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Red face, relative to men, she is a female confidant. That is not a wife, that is not a lover, more than ordinary friends. She is able to enter the depths of your soul, so that you are not defended frankly relative to the confidant; she is adoring you know you best, but never ask you for anything confidant. She is far from concerned about you hanging on to you, and you can warm up with each other and comfort each other's soulmate.
In a man's mind, red face is much more perfect than a wife, much more noble than a lover. A part of her life, destined to take out with you without regret, for you to carry the sadness and happiness. As well, you sad that is sad, you like that is happy.
Also at the very time, she is another level of meaning of the man's wife, thousands of mountains, mountains and mountains outside the holding warm and cold; also, do not need to use the body and men entangled in the joy, but can make the man can not forget the person.
Can be the red face of the person, must be a woman in the elf, can get red face of the person, must be a man in the wise. In the world of red dust, also often accused of people are characterized as a male and female confidant relationship a euphemistic ambiguous definition: the fourth category of the kind of emotion.
For men, the wife has been a cup of plain water, tasteless. After the marriage of zero distance aesthetic, long look at each other will also have visual fatigue. Close to each other's hearts, but also should be argued, the length of time, but also slowly distant and even Xiang Xiang. Keeping up with the ordinary trivial days, the woman is often the first to become the loss of tolerance and confide in the bosom.
But the red face has been outside the corner of the marriage. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night. Perhaps because of the distance, perhaps because they have never gotten, will slowly precipitate in the hearts of men become the only perfect. With such a perfect contrast to the mediocrity of real life, is destined to be two absolute. Thus, the man clamor sinking sentiment began to have a restless drift away.
Lover as a cup of wine, a drunkenness can solve a thousand sorrows. Can let a person repressed wandering passion, there is a catharsis and outbreak of the ground. That is, not willing to be lonely and afraid of sinking into mediocrity of the two souls, the dance of forgetfulness at the edge of the thunder pool, enthusiastic in the delivery of each other's body and mind, pretending not to hear the gossip, not to see the weeping eyes.
Even though, having a lover is the dream of several men, but the reality of the cruelty, and from the secular concept of all kinds of, as well as can not be cut off from the family, have the courage to step out of the city to maneuver around in the wife and the lovers of men, it seems that there are not many. Even if you can do, most of them are also burnt out, such as sighing, *** enjoy the peach and plum fragrance of the people's happiness Yan, difficult also!
Ruby is a tea, fragrant and sweet. Easy man tired repressed soul, unloading men proud and conceited camouflage. They are neither mediocre nor realistic, but less greedy in their demands and possessions. There is no woman who understands you better than a redhead, and there is no woman who knows better than a redhead what to take and what to do.
Therefore, the cloud, with a world of red face is almost the world's men constant desire.
And, in real life, wife, lover, red face three into one, almost impossible. Then, the woman face their own devotion to the man, generally can only choose a role to play.
Either hold on to the marriage and be his wife for life. Love, to blossom. Although solid, but the initial love is destined to be in the firewood and oil and salt in the blandness gradually wear out.
Either give up the name, do his short lover. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty and get out of the way, and then get out of the way. I don't expect to hold hands for the rest of my life.
Either you miss him from afar, or you'll be his lover for a lifetime. His responsibility for his wrong love, his sinking his struggle, have nothing to do with you. You just have to be a faithful listener. He was happy to help you happy, he aggrieved you for his worry.
As Eileen Chang said: when she met him, she became very low, very low, low to the dust. But the heart has blossomed from the dust.
This is probably the gesture of the red face. She is just a resting place for all his secrets, witnessing his vulnerability, sharing his sorrows and joys, but never stopping within his life.
The word "red face", if not to achieve a transcendent oblivion of the realm of women, but also extremely. This kind of, than love shallow than friendship deep, both telepathic communication between each other, but not like a simple love of men and women. There is no love and obviously love, interaction in the position to pinpoint very accurately. One step forward is vulgar, back a little and fade.
And not to mention the hard work of maintaining, but on the inferiority of man, how far can such holy and flawless emotions go? And how many people believe? Both the red face, nature is not the only one under the protection of the law.
So, the redheads can't care and count how many points a man's heart can be divided into and how many individuals it can be given to. In between, it doesn't include the part that he leaves in his intimacy that he will never take out and share with a woman.
To be a man's red face is really a dangerous emotional game. In this game, men always like to violate, and women are always easy to hurt.
Perhaps the fourth type of emotion, just a lonely soul longing for a warm comfort.
It is a self in love with another self. It also creates a perfection, falls in love with this perfection, and, in the end, still breaks this perfection.
Too often, the fourth category of emotion always begins with ambiguity and ends in oblivion.
Because between men and women, it is really difficult to maintain this platonic love. Who can keep a lifetime of consistently pure and noble emotions? Who dares to say that he can stick to the last moral line in the face of temptation?
Men and women, in fact, have been slowly approaching each other in a regressive manner. Their dependence on each other and love, destined to be a gradual warming, from quantitative to qualitative process.
Any accidental external force may contribute to the leap from quantitative change to qualitative change. But once the thunderstorm is crossed, losing that holiness, the relationship between the two will be degraded from a pure and absolute red face to a mundane lover.
When a man's desire for a woman's body exceeds his dependence on her spirit, the so-called "red face" becomes a myth.
Even Lin Huiyin and Jin Yuelin, who made a great success of the story, also retreated from their wives because of their desire to be with their wives. Because love is always synonymous with selfishness and the desire to possess.
Choosing a woman to be a woman, for some men, is actually one of the safest and most irresponsible ways of possessing emotions. Or rather, it is a kind of psychological compensation for the emotion that can never be obtained.
A romantic title, you can circle the woman's love of a lifetime, so that the spiritual betrayal to avoid the moral constraints, and become unscrupulous and even unlimited nobility and purity.
This kind of human indifference, materialistic era, love has become a fast food, the soul of the warmth, often succumbed to **** the chase. Who is still willing to keep the promise of the end of the world, insisting on a lifetime across the mountains and the sea of the spirit of the spirit of looking at each other?
Throughout the ages, how many people can there be in the real red face story? It's not that women won't do it, it's just that how many people in the world are always with a heart of gold, talent, and need to look up to the personality of a frank gentleman, worthy of a woman to deliver the rest of her life, willing to do it for the rest of his life?
Red face, hard to find and hard to meet.