those depressing moods.
Many years later, Hu Ge said frankly that at that time, he thanked everyone, but he did not publicly thank my girlfriend, which became a big regret in his heart.
Some people are destined not to be husband and wife in this life, but are only suitable to be friends.
For some people, if they miss it, they miss it. No matter how much they say or do, it will not help.
Fate, no one can decide this kind of thing.
They did not break up with each other or get entangled with each other.
They have always been by each other's side as "good friends".
Hu Ge, 40, was calm and composed when people around him urged him to get married.
44-year-old Xue Jianing has long been bearish on everything.
They are no longer the ones who put "marriage first". What they pursue is more spiritual comfort.
Two parallel lines will meet one day.
In June 2021, Xue Jianing starred in the musical "The Orphan of Zhao".
Hu Ge made a low-key appearance at the musical. He was wearing a black suit, a black fisherman hat and a black mask, sitting in the audience like an ordinary audience.
After the performance, Hu Ge, Xue Jianing and the staff took a photo together, sparking heated discussion.
Is this the time when the former "golden boy" is getting back together?
Apparently not.
The fact that they are in the same frame is surprising.
We obviously love each other but are not together.
Fourteen years have passed, and they have found something that is both love and family.
Bitter with sour and sweet taste.
Although, everyone has a blind spot that they cannot get out of, and others cannot break into.
But Hu Ge and Xue Jianing chose a bright road.
"Facing is not necessarily the saddest thing.
Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy.
Getting it may not last long.
Losing does not necessarily mean you no longer have it.
Don’t fall in love because of loneliness, and don’t end up lonely all your life because of misplaced love.”